Guys, would you avoid asking a girl out if you knew a lot of guys probably like her, or do you become competitive to try to win her over?

[Anonymous]

[Serkee]

If she lets those guys chase her, I'd absolutely avoid her. But I'd be ruling out just about every woman if I ruled out all women who guys like.

[Anonymous]

If i like a girl and think I had a real chance, I would want to approach. Want and ability to do so are different.

[jahaims]

Neither. If I have to compete then that means she doesn't want me. Letting a bunch of guys chase you is just immature ego stroking.

[9in_Serpent]

Not really but i won't be competitive about it as that is too childish

[Anonymous]

Every girl has a bunch of guys who like her. No man would ever get into a relationship if they had this mindset

[Anonymous]

I let them have her move onto girl that wants me

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Avoid? like the plague.