I'd not support cheating but I would want them to feel shame without other punishment than that. Shame because, there are ways to bring up your feelings to your spouse without acting on it. I'm saying this if either gender does it but with the flavor of this post, I'd say the girl included, if she cheats I'd like her to feel the weight of what she's done, I'd like her to live life but I'd like her to carry this feeling over to her next relationship so she remembers what the weight of cheating feels like. Hollywood makes it seem fun but it should feel like a punch to your stomach. You did something wrong and should feel that you did. But I don't find the need to make them suffer past that idea, even though the revenge pictures you posted are very sweet and I've asked a question like this once before :) it's fun but I did give my real response :)
I like these billboards. Here in El Paso for Valentine's Day they opened up some fundraising to buy roaches to feed to the meerkats at the zoo. We we're allowed to the name the roach you bought your ex's name and you would get a video of the meerkat eating your roach. It sold out in like 2hrs and i missed my opportunity. 😂😂
One of my ex boyfriend cheated on me, I knew it but didn't say anything n not long later I broke up with him. His new relationship with the girl he cheated with didn't get love from people. Even his mom n brother says no to her n 1 year into their relationship, he cheated again with other girl. My lessons are: karma really exists, everyone sees him as a cheater type n feels no sympathy, so just live your best life n leave them behind because that's their place, always behind you. I just have lots more things in my life that I care about than a stupid cheater.
Okay, those are fucking beautiful pictures. It would be extremely unlikely for someone to cheat on me. And I donāt just mean that as a narcissist (which I may or may not be.) But if I am ever in that situation you can bet your ass I will fucking destroy them. Iām just a devious bitch like that.
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Revenge sounds good in the moment. I get the temptation to want to hurt someone who hurt you, but on the long run I think you're hurting yourself more if you act on it. Better to show you're the bigger, better person. I'm not going to give someone that power over me to make me be someone I'm really not, or behave in a way that's beneath me just for revenge. My revenge would be to let them know they no longer matter like that to me
My ex wife was a double dipper.
She had an affair with a bus driver followed by a cop.
*I caught the first by cell phone records. I searched her car at midnight and found a diary that described his penis in all its veiny splendor and the feeling of anal sex. I read it, photographed every page and put it back, undisturbed. I researched the guy on the internet and found where he and his wife worked. I approached by ex and told her to call him in front of me and end their relationship or I would have lunch with the guy's wife the following day and reveal what I knew. She did.
*But she has a hungry pussy and ass and began another affair with a cop a couple months later. A mutual friend that she took into confidence revealed it to me. I checked her diary in her car. It was locked but I had kept a spare key when I bought it for her. The diary told me everything I needed to know and I photographed it again. I called Internal Affairs (well named!) of the police department and asked the officer to pass a message to cop to "please stop fucking my wife". The cop instantly ended the affair but she was (get this!) furious I was sticking my nose in her private life. SHE filed to divorce ME not long after, which I would have done anyway.
Revenge? She worked for Public Safety, which included fire and cops and was FIRED because of the affair. I was prepared to do harm to the cop but his house was destroyed in a flood. So The Creator did it for me.
Don't get revenge, but everybody does have the right to expose your business in scrutiny. Back in ancient times and in still in the 20th century, you would be embrassed and your reputation would cause you to lose benefits, jobs, marriage prospects and such. You would ha e no choice but to move to a different place. People today gets a way with it. You want to get your just rewards, settle it in court and make sure it's fair. Stop marrying people who aren't trustworthy.
No. Revenge is pretty mean. Just because she hurt me doesn't mean I have to hurt her back intentionally. Also it looks like all of these are by women. Why don't any of the men do that stuff? Not to generalize, maybe the women are just meaner about it so it gets more attention. I don't know. I wouldn't do it. I'd rather cheat on her than go to any length for the express purpose of hurting or humiliating her. At least when you cheat you don't have to be trying to hurt your partner, normally there are other motives, and that's just a side effect. With this sort of stuff it's just... I'd rather be cheated on, 100%, than her do anything like this. And I say that seriously. This sort of stuff is way worse in my book.
Probably. These are dumb ways to get "revenge" though. The billboards cost a lot of money and have little effect, that's if those are even real - they don't even have either of their last names on them, nobody knows who they are. So that's a waste of money. The damaging and selling of property is illegal, and leads to them being able to take revenge in turn.
These things only happen because people react so quickly, while the emotions are running high. I'd wait until I was calmer before executing my plan.
Those examples revenge are funny and original (although the billboards are expensive). However, I am not one who seeks revenge and make others suffer, usually, I just break up and he easily accepts it, and if he doesn't, tell him what I know and leave him no matter his explanations.
What I could do at least is tell it to those who ask, my family and friends, and maximun, tell what happened in social media and warm about it to others.
Iād first ask if she could cook that amazing zucchini Casserole one last time, and to put our sex toys in a bag so I donāt have to carry them in front of hector. Then Iād have the girlfriend pick up my Xbox so she can make sure she gets all the good games.
No, nothing petty and demeaning. Just get the FCK OUT, and BYE, BYE!! No cheaters or liars are tolerated. Did it once, and forgiven then what's to stop it happening again?
I would respect her things, and pack them up, and make sure she got them, but I would never tolerate a cheater, ever.
Now I haven't experienced being cheated on, but I wouldn't get revenge like that.
I would kick him out of my life and do my best to get over him.
But, I don't know how angry or sad I would be - probably depends on how I found out and other factors.
Most of those men have more than enough proof to put a giant lawsuit on their ex's. Most likely they have...
I can't say don't take revenge because I was never cheated on but I am a vengeful person. That's why I say take revenge but do it right so you don't face consequences later.
If I have the password of his bank account I would take it all and put it on my bank account (seem what stung the more to a man is his money considering they talk about it so much, at least where I live).
And then I would just comeback home to my mother house an forget about him.
I could have my revenge but what's the point.
You might think one feels good after getting that revenge but in actual fact, it just makes them feel even worse.
The best revenge is to leave and live a better life without that cheater.
Put nails in 3 of his tires.
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Put on all of his shoes and bend them.
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Cook him a dinner with laxative mixed in it
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Then I would just tell him I caught him cheating and Iād tell him Iām very hurt by his actions. Leave him. Then move on with his Bestfriend.
Holy Batshitā¤ā”ā”ā”ā¤ lol i love the get even pics especially the Billboard's.
Yes ! I want/wanted Revenge... but never git the chance and finally decided im a better person for not getting/taking revenge. I only HOPE... that debt is paid. Back 10x...
I'd probably catch them in the act... and then walk in, shake his hand, with a glove on (dont want to catch those germs 🤪) tell thinks for cleaning up my mistake, won't be needing the trash anymore. And walk out, probably yell back, that she can pick up her stuff at her friends house or something. I'd figure it out.. be creative.
Eye for an eye never works. Be angry, the wild goose chase was phenomenal, but remember, though how hard it may be, this man is your children's father, and stooping to the level of vandalizing his property, you may regret someday. Remember your better than that...
I'm not a proponent of cheating, quite the opposite, but reacting in such a manner is highly toxic and probably a sign of mental illness or personality disorder.
I think it can even be classed as fraud to give away someone else's property for free. These behaviours are truly disgusting.
The thought of the man I love cheating makes me want to cut his dick off and make him eat it
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i know I would probably cry really hard and hug him and leave forever.
No. As someone cheated on my I wasn't upset. Finally she showed who she really is. We met occasionally after our relationship was over, but she remained the person in my mind. Even if she tried to be someone else.
Would I want some type of revenge, Yes. Would I actually do something that drastic, No. At most I would just tell the person or persons that they respect the most about it. I can paint a detailed picture without getting charged for vandalism.
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