Search Results: wasting time with a girl

Why is she wasting my time and what’s the point?

Hey guys; looking for legit replies to a situation that’s going on. I matched with a girl on a dating app, and we hit it off. FaceTime and talking on the phone led up to us hanging out which went very well; she was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex got married and had a baby in less than 2 years since we broke up. Is it wrong that it bothers me so much?

First off, I don't have any feelings for him. In fact, I regret wasting 6 years of my life with that asshole. He broke up with me when I was going through a very difficult time in my life; I was struggling to find a job...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys/girls breadcrumb?

Honestly, this new texting trend is worse than ghosting. Breadcrumbing is where one keeps in contact just enough for the other to think that maybe there will be a future of a relationship. I mean sure they might be nice,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, do you text girls inbetween dates?

I've met a guy over an app. He didn't seem much of a texter, he also works even during the lockdown, and said he's really independent and values his alone time (I am the same). After maybe a few days of texting a bit,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls text you then all of a sudden stop texting? feel like I wasted my time what should I do?

So there this girl I met on tinder we talk on tinder for two days she left me her number we been talking for like two or 3 weeks then one day we where texting while she was at work she was having a bad day she finally got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will making girl jealous break her hard to get act?

This girl Is hot and cold, tries to make me jealous, ignores messages etc. I’ve tried some things like stopping messaging her and every time she will try again to get my attention, then backs away. She’s particularly good...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A Guy's Perspective on One Girl's Perspective

I thought I would take up @hsshannah96 suggestion and shed some light from a guy's perspective so that certain girls can take some time to possibly wake up from the fact that the world does not revolve around them. Common...

COMMODOREII

Master Age: 46

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Guy's Behavior

Why is he sending me nudes already?

I met a guy online- he seemed really laid back and cool, and was super easy to talk to. We talked for maybe 2-3 weeks and within the first few days (of essentially just small talk) he was snapchatting me about wishing I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would you be interested in this girl?

So you're a really popular guy and you know every pretty girl. Then there's this one girl who is an introvert, doesn't post anything on social media, doesn't go out. She's pretty. You've never met her or spoken to...

lovelycara

Xper 5 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Why do some guys do this?

I’ve been talking to this guy for 4 months. We sleep together.. lately he barely talks to me.. When he comes over, We don’t always have sex but we barely talk unless he’s gonna come over.. He claims it’s cuz he works a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The RIGHT vs. WRONG to break a date with a guy.

I'm writing this take just as my two cents for how women should properly break a date with a guy. Just yesterday I had girl flake out & ghost me on a date. Just a FYI meeting up was originally her idea too. I did...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Education & Career

How to get past childhood bullying in adulthood

All through school i was bullied for lots of different reasons. I've always been very petite so i was easy to push around and I can be shy and awkward at times as well as having learning disabilities and just struggling...

Alice2398

Guru Age: 28

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Why do some people feel the need to make relationships necessarily complicated for no reason?

My first love was like this and i see it in other relationships to and i think its pathetic in emotionally abusive. Its like these people love the drama. The first guy i ever loved, loved me back but for some reason...

Alice2398

Guru Age: 28

How to recover after making myself look like a ass?

I was too emotional. She probably think I’m crazy. A girl was using me for attention and ego boost and I confronted her. She was wasting my time and I had enough. I liked her and she didn’t like me but that didn’t stop...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are dating apps really for introverts and good guys? I have trouble finding quality (and intelligent) girls who are looking for a long term relationship?

I honestly have trouble finding quality girls who are interested in a long term relationship. Most girls that I find: smoke, drink, party, are pretty much extroverts, smoke week, have no really interest in long term...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was I wrong to end this or I should have left it how it was?

Me and this girl had a toxic situation for 2.5 years. I wouldn’t say we were friends but I liked her. We used to text occasionally and she mostly initiated but it mostly idle conversation. When I text her she was cold...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like old school mellow/serious guys?

22 yo but don’t live the crazy/ party lifestyle that people my age do. I have a soft spot for old songs, movies, I enjoy my time alone and taking in the simplicity in life. It seems as if I’m wasting my time waiting...

ctrxxx

Xper 6 Age: 27

Why wouldn't a girl just tell me to go fuck myself so I can stop wasting my time?

Anonymous

(25-29)