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It's no denying that the millennial generation tend to have an attitude of not wanting to work hard and everything must be immediate and easy to obtain. And this type of attitude tends to translate over into dating where people want that spark/click/chemistry immediately and attraction for the person right off the bat and become totally lovey dovey feeling for that person within a couple weeks to 1 month of knowing them.
And it's not surprising that people tend to jump into bed with this kind of mindset by the 3-4th date.
However, i cam across some comments by male gagers about building a relationship on this i'd like to share:

"relationship built on attraction. its shallow. love comes latter after you get to know a person. however infatuation can leave you blind to lots of things. id rather be with a women that i respect and fall in love later than to be with a women who gives me butterflies just to find out she's a shit person."

And this was true in old times. Many couples that lasted much longer than today both parties won't head over heels with each other on first meeting but learned to love and respect each other.

" Waste majority of times a man and a woman will meet and then build up a relationship from nothing. Sometimes you may even have the feeling that you would have to force yourself to like them. But love made from ground up is more stronger than something that came from a "spark."
By definition, a spark is something that goes out very quickly anyway."

"Well that spark sometimes happens later, some times its not a spark so much as a click (ie your indifferent and then suddenly your not)"

It does seem however, women are more culpable to end a relationship with a guy who is good on paper and has everything she is looking for her in a partner because he did not give her butterflies right off the bat.


Do you think this whole spark thing ruins the chance of having stable relationship?

"I'll be candid with you; I feel like the quality of women has dropped dramatically over the past decade.

I always get flamed for saying this, but who cares:
-I am 25
-I have my Bachelors
-I have a great job
-I have my own car
-I have my own place
-I dress nice and work out often
-I am confident, goal oriented and know what I want out of life
-I don't party too much, I barely drink and I don't smoke

I feel that I am quality man, and I want to meet a quality woman. However... it's funny... at my age, here's the type of women I see often:

-Women who hang out with less than reputable men and constantly complain that all men are bad
-Women with princess personalities
-Women who party a lot
-Women who already have 2+ kids by age 23
-Women who continuously waste a guy's time, especially when his feelings are genuine.

I am talking about women ages 18-28 by the way.

Here's the kicker - 2 days ago, I overheard this college girl talking to her friend. She was talking about how this PhD student has a huge crush on her, is such a nice guy and comes over every night to brush her hair. She said that she will never in her life have sex with him, because he is a nice guy. She said that maybe when she is 25, she will go for guys like him... but for now she likes having sex with men "who aren't shit".

This is how women behave these days, and it's sickening."

From reading this it seems many women make a conscious decision to mess with one type of men in their youth then go for another type of guy later on. It's not about maturing.

When a gager post a question saying he doesn't find women over 25 year old attraction. People respond by bashing him and posting up celebrities over 25 as evident that women are beautiful pass 25 but people don't factor in that's professional makeup, they have less stressful lives, and are in top 10% of wealth and can afford good food,, trainers. Your average 25 year old woman is not going to look like that.