I knew a guy online and spent almost 2yrs talking and sexting with him, he's in a long term relationship so I knew we basically didn't have a future, even if deep inside I was really hoping we would.
When January 2022 began he changed completely, he acted like he didn't care about me, if he called it was like he wanted to hang up as soon as possible, when before he was the one calling over and over because he "loved my voice", I found out that he was talking and sexting with other girls online, and when I told him I knew what he was doing he tried to disappear as soon as he could, but I didn't let him, he said he had seasonal depression, that his sex drive was gone and he was trying to talk to other girls to "jump start it" and be that exciting guy he was before for me, then he said he wanted us to be more than sexting but didn't know how to tell me, so I was confused and feeling awful because I kept on sending him sexy things to keep the spark alive and it turned out that he lied and didn't liked anything of what I sent days before.
Fast-forward to last week, he said he wanted us to be just friends, that maybe things would flow smoothly and we would find each other again, I hated that so I told him how I didn't like it, he ignored me once more and stopped talking to me, he ghosted me last week, haven't heard from him.
I've been thinking of letting his girlfriend know what a piece of shit he is, it's so unfair how I'm here with my anxiety killing me and my heart breaking, while he talks to other girls and goes to bed with his partner, enjoying life like he didn't play me, lied to me and fooeld me.
What should I do?
💔💔💔
When January 2022 began he changed completely, he acted like he didn't care about me, if he called it was like he wanted to hang up as soon as possible, when before he was the one calling over and over because he "loved my voice", I found out that he was talking and sexting with other girls online, and when I told him I knew what he was doing he tried to disappear as soon as he could, but I didn't let him, he said he had seasonal depression, that his sex drive was gone and he was trying to talk to other girls to "jump start it" and be that exciting guy he was before for me, then he said he wanted us to be more than sexting but didn't know how to tell me, so I was confused and feeling awful because I kept on sending him sexy things to keep the spark alive and it turned out that he lied and didn't liked anything of what I sent days before.
Fast-forward to last week, he said he wanted us to be just friends, that maybe things would flow smoothly and we would find each other again, I hated that so I told him how I didn't like it, he ignored me once more and stopped talking to me, he ghosted me last week, haven't heard from him.
I've been thinking of letting his girlfriend know what a piece of shit he is, it's so unfair how I'm here with my anxiety killing me and my heart breaking, while he talks to other girls and goes to bed with his partner, enjoying life like he didn't play me, lied to me and fooeld me.
What should I do?
💔💔💔
