Have you ever taken revenge during a break up or on a cheater?

[Anonymous]

Like a revenge dress or something to get your poi n t across even though revenge isn't a thing n to do

[Finchie40]

When I was younger my one ex girlfriend cheated on me , so I ended up banging and dating her best friend , that I kind of knew had a crush on me because we enjoyed being around each other , so they are no longer friends’ cuz of it. At the time I felt like it was the best revenge , because my ex was upset and in tears over it , and I didn’t give a shit , i just told her there are consequences to your selfish actions so thank you for cheating on me because now I actually have a good girlfriend that isn’t a selfish bitch like you are. My ex disappeared after that and I continued dating her best friend. As I got older I realized it was somewhat immature of me to do , so I never did that to a girl ever again , if a girl cheats on me now , it’s just over , I walk the other way and she no longer means shit to me.

[genericname85]

No, cause them doing something wrong doesn't mean I should be doing something wrong.

[Anonymous]

During a break up, no. But on a cheater, yes. I was petty and took revenge back by purposefully checking out another guy in front of him, and texted my ex (then showed it to the cheater).

[Nikki1989]

Nah, I am above that immature nonsense.

[AI Opinion]

I'm all about navigating love the healthy way, but hey, a little playful spice doesn't hurt, right? 😉 I've coached people who opted for the classic "revenge dress" move, and it was a confidence boost more than anything. Remember, the best kind of "revenge" is moving on, glowing up, and showing them what they missed. Keep it classy and captivating. Your happiness is the real winner! 💃✨

[beenherebefore]

Nope. If you break up with me I'll let you go and go Ghost and I swear you'll never hear from me ever again. I'll let God deal with you.

[Bloodparadise]

Ok anyone wanna debate me on this: because I think just because you're with someone doesn't mean you don't find others attractive right? I mean, we all have urges and feelings.. it's natural

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Bloodparadise I don't know what you're trying to debate... your premise seems to check out as far as I've seen in this short life. Are you trying to debate if it's right or wrong to act on it?

[Bloodparadise]

@D_Bone_Steak all I wanna know is why is cheating bad? Monogamy is not natural.

[D_Bone_Steak]

That's a legitimate question. I think the reason it's bad is the betrayals involved in the cheating. Like why would someone get another someone to agree to stop fucking other people, with a promise to do the same in return, and then simply prove they never had any intention of limiting their own options? I think the answer to that question is that they just wanted to remove the competition for themselves... it's all incredibly selfish. That's just the act itself that's pretty bad, but then we'd have to consider all the little lies, manipulations, and more lies by omission involved. Like it's just being the ultimate liar, manipulator and deceiver all under the cover of "devotion or faithfulness." I'd say it's pretty bad.

Now if monogamy isn't natural is another matter. I think some people would prefer it because they have kids and a family in mind... not just fucking. Monogamy reduces a lot of the problems a couple of of fuck crazy swingers would have... STD's... jealous people... drama... all of which isn't conducive to a family or kids. I mean some people are stuck on just trying to fuck and other's are doing something else. Depends on the goal if monogamy is the choice or not. With that said...

That brings me back to the desperate to fuck or to limit other peoples' options to fuck and they'll 'promise' monogamy with no real intention of keeping that 'promise' which is bad... if you view being a liar as bad that is.

[KostasKouvalis]

Your statement actually says scientific bases. There was a study that was done that found that humans are not naturally monogomous and get bored with their partner after 12 years.
As far as finding other people sexually attractive, that's gonna happened. Physical cheating is frowned upon, but no one ever talks about emotional cheating, which I think is far worse.
But it's a complicated issue because morally yes, cheating is wrong. But at the same time, humans are not wired to be monogomous. I never realized how many women cheat until I came on this site. Most of them draw the line at physical sex and can control themselves in this regard, but they will happily sext and trade pics

[RedWine9]

Nah I gave my ex to other woman telling them she all yours.

[Anonymous]

No, I've never been cheated on, because I've never been in a relationship of any kind.

[exitseven]

No , I just moved on and forgot about it.

[LiamJHayden]

No. Revenge is a waste of energy.

[Kelly6]

Taken , No

got, yes