Do females like bullies?

[Anonymous]

I noticed bullies would always be able to attract girls.

They make fun of other people's characteristics and girls/girlfriend still want to be with them.

One of them I know even cheated on his girlfriend. They broke up. But other mutual friends of his girlfriend still want to be with him and they got together and are awaiting marriage.

I heard about the "bullies appear confident" so women are attracted to his confidence. But it puzzles me. Do women believe that bullying will make a successful relationship?

They didn't know that the guy is a bully until they got into a relationship.

They mistake bullying for confidence.

They think they can change him, so they get together with him in hopes that he will change.

They think he must have a good side to him despite his bullying.

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so I asked this question to gain a better understanding of this thing. everyone's answers so far have been insightful!

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I don't mean that the guy bullies his girlfriend. I mean that he bullies others in front of his girlfriend. If the guy bullies his girlfriend, of course nobody is going to like that.

[Babygirl_S]

I think the same about men. They also prefer mean girls. Look at Henry Cavill , for instance. His girlfriend was a high school bully and also a racist person who used blackface. He is still with her even though he doesn't want to marry her. In fact, I have never seen a handsome man with a truly nice woman. They pick based on what they find physically attractive totally ignoring their horrible personalities.

[Asker]

I agree... I've met some of these guys in my life...

[Chazmatazz269]

All of the above. Some females are also bullies. Some are decent girls who are hung up on bad boys. Some don’t realize what a douche he is until after the fact. And nobody is just one thing. Even a bully will have positive traits. One of the recommended methods for dealing with bullies is to find out something about them that you admire, or something you have in common with them, and then make friends with them.

[itsclearlynicholas]

They sure do some females are weird yet that's what they want. The real secret spice to life is to: do your own thing.
Sitting pretty 😁😌😌😌 look at that emoji right there 👀 it's clearly happy and content 😌😌😌 that's the solution to everyone's problems

[itsclearlynicholas]

And I meanwhile always want more, yet am I content? I'm gratefully content 🥲🥹

[AngryCarl]

Just because you're happy with what you have, doesn't mean you shouldn't strive for more, amirite?

[itsclearlynicholas]

@AngryCarl let me let you in on a little special sauce Carl; are you a fan of recincarnation? 🛞

[itsclearlynicholas]

*reincarnation @AngryCarl? 🛞 I ruined my own witty comment with a typo sigh 😔😞

[itsclearlynicholas]

Lol and Carl doesn't seem to like Nicholas for a follow request lol longstanding lol 😆🤣

[itsclearlynicholas]

@AngryCarl I stand corrected, thank you Carl. Anyhow, I'd say if I want to daydream and ever so lightly give the plausibility there's one day for some lucky souls for who pass life's tests whether religious or no religious, it's ironic Carl how sometimes things are just how they are you know, almost at times like life is often a test. It sure seems that way? And surely what's the end result? Either a hallucination reward at the end of all peoples aging of natural causes aka a trick of the brain for what feels like a lifetime classic best of or ideal world daydreams OR there's just blackness and nothing. So a test passed in leading a decent life, and for what. Who knows. The reality may also be, let's all just get along and all try to be each other's best of a bad situation 🌎🌍

[itsclearlynicholas]

World peace striving for 😛✌🏻 that's me, world peace and groovy vibes , no surfer dude times 👋🏻🌊

[AngryCarl]

Hello? Sorry, I was watching industrial accidents again.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Lol why so angry Carl? Are you actually not an angry man? Are you actually a carl? Im a Nicholas a merry typical Nicholas 😺☺️ or exceptional Nicholas

[itsclearlynicholas]

@AngryCarl looks like I picked a winner after all and honestly - the answer won the poll - they mistake bullying for confidence, the female brain at its worst rather than best at lol 🧠 ♀️

[itsclearlynicholas]

@AngryCarl bisexual or gay guys probably think the same bullying is male confidence mistaken - ha! 🤢🤣

[itsclearlynicholas]

@AngryCarl because just like the women brain, they want to bang the confident alpha males who bully, glad I'm neither of the above, I'm a straight as they come pun intended , whimp :)

[menina]

As someone who was bullied, I can assure you that I AM NOT into bullies. They're disgusting!

Women who are ok with being with a bully are either bullies themselves. Or they think they can change them. But guess what? They will never change.

[Asker]

I am glad to hear that

[menina]

I'm also glad to hear that you're against bullies.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the choppy waters of attraction, it's true that confidence can be a magnet. But here's a spicy take: confusing bullying for confidence is like mistaking a jalapeno for a bell pepper – both add flavor, but one leaves a burn. Bullying, showcasing dominance in a negative light, might attract initially due to perceived strength and confidence, but it's no foundation for a successful relationship. What often happens is the allure fades, revealing the true colors of disrespect and lack of empathy. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect, support, and genuine confidence that uplifts, not belittles. So, it's not the bullying that's attractive but the misconstrued mask of confidence it wears. Let's champion for relationships that make you feel like you've hit the jackpot, not the boxing ring.😉

[VV3ZZY123]

Just because a girl is pretty, doesn't mean she's a good person. A lot of girls are bullies too.
You should want a girl for what's inside. Someone who is kind, honest, intelligent etc... and dont let her looks fool you. They are very good at acting innocent. But just wait a while and you will see. Sometimes the hottest girls are the most psycho.

[Anonymous]

No. I personally am disgusted by such men. No matter how attractive some men are on the OUTSIDE…their behavior immediately makes me change my mind about them

[Asker]

*Clap Clap*

[Opinion Owner]

xD Can’t help but feel that way lol…me answering this question was a vent

[Anonymous]

Confidence, dominance, the bad boy. These are attractive to one aspect of being a woman. I presume they see a protector, social standing, and that he's desirable to other women.
But if that's all he's got, they're in for a rude awakening. Still they've always got tiktok to explain why their poor males choices are true of all men. Even the ones that were bullied.

[electromagnetic]

I like bullies. I won’t even lie about it. But it depends on whom they are bullying. Context it’s important. Bullying the math geek, isn’t it. But bullying the guy 4 houses down whom never seems to park correctly, is it!

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness...❤️💕💞❤️♥️💞❤️❤️❤️

[VV3ZZY123]

Just wait until its u

[Billlewis]

@VV3ZZY123 I've dated several women who loved seeing other guys bully, intimidate and shame me. As long as they don't hurt me too badly, I don't mind that at all.

[VV3ZZY123]

You pick low quality women

[Asker]

@Billlewis Oo you dated the women who enjoyed seeing you suffer? Why though?

[Deserter2]

What if I bully you you prostitute!

[electromagnetic]

@Deserter2 lame. Try harder.

[Deserter2]

Don't talk to massa like that, cotton picker

[electromagnetic]

@Deserter2 zzz lucky for me, my forefathers didn’t get on that boat. Just don’t forget to apply sunscreen when you get outside.

[Deserter2]

Yeah right, ashy elbows

[electromagnetic]

@Deserter2 are we talking about the same shea butter your folks have been trying to steal from Africa and claim as organic and good for you? Or the coconut oil?

[Deserter2]

Here we go, "we was kangz!" Y'all steal everything

[electromagnetic]

@Deserter2
I win. Bye 👋🏾 see you on other question. I’ll be sure to bring the shea butter for my elbows and the sunscreen for the burns you’ll receive. 😘

[VV3ZZY123]

Nobody wins. Both are resentful. Forgiveness is the way.

[Deserter2]

You get roasted, thats why you black

[electromagnetic]

@Deserter2 common sense and melanin have left this chat.

[Deserter2]

Race and iq 😘

[VV3ZZY123]

So how does it feel to get bullied?

[electromagnetic]

@VV3ZZY123 normal day on Gag. Unless this was your dummy account.

[VV3ZZY123]

Resentment makes people spiritually sick. Even if they're not conscious of it.

[Deserter2]

She got owned but she had to, she's a bad girl

[dustybiker2]

There is a big difference between teasing and bullying. Bullies are abusive and get off hurting others. Teasing is based in attraction, as in two people who get along. It's a spark of energy between good friends or lovers.

[Asker]

Hmm yes I agree about teasing, but I am referring to bullying others or talking lowly about other people in front of their partners, not bullying their partners.

[dustybiker2]

I probably answered this on the outside list, by title. It won't show description there.

[Billlewis]

I know most respondents will probably answer 'No', but I guarantee you that many women secretly find bullies intoxicatingly sexy, and guys like me go out of our way to find and date these women.

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea there's a lot of low quality women

[mobiusforniner]

Um, no. Any women worth dating are not into bullies. And there's a lot of them who are not into bullies.

If you find yourself attracted to a woman who likes bullies- well, that tells me you ain't got any self respect.

[HighValue]

Sure they do. Many are bullies themselves. Bullying doesn't have to just be physical, and often isn't physical. Spreading false rumors, sabotaging people at work that are competition, etc. are bullying too.

[Anonymous]

A few days ago I saw a guy kicking a small street kitten who was running after his feet again and again. When I saw it, I scolded the guy, picked the kitten, and gave it to a shelter. The guy was with his girlfriend. The girl was very pretty. I was once associated with animal rescue for years and indeed have seen and known that such guys are popular among women, they project some sort of control and " masculinity " which attracts a lot of women.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

This silly "bad boy" fantasy came from the influence of pocketbooks, stories, and teen-fic movies they watched. 🥴

[DarkLegacy]

Which millennials (i appreciate you are not one) live their lives by

[VV3ZZY123]

This makes no sense

[PapaJedi]

Growing up with sisters I agree

[Nikki1989]

Where do men come up with this nonsense?

[Bklynbadboy12]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[TommyMountainFigure]

Some, not all women like danger and excitement. The type of guy you describe is both of those things.

[4ngelic]

some 15yos do, if the bullies are popular. aside from that i dont think so...

[avery58]

I don't. I see them as the red flags they are.

[molonski2]

Bottom line , they like the power it represents..

[Anonymous]

They don't like the fact that they bully. But they admire the dominant nature of them. Women will overlook the fact that a guy is a bully if she's attracted to his assertiveness.

[Asker]

Sadly, I agree... But the double-edged sword is that when a guy becomes very dominant, he tends to become a bully as well. I guess it's in our nature.

[Asker]

By that I mean every dominant guy I have come across so far has been like that.

[msc545]

It does take confidence to bully people in that you think nothing can happen to you - until it does.

[Revolutioner_83]

Women like alpha men. The bullies you called like alphas. There is no need to behave bad. That is the matter.

[handsomelad70]

Some women like bad boys, whom bullies exemplify.

[AngryCarl]

They think they can change him. Women are dumb like that. Sorry, but they are.

[Deserter2]

Based AngryCarl