Search Results: troubled past

Have you ever gotten in trouble because you had more than one boss and they told you to do opposing things?

This happened to me this past week. The head manager told me to work on putting some things into the computer system during a day when he was off. But the supervisor who was on duty that day told me that we were too...

Flower7

Master Age: 40

Dating

How come people brought up good still become criminals?

My now ex boyfriend of 6 months got into a lot of trouble and he’s going away... if you know what I mean. I couldn’t stay with him I looked past his addiction issues and him being jobless, not wanting an education etc and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

She looks at me then looks away quickly?

So I was standing in line in my local supermarket. A girl who works there (she knows me) was busy a few meters away from me and I saw her and she turned her head to me the same moment but when we made eye contact she...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

How do I start?

so basically, im in high-school and i never found myself being interested in someone of my school. but the day kinda came,, i guess? anyway. i keep walking past this guy. eventho i can't see his full face, i think he's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Should I text him or should I move on?

So I was dating this guy for a only a few months. But it was amazing, I've had trouble in the past so find it hard to meet new people let alone be myself around them and open up to them but with him it was so easy. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

How can I stop seeking external validation?

Mostly looking for girls answers here because only girls will really get it. All my life I have struggled deeply with self image and reduced my value to what I look like and what other people think of me. It wasn’t until...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How can I stop making other people around me uncomfortable :( ?

I'm 25 years old have 0 friends and most of the time I'm alone... back in my school days I use to get bulled because I have a big nose I was always a quiet shy girl and still am. Middle school was the worst years of my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

I'm getting really skinny, but I want to gain weight. What should I do?

For the past couple of years I have been having trouble with gaining and maintaining weight. I weigh 100 pound and I notice that my arms and legs are way skinnier than before, especially my legs. (I used to weigh 120...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

What happened to my sleep cycle?

So I just moved into college like, nearly 3 weeks ago and all of my good sleep apparently is still at home. The first few nights I just slept okay, then I had a few nights where I couldn’t sleep until my roommate was back...

maucikay

Xper 3 Age: 24

Guy's Behavior

What is your go to method for calming down after a heated argument?

I know i might occasionally get in heated comment sections on the internet like all of us have before, but im often very good about controlling my anger in public. Earlier today I lost that control and tore into a co...

pajamasam

Yoda Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Opened up to a (lost) friend, did I do a good thing?

Today I did something I wouldn't think I could do. I opened up to a (lost) friend. Well, it all started 1 year ago. I have met her at work. It was her first day and we talked a bit. After work, we decided to hang out...

ItsMeHugh

Xper 3 Age: 31

Relationships

I have opened up to a (lost) friend, did I do a good thing?

ItsMeHugh

Xper 3 Age: 31

Dating

How to move past being hung up on one girl?

For the last 3 years my I’ve had the biggest crush on my friend who is a girl but she definitely does not feel the same way I’ve tried to ask her out but it didn’t work out... we hang out a lot and text a good bit......

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I dont really have any momentos of my past/childhood is that troubling?

I was a socially awkward kid growing up (and somewhat still am) i didn't have very many friends. I never really felt liked i belong as a kid i had a small circle of friends but i never really hung out with them. I...

Tomsta

Guru Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

How can you tell if a guy actually cares.. ?

The guy I’ve been talking to for months now, Says he doesn’t want a relationship because he’s too broken.. Cuz of past relationships.. And I’m sure how I’ve acted in the past (accusing him of lying to me and stuff cuz I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girl who traumatized me as a teen now works under me, should I confront her?

To start this off, I have been working through school at a restaurant in the neighbourhood. Just two weeks ago, they hired a new staff member and told me that she would be following me, and I was told to show her around....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is it almost over?

My ldr man and I have been in love with each other for a long time. He calls me the love of his life and he recently told me I'm also his best friend, which surprised me and it made me so happy to hear he views me like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why can't I get a break from girls getting boys into relationship before me?

I knew that boys were fishy and I he went back to his ex girlfriend. This has been an issue with me, each time I tried to get to know a guy always seem to have a get a girlfriend. Yet why does this happen and why it keeps...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Significant other seems distant or maybe I’m too clingy?

I just need another persons advice. This girl and I have been seeing each other for two weeks. I feel like we started off super fast but she absolutely adored me and I felt the same about her. One week after getting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do you accept change when you feel like you never changed?

I think I have trouble letting go of the past because I want everything to stay the same. I lived in my depressed bubble for so long that I thought when I finally started to feel better I could go back. The truth is the...

apple24

Master Age: 30