Do females like bullies?

Question

I noticed bullies would always be able to attract girls.

They make fun of other people's characteristics and girls/girlfriend still want to be with them.

One of them I know even cheated on his girlfriend. They broke up. But other mutual friends of his girlfriend still want to be with him and they got together and are awaiting marriage.

I heard about the "bullies appear confident" so women are attracted to his confidence. But it puzzles me. Do women believe that bullying will make a successful relationship?

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

All of the above. Some females are also bullies. Some are decent girls who are hung up on bad boys. Some don’t realize what a douche he is until after the fact. And nobody is just one thing. Even a bully will have positive traits. One of the recommended methods for dealing with bullies is to find out something about them that you admire, or something you have in common with them, and then make friends with them.

itsclearlynicholas · Accepted Answer

They sure do some females are weird yet that's what they want. The real secret spice to life is to: do your own thing.
Sitting pretty 😁😌😌😌 look at that emoji right there 👀 it's clearly happy and content 😌😌😌 that's the solution to everyone's problems

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I think the same about men. They also prefer mean girls. Look at Henry Cavill , for instance. His girlfriend was a high school bully and also a racist person who used blackface. He is still with her even though he doesn't want to marry her. In fact, I have never seen a handsome man with a truly nice woman. They pick based on what they find physically attractive totally ignoring their horrible personalities.

menina · Accepted Answer

As someone who was bullied, I can assure you that I AM NOT into bullies. They're disgusting!

Women who are ok with being with a bully are either bullies themselves. Or they think they can change them. But guess what? They will never change.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Navigating the choppy waters of attraction, it's true that confidence can be a magnet. But here's a spicy take: confusing bullying for confidence is like mistaking a jalapeno for a bell pepper – both add flavor, but one leaves a burn. Bullying, showcasing dominance in a negative light, might attract initially due to perceived strength and confidence, but it's no foundation for a successful relationship. What often happens is the allure fades, revealing the true colors of disrespect and lack of empathy. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect, support, and genuine confidence that uplifts, not belittles. So, it's not the bullying that's attractive but the misconstrued mask of confidence it wears. Let's champion for relationships that make you feel like you've hit the jackpot, not the boxing ring.😉

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

Just because a girl is pretty, doesn't mean she's a good person. A lot of girls are bullies too.
You should want a girl for what's inside. Someone who is kind, honest, intelligent etc... and dont let her looks fool you. They are very good at acting innocent. But just wait a while and you will see. Sometimes the hottest girls are the most psycho.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I personally am disgusted by such men. No matter how attractive some men are on the OUTSIDE…their behavior immediately makes me change my mind about them

RavVid · Answer

Girls can certainly like violent men. A primary example from a few years back was a girl was inside a shop smoking and ashing on the carpet. Nobody was willing to say anything because of the guy she was with (who carried a box cutter in his hand).

She was loving it. Saw her on public transport ashing cig.

A potential mistake they make is that a violent guy can be violent to them.

I've seen a guy hit his girl on the street who then immediately hugged him to conciliate.

electromagnetic · Answer

I like bullies. I won’t even lie about it. But it depends on whom they are bullying. Context it’s important. Bullying the math geek, isn’t it. But bullying the guy 4 houses down whom never seems to park correctly, is it!

Anonymous · Answer

Confidence, dominance, the bad boy. These are attractive to one aspect of being a woman. I presume they see a protector, social standing, and that he's desirable to other women.
But if that's all he's got, they're in for a rude awakening. Still they've always got tiktok to explain why their poor males choices are true of all men. Even the ones that were bullied.

dustybiker2 · Answer

There is a big difference between teasing and bullying. Bullies are abusive and get off hurting others. Teasing is based in attraction, as in two people who get along. It's a spark of energy between good friends or lovers.

Billlewis · Answer

I know most respondents will probably answer 'No', but I guarantee you that many women secretly find bullies intoxicatingly sexy, and guys like me go out of our way to find and date these women.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Where do men come up with this nonsense?

mobiusforniner · Answer

Um, no. Any women worth dating are not into bullies. And there's a lot of them who are not into bullies.

If you find yourself attracted to a woman who likes bullies- well, that tells me you ain't got any self respect.

HighValue · Answer

Sure they do. Many are bullies themselves. Bullying doesn't have to just be physical, and often isn't physical. Spreading false rumors, sabotaging people at work that are competition, etc. are bullying too.

Anonymous · Answer

A few days ago I saw a guy kicking a small street kitten who was running after his feet again and again. When I saw it, I scolded the guy, picked the kitten, and gave it to a shelter. The guy was with his girlfriend. The girl was very pretty. I was once associated with animal rescue for years and indeed have seen and known that such guys are popular among women, they project some sort of control and " masculinity " which attracts a lot of women.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

This silly "bad boy" fantasy came from the influence of pocketbooks, stories, and teen-fic movies they watched. 🥴

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Some, not all women like danger and excitement. The type of guy you describe is both of those things.

4ngelic · Answer

some 15yos do, if the bullies are popular. aside from that i dont think so...

avery58 · Answer

I don't. I see them as the red flags they are.

molonski2 · Answer

Bottom line , they like the power it represents..

Anonymous · Answer

They don't like the fact that they bully. But they admire the dominant nature of them. Women will overlook the fact that a guy is a bully if she's attracted to his assertiveness.

Anonymous · Answer

In high school I was definitely attracted to bullies😭

msc545 · Answer

It does take confidence to bully people in that you think nothing can happen to you - until it does.

Revolutioner_83 · Answer

Women like alpha men. The bullies you called like alphas. There is no need to behave bad. That is the matter.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Some women like bad boys, whom bullies exemplify.

AngryCarl · Answer

They think they can change him. Women are dumb like that. Sorry, but they are.

FuqUFggt · Answer

Of course. Exclusively. That's how I fuck so many stupid bitches

Deserter2 · Answer

Not until i bully them. They gonna get a swirlie, nuggie, purple nurple, sniff my ass, etc

postaldudePL123 · Answer

Some do, some don't! It depends on how sadistic and insecure they are.

DishLady · Answer

Absolutely not.

CriticalCatDad · Answer

Women perceive bullies as strong and capable

MemeMaester · Answer

Bullying -> confidence -> competence

Usersarepoo · Answer

Fuck no there low self-esteem people do that.

elaphe · Answer

Who truly respects bullies?

Anonymous · Answer

Women loves assholes, simple

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

HATE them.

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