How can a woman know a man is trustworthy?

Question

How do trustworthy men act in new relationships.

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

The key is to observe whether the person's words and actions mesh and reinforce each other. Women often overlook actions, as long as they get the words they want to hear. Considering how one's choices impact others before choosing to say or do anything is another thing to pay attention to. Finally, people who frequently say "always" or "never" or make extreme claims generally are ones to avoid. When people promise the moon, they generally feel people wouldn't accept them as they are, so they need to promise more than they are capable of actually doing.

Mach40 · Accepted Answer

To determine if a man is trustworthy, look for consistency, honesty,
reliability, respect, and accountability in his actions and words.
Consider whether he respects boundaries, shows empathy, supports your
goals, and seeks a meaningful, long-term relationship. Building trust
takes time and open communication, so address any concerns openly. Trust
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Rei13 · Accepted Answer

This has probably already been said but do his words and actions match up? How does he treat the people around him? Is he able to maintain steady friendships? Does he typically pursue a ton of women/spend time with multiple women or is it only one? Is he self centered or is everyone else  always  in the wrong? Really hard to put it on one thing but you can usually tell based on a combination of actions, body language, and words. Generally less words than the other two tbh but can still be an indicator

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

By knowing that he IS NOT.  How a creature with his brain in his penis can be trusted?

ohsheeT · Answer

All you have to do is ask him and depending on what he says and how he says it if he's lying to you he'll give you the truth in the same sentence you need to watch his eyes you need to watch the color of his cheeks need to listen to what he says because it's not what he says it's what he doesn't say

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Invest time, get experience with the guy, and trust will develop, or you will realize he doesn't deserve to be trusted.

Apple1996 · Answer

Its best not to trust anyone. People can turn on their partner real fast

havingfun2023 · Answer

His personality, his eyes, his smile. Or however he handles bad news/criticism or the word No, even if it's just like a request to go to a particular movie or a particular dinner, does hearing No, how does it affect any of us, so I guess surely all of the above would give answers 👀😋

HitsyHonesty · Answer

The one thing that got me the most confirmation was just spending a lot of time with him and really getting to know them. A guy is one of many if you only look at him on the surface. They truly shine or crumble when you put some time into getting to know them.

Giddyup · Answer

We can never be certain if someone is trustworthy. Listen to what they say and observe how they act. And not necessarily towards you, but to others when you are with them!

A trustworthy person will generally be genuine and slightly humble in their words. On the actions side, they will be consistent with you as well as others. In a trustworthy relationship, you should feel that their focus is mostly on you.

Trust is earned, not given!

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Just observe... if he's not hiding with his phone in the bathroom then what are you worried about?  If he is though... I don't have to say what it is.

Nikki1989 · Answer

The problem is, most men will just say what they think you want to hear, and it is rarely genuine. You just have to give it time to see if they are worthy.

Unit1 · Answer

Good question.

This is not something, that can simply be answered with a plan in advance to vet out untrustworthy guys.

Your best bet is having *normal* and *reliable* guy friends and consult them when you have encountered either questionable behavior or too-good-to-be-true scenarios from your partner. Usually we can tell.

BigDog1989 · Answer

See if you can find his tell. You'll have to experience a lie, to do it, but, the easiest way to tell if someone's lying or not, is to spot their tell

A tell is something they'll do, if they're lying. For example trump:

Anonymous · Answer

Assume he isn't and take your precautions, more often that not you will assume correctly. If he happens to actually be trustworthy well enjoy the good surprise.

thegreenyogi · Answer

I don't think there's really any good way of knowing for sure whether any person is trustworthy. Just go with what gut tells you and hopefully the person you're dealing with won't let you down. There's no gain if you don't take chances.

exitseven · Answer

This is why you don't have sex on the first date. You have to put in the time.

Anonymous · Answer

i have no idea. I sometimes dont pay bills when i said i would coz i wanted the money for other things. So im not trustworthy. Although I've never cheated on a woman so i am in that respect. Lifes tough i suppose.
Although chick's morals are fluid so theyre untrustworthy in a fidelity sense. Maybe they pay their bills on time on the other hand, The ones I've lived with do.

RingOfFire · Answer

"How can a woman know a man is trustworthy?" Time is the only way.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

He acts trustworthy? Do you not know what that means? Surely men don’t need to be spoonfed the idea of what it is to be a good person worthy of trust in a romantic relationship? The bar hasn’t gotten  that  low.

Fireguy17 · Answer

It's called trust which can be hard to do at times. You either trust and believe in him and he has to do the same with you.

Exterminatore · Answer

Watch their actions. Actions should be consistent with words. What they do will tell you everything, not what they say.

genericname85 · Answer

you can never "know" if anyone is trustworthy in general. you can only make an educated guess based on your experience.

Massageman · Answer

How can a man know a woman is trustworthy? How do trustworthy women act in new relationships?

Still-alive · Answer

See if their actions and words match up is my way of knowing if anyone is trustworthy. also if they say they will do something or be somewhere at a certain time and they always do it. They show that they are honest

Anonymous · Answer

The same way a man can tell a woman is trustworthy. He really can't. He looks at all the signs and hope it's not all a big facade.

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

By how he behaves, is he willing to spent on you, how humble and giving to others he is

Anonymous · Answer

Looking for consistency in his words and actions

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

A good man will propose marriage first before asking about sex

glennos89 · Answer

Lower her standards because high value men are usually the ones that are more likely to cheat because they have many options to choose from🤷‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

Notice his behavior, actions. It would take some time babes

DreamLife7 · Answer

When you don't have to post these types of questions

Anonymous · Answer

She can’t Lmaoo 😂😂😂😂😂

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Actions speak louder than any words can

Mahitoo · Answer

Most men aren't.

WhitneySnow · Answer

They don’t hit on you right away

Anonymous · Answer

His actions

MaxUsefull · Answer

Look the way he treat his mother

In_Trance · Answer

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