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It’s been about 4 months now, but I’m at a point where I’m wondering why hasn’t my girlfriend invited me to her house yet to meet the parents. (She has been to my house before once, didn’t want to meet my parents though) In fact we only do something outside of school once a month. She never asks to hang out, I usually initiate it, but she never does and it bothers me. I don’t ask to hang out excessively, I ask maybe 2-3 times a month and only one of the 2-3 times she says she can. I’m wondering whether or not I should address this to her. She hangs out with her friend or friends during the week, but neglects to ever initiate anything with her boyfriend. I haven’t heard her call me boyfriend yet either.(Yes I have already asked her out to be my girlfriend)

Question: Do I address the issue of her being so distant? Her friend claims that she likes me a lot but she is just shy about showing her feelings.
(She is a INFP if that helps at all)

We are both 17 and graduate on the last week of May 2019. This is why I’m worried and want to build a better bond with her. I might have to consider letting her go if nothing changes during the summer.

So you have been going out with a really nice girl for 3 months and you have been getting on very well and finally decide to meet her parents. The parents seem nice and you have good convos. Then the dad asks you " so are you going to try and have sex with my daughter before marriage or will you wait until you get married? And are you going to save your viriginity for her?"

You may already have had sex with her or had sex with lots of girls before her.
You are around 20 years of age and so is your girlfriend.
What would you reply?

I recently started talking to this girl, and was head over heals about her. When she was done with school, we were interested in being together, starting to meet the parents, sex, stuff like that. But then she said she needed some time, because despite how much she liked me, she needed to fully get over her ex.
Basically the guy dumped her because he didn't want to drive 3 hours to see her.
I was extremely disappointed, because I put so much effort into things and she's been very one sided and quiet since. We got into a conversation last night, and she made me mad, and I said what's going on isn't fair to me, because I put so much effort into planning things and getting time off, to not do anything with her and have her vent about her ex and talk to me about things I didn't want to hear.
I tried saying he missed out and she didn't do anything wrong, but I think I'm making things worse. She said she doesn't know when she'll be ready, but insists I'm the best guy she's met and would want to be with me but "things will work out as they need to"
At this point I'm just very mad and sad. Would giving her time be beneficial or should I just drop it an move on?