If your spouse cheated on you, would you also cheat to get back at them?

[Bobabuba]

My ex-husband cheated on me a year after we got married. I slept with another man and even played the video to my ex-husband as proof.

[slatyb]

I would be incredibly surprised to learn that she had -- we've been together a long time and it's never happened before. No, I wouldn't cheat to get back at them. We would talk about what happened and what she wants for the future. I'm pretty unemotional about sex. If she wanted an open relationship we could talk about that.

[strateguy632]

Well i would just dump her but, maybe that is not enough. First act angry a week then lie awkwardly "i can't really be angry at you, because i slept with sally first". That should "do it".

[Valdemort]

Wild. I don't think I could physically get myself to cheat even if I did want to.
Don't think revenge is going to make anything better...

[Bobabuba]

I did what I have to do. I was so angry at him. All I care was getting back at him.

[KylieKitten]

Nah, revenge doesn't make me feel better.

[RavVid]

Just dump/divorce unless you can have sex with her mom or sister. In that case definitely revenge cheat and start dating them..

[bowenw]

I'm sorry to hear he cheated on you, but it sounds like you got the last laugh.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I'd leave and find someone who actually loved me

[alice55]

No I would I would just divorce.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I wouldn't, that's trashy.

[jahaims]

No, I'd move on like an adult

[SexyPulse]

id cut his balls off with a rusty razor

[Bobabuba]

And infect it with rusty cancer.

[dudeinohio]

Nope. Id terminate the relationship.

[Pterodon]

Nope