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I've never been charged but I have committed 5 class B misdemeanor offenses from late 2018- late 2019. All of which were the same offense, soiliciting an escort.

It was only sex though, I didn't threaten any of them or anything, so the only offense I could've been charged with was the class B misdemeanor for solicitation. Police found out about it I'm sure by looking through the phone records for one of the escorts that went missing months later. This was the third time I'd done it at that point.

I assured them that I had nothing to do with her disappearance and told them I'd never do it again. I meant it but I allowed my apathy to rule me again and did it two more times. After that, my mind finally caught up with my actions and how wrong what I was doing is.

Since then, I've grown a lot as a person and become much more aware of my mistakes.
If I could go back, I wouldn't have done what I did at all but I can't go back and can only move forward. Luckily the escort was found alive but scared not too long after and I have not received any further contact from police.

At the time I didn't like police as much because well, I was breaking the law and was afraid they'd investigate me over something that to me at the time, was no big deal. I realize now that soliciting an escort is immoral and just because I was paying them and they'd hug me doesn't mean they enjoyed anything that happened in the hotel room.

On the bright side, I tracked some social media pages down and the girls I saw are doing much better and pursuing careers that hopefully will be rewarding and joyful. I didn't contact them though as they probably don't want to hear from me. The statute of limitations has expired and law enforcement has decided not to charge me. I've become very fond of them as they gave me a second chance that I didn't deserve. Have you been charged before?

I've known this girl online for over 6 years, she's older than me and we use to date off and on. But we have mainly just been friends because she kept breaking up and wanting to get back together online.

Whenever she would break up with someone she would message me in a flirtatious way. A little over a year ago I had a close family member to pass while we were in a relationship and she broke up with me while I was dealing with that situation not making matters any good.

She also would tell me about guys she's dated or is dating and she would always message me about how she can't find a guy to date while breaking up with someone every other week.

She would as me for photos which I sent but she never sent me a photo of herself only once years ago, but whenever she would ask me I'd ask her if she would send me one of her since I did and she said she would but never did. She even gave me her phone number once and different people answered the phone as she said she lived with her parents. So I'm guessing it was her family picking up the house phone and not her actual number.

She recently gave me another number but always asked why I didn't call her and I told her I didn't feel comfortable giving out my number but gave her an email alias to contact me through which she never did.

She sent me a screenshot of something on her phone but I'm guessing didn't realize her messages showed with someone sending the message "Hey b***e (guys name)" So I researched her name and location and many people live there and showed someone in their 50s by her name lived at the address, was able to locate by phone number, and also a relative named (with the guys name) lived across the country.

So as of today she deactivated her account online not informing me, whenever I would make a new account or take a break I would tell her since we were friends.