How can a woman know a man is trustworthy?

[Radiate143]

How do trustworthy men act in new relationships.

[caring__1]

The key is to observe whether the person's words and actions mesh and reinforce each other. Women often overlook actions, as long as they get the words they want to hear. Considering how one's choices impact others before choosing to say or do anything is another thing to pay attention to. Finally, people who frequently say "always" or "never" or make extreme claims generally are ones to avoid. When people promise the moon, they generally feel people wouldn't accept them as they are, so they need to promise more than they are capable of actually doing.

[Radiate143]

"When people promise the moon, they generally feel people wouldn't accept them as they are, so they need to promise more than they are capable of actually doing."

Nice!

[Mach40]

To determine if a man is trustworthy, look for consistency, honesty,
reliability, respect, and accountability in his actions and words.
Consider whether he respects boundaries, shows empathy, supports your
goals, and seeks a meaningful, long-term relationship. Building trust
takes time and open communication, so address any concerns openly. Trust
is a mutual effort in a healthy relationship. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Radiate143]

Thanks Chat🤖 🫂

[Mach40]

😎👍

[Rei13]

This has probably already been said but do his words and actions match up? How does he treat the people around him? Is he able to maintain steady friendships? Does he typically pursue a ton of women/spend time with multiple women or is it only one? Is he self centered or is everyone else always in the wrong? Really hard to put it on one thing but you can usually tell based on a combination of actions, body language, and words. Generally less words than the other two tbh but can still be an indicator

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

By knowing that he IS NOT.

How a creature with his brain in his penis can be trusted?

[ohsheeT]

All you have to do is ask him and depending on what he says and how he says it if he's lying to you he'll give you the truth in the same sentence you need to watch his eyes you need to watch the color of his cheeks need to listen to what he says because it's not what he says it's what he doesn't say

[Radiate143]

Asking and believing words is the most unreliable method.

[ohsheeT]

I would say you're completely right.
And the reason why I said what I said is because I can read people pretty well.

We all have an energy within us that energy is our guide and our teacher.. if you and I were standing right next to each other and we were talking I would be looking deep into your eyes so I can hear every word that you're saying.
But at the same time hearing what you're not saying sometimes that's more important

And then when you put all those together you can not only feel what they're saying is either true or not that you can see it in their actions their tone of voice their eye movement

If you are ever around the guy when he's around his friends listen to the way he talks to them. That will tell you who he is in a nutshell
Does he talk about other people in a negative way that will tell you everything

The way he treats other people will tell you everything

And then you yourself do you believe in yourself because if you don't you're not going to believe in anybody else

[OlderAndWiser]

Invest time, get experience with the guy, and trust will develop, or you will realize he doesn't deserve to be trusted.

[Apple1996]

Its best not to trust anyone. People can turn on their partner real fast

[Charliefretz329]

Truth

[Apple1996]

@Charliefretz329 yep never know where someone else's head is at. I love my husband to death but never can fully trust him

[Charliefretz329]

All it takes is one hit to the head and someone’s whole personality can change.

[havingfun2023]

His personality, his eyes, his smile. Or however he handles bad news/criticism or the word No, even if it's just like a request to go to a particular movie or a particular dinner, does hearing No, how does it affect any of us, so I guess surely all of the above would give answers 👀😋

[HitsyHonesty]

The one thing that got me the most confirmation was just spending a lot of time with him and really getting to know them. A guy is one of many if you only look at him on the surface. They truly shine or crumble when you put some time into getting to know them.

[Giddyup]

We can never be certain if someone is trustworthy. Listen to what they say and observe how they act. And not necessarily towards you, but to others when you are with them!

A trustworthy person will generally be genuine and slightly humble in their words. On the actions side, they will be consistent with you as well as others. In a trustworthy relationship, you should feel that their focus is mostly on you.

Trust is earned, not given!

[D_Bone_Steak]

Just observe... if he's not hiding with his phone in the bathroom then what are you worried about?

If he is though... I don't have to say what it is.

[Radiate143]

LOL.

[Unit1]

Good question.

This is not something, that can simply be answered with a plan in advance to vet out untrustworthy guys.

Your best bet is having *normal* and *reliable* guy friends and consult them when you have encountered either questionable behavior or too-good-to-be-true scenarios from your partner. Usually we can tell.

[BigDog1989]

See if you can find his tell. You'll have to experience a lie, to do it, but, the easiest way to tell if someone's lying or not, is to spot their tell

A tell is something they'll do, if they're lying. For example trump:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKOgN_9jFT0

[Nikki1989]

The problem is, most men will just say what they think you want to hear, and it is rarely genuine. You just have to give it time to see if they are worthy.

[Radiate143]

Yes, the masks slip pretty quick these days.

[Anonymous]

Assume he isn't and take your precautions, more often that not you will assume correctly. If he happens to actually be trustworthy well enjoy the good surprise.

[Radiate143]

The challenge is that guys can feel rejected when you are being cautious. The bad ruins traumatized you then ythe good one's get put through the ringer.

[Opinion Owner]

Men who can handle you being cautious can fuck off. They should stop being shit if they want women to be more carefree around them. Don't compromise on your safety for some dude who will leave or cheat some point

[Radiate143]

No, of course. I guess the fine balance between assertion, boundary setting and being a bitch for no reason.

[exitseven]

This is why you don't have sex on the first date. You have to put in the time.

[Radiate143]

Oh no. Who does that?

[exitseven]

people who find out whether or not you can trust a guy.

[zagor]

Who does what? Have sex on first date or put in the time?

[Radiate143]

@zagor @exitseven oh I see the ambiguity. Puts out in the first date. I don't even Koss on a first date.

[zagor]

I've done that... definitely not the norm tho

[Anonymous]

i have no idea. I sometimes dont pay bills when i said i would coz i wanted the money for other things. So im not trustworthy. Although I've never cheated on a woman so i am in that respect. Lifes tough i suppose.
Although chick's morals are fluid so theyre untrustworthy in a fidelity sense. Maybe they pay their bills on time on the other hand, The ones I've lived with do.

[thegreenyogi]

I don't think there's really any good way of knowing for sure whether any person is trustworthy. Just go with what gut tells you and hopefully the person you're dealing with won't let you down. There's no gain if you don't take chances.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He acts trustworthy? Do you not know what that means? Surely men don’t need to be spoonfed the idea of what it is to be a good person worthy of trust in a romantic relationship? The bar hasn’t gotten that low.

[Radiate143]

It has.

[RingOfFire]

"How can a woman know a man is trustworthy?"

Time is the only way.

[Radiate143]

It's more moments, I think.

[Fireguy17]

It's called trust which can be hard to do at times.
You either trust and believe in him and he has to do the same with you.

[Exterminatore]

Watch their actions. Actions should be consistent with words. What they do will tell you everything, not what they say.

[genericname85]

you can never "know" if anyone is trustworthy in general. you can only make an educated guess based on your experience.

[Massageman]

How can a man know a woman is trustworthy? How do trustworthy women act in new relationships?