My ex and I had an on and off relationship that was short-lived from 2017-to 2018, the breakup was always initiated by him and me having an anxious attachment style I would always text him a couple of months later except for the last time he broke up back in 2018 I never spoke to him again until almost a year later in 2019. This is someone that has depression and low self esteem, so when he came back he seemed nervous for me to take him back we were chatting and he was doing and saying all the right things, and was very persistent in facetiming and seeing me this was giving me so much anxiety because in the past he wasn't like this. So I ended up telling him I just recently started talking to someone and I don't think we should start a relationship. We said our goodbyes and good lucks and He blocked me instantly. I didn't talk to him ever since the fall of 2019. Earlier this year he had unblocked me on the platform he blocked me on and I was unblocked for about 1-2 months I can't remember but I had ignored it, he blocked me again and I just didn’t let it bother me. This week, I reached out to him by email asking how he is and I know we ended things really bad in the past and I tried to reach out to him before but did t get a response (I reached out in 2021) He responded by thanking me for reaching out and that it’s ok (not sure what it’s okay means but I told myself that he means there’s no need to reach out I don't know) and that he has no grudges and apologized if he has done me wrong. I replied and he never responded and it's been four days now. I have accepted in his response that he doesn't want to talk to me b/c perhaps what I said in the past, but I still love this person and I wanted us to talk again but respect his wishes if he doesn't want to communicate. Please, what do you advise me to do? any advise is much appreciated. Thanks
Did I give my ex closure? we haven’t spoke since 2019 should I officially move on?
