Because he follows the same boundaries that they both set together , he makes her his priority hoping she makes him hers , if she makes him her priority than more than likely they will have a happy relationship together and trust won’t be an issue between them , if she doesn’t follow the boundaries she set with him? she is sadly digging her own grave by thinking he is going to kiss her ass but she doesn’t have to kiss his , and sadly that’s where most girls’ go wrong in a relationship because it becomes a double standard , and they wonder why their man left them for someone else or cheated on her with someone else. Most females want a guy that loves and cherishes her and makes her a priority but sadly she can’t do the same for him , I am not saying guys’ don’t do this either but females sadly hold the title on this one. She pretty much wants her cake and wants to eat it to , she thinks it’s ok for her to do certain things but not ok if her partner does those same things , and that’s why her relationship with him fails. Most guys’ are very territorial over a girl he gives his heart to , isay she takes it as he is being jealous and insecure , when really he is just trying to get her to respect hi. The same way she wants him to respect her. You can’t get jealous and insecure over something that isn’t yours period. Sadly most girls’ don’t grasp this concept and then they wonder why they end up single or cheated on. Most guys’ will not cheat on a girl that stays loyal and faithful to him , that makes him a priority over everyone else , if she chooses her friends over him and doesn’t accept him having friends? She is digging her grave. If your man isn’t running off with friends on a consistent basis and isn’t excluding you? You need to do the same for him or he is going to think you are up to no good , Mark my words your friends should never come before your partner , whether you agree or disagree , especially if you hate when he goes out with his friends and try to put a stop to it , you also need to put a stop to it as well.
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well by letting them be there in the first place. if you let them be there for you and they always show up when you let them, that's how you know you can trust them. if you never let someone be there for you, you won't ever know. tho if you let someone be there for you, you "may" be disappointed. you gotta accept that or you'll never find someone.
Best question of the month so far… Topics involving trust are hard to address especially if you’ve been hurt before. It’s so important to be able to trust anyone you let into your life or give your heart to….
The solution is very clear and honest communication… it might not seem super romantic, it may be a little awkward at times, but in the end it will lead you to a deeper connection and sense of trust with that person.
When he's there during times you need him the most.
When you feel safe with him.
When he do what he says. Everyone can promise, but not everyone can actually fulfill that.
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be there... for what, specifically? I ask because everyone has their limit. like, are you expecting him to help you get away with murder?
Within a relationship? Because he was there the day before, the week before, and the month before. That's what a relationship is. He's not a stranger.
If you have determined rightly or wrongly that he's unreliable or your relationship with him is patchy, well then you don't know for sure.
Taking to him about a particular upcoming event that you really need him for might help. But if the foundation is on sand, you're not going to know for sure.
You dont.
See, people just gamble.
Yet they do not realize they do.I'd say time... with time you get to know what people you can count on and who aren't worth your time.
Given time your natural women's intuition will start telling you.
1. Wants to spend to time with you on a constant basis. 2. Relationship with parents, bothers/sisters. 3. Job stability 4. Finances. How he spends his money. 5. He is a man of his word.
It’s based on past action and words. The more you see him show up and complete promises the more you build trust
Usually if he says that he will be there he will be there. Just believe their word.
If they break their word then they can't be trusted. Simple.If you chase Chads you will get Chad results.
That's easy. If she chooses a man with character that's an automatic. If she doesn't understand what the hallmarks of character are than that's her problem. Life's going to be hard.
At least 90% of the time, you can't. You just have to hope for the best.
The man must prove himself ready to support her during good and bad times.
When he does more than expected and tries to comprehend the woman and constantly messages you
I don't know why you wouldn't trust him unless he's given you reason not to
How can a man trust a woman at all these days?
You can’t expect him to be there people always leave
"Actions speak louder than words."
Because he's always done as he promised.
Get to know him
How does a man know he can trust a woman to be there? The same reasons
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