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He's 27, I'm 24. We both have a 9 month old son together. Long story short, I don't mean to sound harsh but I love my son to death but I didn't want him at first. I was 23 and just felt like I needed to do so much before I had a child of my own, but after telling him, he didn't wanna hear it. He truly wanted this child and he works two jobs to support him. He buys our son EVERYTHING. He has a female friend who also has a child of her own, but she is single. He told me that he was in love with her and that she feels the same way but he would never go further with her because he respects us and our family and knows that he'll be hurting me as well as her.

The moment he told me that, I wanted to throw black dye on my not even fully paid for yet wedding gown but I kept my cool and asked him who he truly wants and he chose me. I feel at the back of my mind that he's with me out of convenience, because I'm the mother of his child, I make great money, we have our own place and he knows that I'm not a slacker. There's so much bitterness inside of me about this that I don't even want to be around him. I have to go pick up my son from my mother-in-laws home and I know that I can't talk to her about it, and my parents would just hate him. My friends will probably tell me to leave him, but we've built so much as a couple. Brought a home, had a child and I almost feel like my whole world is crashing down. He claims to love me and want to be with me but how if he loves another woman? This entire time that they were friends, she's dated several men and even had a baby, now he's just telling me this? She even said that she doesn't want anything with him because she's a mom and he's gonna be married. If you were me, what would you do?

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So, it went like this: He said something about my sister (he used to have a crush on, she hates him) And I said "Look if you like her then fine go for it - But don't keep leading me on" And he said "I was just talking about the coincidence" And I said "Oh haha, but still please don't lead me on" Basically after a while I ask him "What would you say if I said I liked you?" He said "Cool." Then I said "?" He said "Then we'll make me like you" I said "How can you make someone like someone?" Then he said no clue. So I said "haha fair enough. so u like me?" He said "what" I said "Do you like me" Him "That would be telling" Me "That's kind of the point" Him "Well my lips are sealed" me "Ha please" Him "what" me "You so like me XD" Him "Hypothetically if I did what would you do" Me *sends thumbs up* Him "Answer please" me "well maybe I'd hint to you to ask me out.. like I have been for like ever" After a while of banter: Me "Do u like me or not? Coz I'm sick of being pulled on" Him "do you like me" Me "I think I do" Him I like someone else but they don't like me so I kinda like other people too byt it's like a few people and up one of them" Then we basically drop it and talk until 12:30 AM And when I say night he said "Night then bae xx"