I'd not support cheating but I would want them to feel shame without other punishment than that. Shame because, there are ways to bring up your feelings to your spouse without acting on it. I'm saying this if either gender does it but with the flavor of this post, I'd say the girl included, if she cheats I'd like her to feel the weight of what she's done, I'd like her to live life but I'd like her to carry this feeling over to her next relationship so she remembers what the weight of cheating feels like. Hollywood makes it seem fun but it should feel like a punch to your stomach. You did something wrong and should feel that you did. But I don't find the need to make them suffer past that idea, even though the revenge pictures you posted are very sweet and I've asked a question like this once before :) it's fun but I did give my real response :)
I like these billboards. Here in El Paso for Valentine's Day they opened up some fundraising to buy roaches to feed to the meerkats at the zoo. We we're allowed to the name the roach you bought your ex's name and you would get a video of the meerkat eating your roach. It sold out in like 2hrs and i missed my opportunity. 😂😂
I bet the meercats hope that a lot of people want revenge. Keeps them fed.
Yeah 😂😂
One of my ex boyfriend cheated on me, I knew it but didn't say anything n not long later I broke up with him. His new relationship with the girl he cheated with didn't get love from people. Even his mom n brother says no to her n 1 year into their relationship, he cheated again with other girl. My lessons are: karma really exists, everyone sees him as a cheater type n feels no sympathy, so just live your best life n leave them behind because that's their place, always behind you. I just have lots more things in my life that I care about than a stupid cheater.
Okay, those are fucking beautiful pictures. It would be extremely unlikely for someone to cheat on me. And I don’t just mean that as a narcissist (which I may or may not be.) But if I am ever in that situation you can bet your ass I will fucking destroy them. I’m just a devious bitch like that.
Then you would definitely do one of the things in the pictures.
Not sure exactly what I would do, kinda depends on the specifics. Probably wouldn’t destroy the person’s car because that could get me into some legal shit. And I don’t think I could afford the billboard one (I’d never do a joint bank account.) But something that would ruin their image. If I played my cards right I could probably even ruin their parent’s marriage.
Seek mental help, sick person.
@esotericstory Lol, you bad bro?
@Sarahr123 That’s actually a pretty fair point. Only said ruin their marriage because it popped in my mind as something devastating that I’m pretty sure I could do, and It’s legal. Better to ruin their perception of him. There is a reason I keep documentation while in a relationship.
Documentation? Damn. 😮
Bahaha I’ll be your rebound! Don’t be dumb.
So that's how you became a Yoda the narcissism.
@Cuminginside Wow, this thread is more than a year old. Where did you dig it up from?
I put in the words revenge and you guys were available to post I like the pictures
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Revenge sounds good in the moment. I get the temptation to want to hurt someone who hurt you, but on the long run I think you're hurting yourself more if you act on it. Better to show you're the bigger, better person. I'm not going to give someone that power over me to make me be someone I'm really not, or behave in a way that's beneath me just for revenge. My revenge would be to let them know they no longer matter like that to me
My ex wife was a double dipper.
She had an affair with a bus driver followed by a cop.
*I caught the first by cell phone records. I searched her car at midnight and found a diary that described his penis in all its veiny splendor and the feeling of anal sex. I read it, photographed every page and put it back, undisturbed. I researched the guy on the internet and found where he and his wife worked. I approached by ex and told her to call him in front of me and end their relationship or I would have lunch with the guy's wife the following day and reveal what I knew. She did.
*But she has a hungry pussy and ass and began another affair with a cop a couple months later. A mutual friend that she took into confidence revealed it to me. I checked her diary in her car. It was locked but I had kept a spare key when I bought it for her. The diary told me everything I needed to know and I photographed it again. I called Internal Affairs (well named!) of the police department and asked the officer to pass a message to cop to "please stop fucking my wife". The cop instantly ended the affair but she was (get this!) furious I was sticking my nose in her private life. SHE filed to divorce ME not long after, which I would have done anyway.
Revenge? She worked for Public Safety, which included fire and cops and was FIRED because of the affair. I was prepared to do harm to the cop but his house was destroyed in a flood. So The Creator did it for me.
Don't get revenge, but everybody does have the right to expose your business in scrutiny. Back in ancient times and in still in the 20th century, you would be embrassed and your reputation would cause you to lose benefits, jobs, marriage prospects and such. You would ha e no choice but to move to a different place. People today gets a way with it. You want to get your just rewards, settle it in court and make sure it's fair. Stop marrying people who aren't trustworthy.
No. Revenge is pretty mean. Just because she hurt me doesn't mean I have to hurt her back intentionally. Also it looks like all of these are by women. Why don't any of the men do that stuff? Not to generalize, maybe the women are just meaner about it so it gets more attention. I don't know. I wouldn't do it. I'd rather cheat on her than go to any length for the express purpose of hurting or humiliating her. At least when you cheat you don't have to be trying to hurt your partner, normally there are other motives, and that's just a side effect. With this sort of stuff it's just... I'd rather be cheated on, 100%, than her do anything like this. And I say that seriously. This sort of stuff is way worse in my book.
Probably. These are dumb ways to get "revenge" though. The billboards cost a lot of money and have little effect, that's if those are even real - they don't even have either of their last names on them, nobody knows who they are. So that's a waste of money. The damaging and selling of property is illegal, and leads to them being able to take revenge in turn.
These things only happen because people react so quickly, while the emotions are running high. I'd wait until I was calmer before executing my plan.
Those examples revenge are funny and original (although the billboards are expensive). However, I am not one who seeks revenge and make others suffer, usually, I just break up and he easily accepts it, and if he doesn't, tell him what I know and leave him no matter his explanations.
What I could do at least is tell it to those who ask, my family and friends, and maximun, tell what happened in social media and warm about it to others.
I’d first ask if she could cook that amazing zucchini Casserole one last time, and to put our sex toys in a bag so I don’t have to carry them in front of hector. Then I’d have the girlfriend pick up my Xbox so she can make sure she gets all the good games.
No, nothing petty and demeaning. Just get the FCK OUT, and BYE, BYE!! No cheaters or liars are tolerated. Did it once, and forgiven then what's to stop it happening again?
I would respect her things, and pack them up, and make sure she got them, but I would never tolerate a cheater, ever.
Now I haven't experienced being cheated on, but I wouldn't get revenge like that.
I would kick him out of my life and do my best to get over him.
But, I don't know how angry or sad I would be - probably depends on how I found out and other factors.
Most of those men have more than enough proof to put a giant lawsuit on their ex's. Most likely they have...
I can't say don't take revenge because I was never cheated on but I am a vengeful person. That's why I say take revenge but do it right so you don't face consequences later.
Examples, please.
@On_cloud_wine of what?
Non-illegal revenge
@On_cloud_wine I never said it had to be legal, I said do it right. You can key a guys car, but instead of writting your name on it just make a bunch of lines like you had a seizure.
Be careful tho some guys don't just take it. I forced an ex to wash my car after she messed it by threatening to beat up her new boyfriend. Never had to lay hands on anyone and I got my revenge on her revenge.
What kind of lawsuit? It can't be libel or slander if it's true. And I'm sure no one would do that if they didn't have the evidence to back them up.
You forced your ex to wash your car because she threatened to beat up her new bf? I am so confused. What?
@On_cloud_wine after my ex messed my car, she didn't key it but she sprayed painted it, I threaten to beat up her new boyfriend, if she didn't wash it.
Property theft and damage mostly. Many of those images make it obious who is responsable for what happen.
And again there is no reason the guy can't get even back.
I see.
@On_cloud_wine Ya ya say I am a bad person it's oukey. People always get on girls side on this kind of situations.
If I have the password of his bank account I would take it all and put it on my bank account (seem what stung the more to a man is his money considering they talk about it so much, at least where I live).
And then I would just comeback home to my mother house an forget about him.
Put nails in 3 of his tires.
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Put on all of his shoes and bend them.
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Cook him a dinner with laxative mixed in it
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Then I would just tell him I caught him cheating and I’d tell him I’m very hurt by his actions. Leave him. Then move on with his Bestfriend.
I could have my revenge but what's the point.
You might think one feels good after getting that revenge but in actual fact, it just makes them feel even worse.
The best revenge is to leave and live a better life without that cheater.
Holy Batshit❤⚡⚡⚡❤ lol i love the get even pics especially the Billboard's.
Yes ! I want/wanted Revenge... but never git the chance and finally decided im a better person for not getting/taking revenge. I only HOPE... that debt is paid. Back 10x...
I'd probably catch them in the act... and then walk in, shake his hand, with a glove on (dont want to catch those germs 🤪) tell thinks for cleaning up my mistake, won't be needing the trash anymore. And walk out, probably yell back, that she can pick up her stuff at her friends house or something. I'd figure it out.. be creative.
Eye for an eye never works. Be angry, the wild goose chase was phenomenal, but remember, though how hard it may be, this man is your children's father, and stooping to the level of vandalizing his property, you may regret someday. Remember your better than that...
I'm not a proponent of cheating, quite the opposite, but reacting in such a manner is highly toxic and probably a sign of mental illness or personality disorder.
I think it can even be classed as fraud to give away someone else's property for free. These behaviours are truly disgusting.
The thought of the man I love cheating makes me want to cut his dick off and make him eat it
but
i know I would probably cry really hard and hug him and leave forever.
I don't know, maybe you will want to stuff that sausage and glue it to the floor so you have a comfortable place to sit instead.
These pictures are priceless... I love them... good work
I will kill him and eat his heart on my pizza...🤣🤣😂 Like burn his house... I am pyscho..
You're not "pyscho"-- you're a moron.
@Thatsamazing hey man I am just kidding
You are being asshole
Oh okay. Sorry. Hard to tell on this site.
@Thatsamazing I get it as people always think I'm serious when I'm joking with them. I give people the benefit of the doubt that they are kidding until proven otherwise.
No. As someone cheated on my I wasn't upset. Finally she showed who she really is. We met occasionally after our relationship was over, but she remained the person in my mind. Even if she tried to be someone else.
Would I want some type of revenge, Yes. Would I actually do something that drastic, No. At most I would just tell the person or persons that they respect the most about it. I can paint a detailed picture without getting charged for vandalism.
I think you should get revenge if someone cheats, coming from someone who questions if im not good enough and take a while to start to trust someone and they just break it like its nothing, fuck them , tell there family or workers , throw there shit in the lawn (or off the balcony) and change the locks (if you own the house)
I'd inquire about the possibility of a 3sum.
So the answer is no, you would not seek revenge.
I would call the ones who paid to put their S/O's on blast using a billboard to be stupid. Why waste the money? The 1st woman had it right.
I would if I had been a really good partner in the relationship. Then they're gonna regret it big time.
I wouldn’t see the point of revenge , knowing he started a relationship with a cheat would eventually take its own revenge
I'd expose and shame the shit out of him. He was already unfaithful once. If he does it again, he's gonna be in big trouble.
Well he badly wanted a second chance and it's a long complicated story, but let's just say he's done enough for me to decide to give him the chance. Good for him if he can redeem himself, lol.
But that also means he's gonna be in really big trouble if he messed up this time as well.
Thanks for understanding.
I’d burn all his sh$t and video tape it then send it to him.
Who downvoted me?
Probably the guy who owned the stuff you burned?
He deserved it.
Burning shit would stink to high heaven. Have you ever had someone piss on a camp fire and catch the resulting fragrant and delicate bouquet that resulted? Oh wait, so you didn't mean that literally? LOL
I'd just leave but if you do shit like this and you get a 45 emptied into you it would be no surprise.
This is all okay when a woman does this. When a woman cheats it’s the mans fault and he’ll be thrown in person for 10 years for fraud if he did things like this.
@Sarahr123 that’s psycho
@Sarahr123 You're a fucking idiot. Kill yourself.
@Sarahr123 Room-temperature IQ of someone who is incredibly emotionally insecure spotted. At the very least, if you aren't going to kill yourself, please sterilize yourself so that you don't infect the gene pool.
Calm down people. It’s obvious Sarah is mentally disturbed. Let’s not upset her any more. She might torture and kill us.
Nothing is obvious except that she's fucking stupid.
@Thatsamazing obviously needs medical attention
@Sarahr123 quiet down
No. Being vindictive isn't my thing. I believe in karma. Plus they don't deserve my energy.
I think I would steal his credit card and go to the highest class mall and shopping the latest design for clothing and accessories until his card empty and tell him a good bye 😘
Man, that's overdoing it a little. If a partner resorts to cheating then they either didn't get what they wanted from the other or are just a horrible person. Why ruin each others life over something like this. Break it up, talk about it, but be civilized about it.
I probably wouldn't because I'm too lazy for that, but these are savage😂😂
They would get revenge but it wouldn’t be flat-out obvious, they would find out later though for sure lol
Yes. Moving on and be happy without them would be the best revenge.
Hell yeah, I'd want to hurt him back in a way or another.
He's no longer my s/o if he cheats. I will make him cry me a fucking river and then divorce is his broken ass.
*his
I was so mad I made a typo
I just think this shows how petty and how females are basically emotionally animals then again they married cheating guys.. So be it on there own head
Number 4 would put the author on the losing side of a courtroom and if you are going to write a message like that you should probably check UR speeling.
Speeling? Lol come on man. 4 didn't even misspell anything
@FLguitarist Wow, you are really fucking dumb.
-_- really.
... Why is that @Guffrus
@FLguitarist Because you fail to grasp that the mispelling was purposeful and that particular comment was aimed at the first picture.
Also I am having to explain this to you, you werent capable of looking and checking yourself to see what mistakes you might have made.
Yeah no shit. Who do you think is on the dumb side here
@FLguitarist YOU!
YOU FUCKING IGNORANT CUNT.
Lol wow. Your 40 now, act like an adult.
Geez while I don't excuse these men's behaviour, their partners were also downright petty by stooping down to their level!
What a fucked up world we live in! SMH!
SMH? Suck my heinie or Suck my hemorrhoids?
Haha I'll suck and eat your ass Daniela 😉👅💦😈
Do you think these women who made billboards calling out their S/O have always been 100 percent faithful themselves.
Until proven otherwise.
No, because it takes time and dedication, and there is no way I'd waste that on a subhuman.
I'd just pack my things and leave. Or pack hers and tell her to leave, if it's my home.
No, I’d just dump them and move on.
also, those wives emptying bank accounts will be made to pay back half by law anyway, so that was silly of them.
Nope. I'd probably hug him one last time and leave.
No I wouldn't take revenge. I'd pack up my things and just walk away
I'm not a petty moron, so... no.
I notice that all these petty morons are female, by the way. I'm sure there's no connection though.
I love the 3rd one with all his stuff at the curb. That is most likely what I would do. Also the locks would all be changed.
No. If they didn't talk with me and come to a negotiation, that would probably the end of the relationship.
Everything is negotiable.
How can you negotiate with someone who breaks a trust and probably is lying to your face?
You dont!
Once that trust and respect is gone. It's very, very, very, hard to get it back. And usually you can't.
At 119 you were probably just her sugar daddy anyway.
I guess I should expect those jokes.
Of course I'll want to have revenge.
it's a natural and normal response. No shame in that.
I like the Billboard and the videogame girl's letter, god damn that is brutal :D As for me, no, I'm not vindictive, I'll leave that to women ;)
I’d leave pretty simple I have a career no one has time doing jail time because of revenge. Move on better and bigger somewhere🤷🏽♀️
She only cleaned out the joint account where I never put anything
She doesn't know about my real accounts.
Worked with a guy whose ex-gf went to the harbor where his boat was moored and left a running hose on it - swamped it.
No, I wouldn’t want revenge but I’d want a very quick and clean breakup.
The voice of reason.
No i will not take revenge.. but i will make sure that his conscience will eat him
And how would you do that?
By showing him how to value a woman who is worth to keep... There are many things you can do so he will realize what he did
I'd sleep with her best friend, sister or mother and record it to send to her
Well that would make you as much as a cheater than she was.
Two wrongs don't make a right when you are cheating by sleeping with someone else. Only one Ho is needed, not two.
Nope I just ask her why and depending on the answer I might block her or just break
Nope I'd just move on I'm a good guy and when I leave she'll see that but it will be to late
Well monogamy sucks. Peopkezare waking up to that a little. Be in love and all that just both have side pieces. Nothingvwrong with that.
@Sarahr123 so true fucking dipshit
Not you but that guy
i don't care, he can go to an other gil and i feel better i get rid of him
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