Did I not really want to show the worls or even myself who I am since growing up cuz im a female goofball?

[Anonymous]

I tendto hide myself and not olwn up to people. I even hid from myself for ages especially in HS. I think its cause i fear people dont understand or accept female goofballs. Like ever since i was younger i love playing around. I "play too much". And i loved and still love going to chat rooma full of strangers and sauing retarded or stupid sexual stuff and outlandish stuff. When i was younger i wasn't talking about sex it was more like racist jokes (im half black by the way so that shows u how serious i take stuff)... Lmao. But anyway... I don't know whats up with me or how to justify this but lmao i just love to laugh. Dont judge me. Im a nice person not a bully. I was bullied. So i dont wanna hurt ppls feelings. I dont pick on individuals. Racist jokes or incest jokes are funny but i dont mean it or want to put others down. Anyway... So yeah. Im not saying racist shit irl im. not retarded. But this was just an example of my personality manifesting online when im all anonymous and shii. Im a GOOOFF.😂

[SueShe]

Hiding behind goofiness is a sign of insecurity.

You are extensively using this trait because you have fears that people discover who you really are in real life. It is just like building up a wall or using a invisibility cloak so that people cannot see your real self. For you, being goofy is a means to defend yourself against those that could potentially be "harmful" to you, meaning that you don't show who you really are. Why?

What is the single event in your life that caused you to behave this way? If you find the cause of your behavior you can also try to find the cure. You may think that hiding behind your goofs is innocent but at the end, you are only harming yourself because people perceive you in a light that is not the true one.

Your behavior is also a way to express your insecurities. It is so much easier to express them online behind anonymity rather than in real life. You may give the totally wrong idea of who you are. Deep inside, this behavior is hurting you more than what you want to admit.

[Staximus]

The is nothing wrong with having a sense of humor, and nothing wrong with not being serious all the time. Nothing wrong with being a goofball. Everybody who doesn't like it can go fuck themselves with a giant saguaro cactus. Accept and love yourself and be glad you are an individual and not a fucking mindless 21st century lemming

[Asker]

Bruh this bitchup here just said im wrong for laugjing da fuc

[Asker]

Thats the same bitch who said my dads a pervert cuz he said i looked sexy one time.

[Asker]

I mean the boch who answered by the way.

[Avicenna]

No one is liked by everyone, so you might as well be yourself.

[Asker]

Why did this bich up there say im wrong for laughing

[Iron_Man]

Just relax and enjoy life

[Asker]

Can u help me do that

[Iron_Man]

You need a life coach?

[Asker]

Yeea

[Iron_Man]

OK what’s the problem

[Asker]

I can't relax and enjoy

[Iron_Man]

You have to try

[SueShe]

Good morning Tiger, I am sorry that I missed your birthday but I do wish you all the best for your birthday. I hope you had a fantastic day 🎂

[Iron_Man]

@SueShe Thanks so much Sue I had a great birthday I went to Fort Lauderdale Florida and came back late tonight I did a lot of great activities I ate at a real classy steak restaurant they sang happy birthday to me on the piano and the waitresses and my brother did as well 😊

[Iron_Man]

We got a suite at the hotel in Fort Lauderdale we really had a great time

[SueShe]

That is really great to hear. By the way, how is your brother doing?

[Iron_Man]

@SueShe Thanks. There’s still a lot of confusion on what exactly does he have and he is still losing weight I don’t think he’s doing that great I thought he could recuperated better sometimes he has better days but now he spends a lot of times on the scooter the motorized scooter. Sometimes when he gets tired I have to help him off the couch it’s really demoralizing to me and hard on me big time the man used to be such a tough warrior and now he can barely walk. We’re still looking for an answer for the muscle disease. It’s difficult to work with him he’s very prideful very powerful strong and he doesn’t like to be told what to do and we argue a lot but we’re brothers and we stick together. He’s super skinny now and when I lift him up from the couch to give him a boost to stand I feel a lot of bones not much muscle now. He kind of has the body of a POW now it’s demoralizing and super depressing

[Iron_Man]

Please pray for my brother Sue

[SueShe]

I am so sorry to hear that. Please convey to your brother my best wishes for a speedy recovery. I will of course include him in my prayers.

I honestly hope the doctors will be able to get to the bottom of the problem and find a remedy to his illness.

[Iron_Man]

@SueShe Thank you so much I really appreciate that and I will definitely tell him today when I see him thank you for your support I really appreciate it.

[Iron_Man]

He will do better

[Asker]

Maybr he's anorexic like me?

[Iron_Man]

Nope