I agree with most people... the best thing for you is to just move on and appreciate your friends. And if he cares about you, then moving on will also upset him.
If you really want to make him jealous, then you're probably looking at doing something that could hurt a few people and could end up messy. Something like sleeping with his best friend or even better having a threesome with his best friend, or maybe dating someone who he admires or looks up to, and being the best girlfriend ever to them... until you get bored.
A safer option would be to look AMAZING when you know he's going to see you. For example if you're going to a party and you know he'll be there, wear a slightly too-revealing dress, get your hair done, spend a while doing your make up. This is basically so he can see what a stunner he turned down and so that other people will be admiring you and he'll wish that you were still his.
So basically you've got 2 options: If you want to make him feel unloved and like he made a mistake, you can act like you never cared about him and just move on; If you want him to be jealous and want you back then you should get other guys interested in you and make him see what he's missing out on... how far you take that is up to you!
The best revenge is "no revenge".
You must pretend that nothing is really happened. Forget all and ignore all. What he is feeling must not be a priority for you (obviously he feel nothing). Think about yourself. From now on, he don't deserve your attention. Do what's the best for you and don't think about him anymore. Don't waste your time and effort to do something for him(even a bad one) . Be yourself and don't let hard feelings to lead your life. You have to be strong to do so and it's better for you. I'm confident in you and I wish you all the best.
Delete his number and delete his dumbass off of everything. If you have him on FB and he goes to your page seeing you're not friends anymore he might be like :/ if he asks you about it just be like oh weird lol dunno what happened. And then just don't add him back, read his last message so he sees "read" or seen or whatever it says and just wipe his existence out of your memory. When he realizes you simply don't give a shit he'll probably want you because people want shit they can't have. He obviously thought he was too good for you so the fact that someone who is worth less than him is no longer interested in him will piss him off. You were probably just an ego boost to him. He's a fuckin loser and you deserve better. Get to the gym and get your Prime body he'll regret ditching you. Get your nails and hair did, a nice spray tan, whiten your teeth and get some new clothes. Next time you run into him he's gunna be pissed he let you slide. If you're not seeing someone just lie about it (if he tries to small talk in person) cut the convo short and say sorry I gotta go I'm gunna be late headed to a friends bday party. Make yourself seem super busy like you have no time for his dumb ass.
You shouldn't get revenge, but I get that sometimes you can't help but want it. It can be self destructive though. Warning.
So he ditched you? That's harsh and just plain mean. If you text him, send him "accidental" texts like you're talking to another guy. And then send an "oops, sorry, that wasn't meant for you, my phone is being weird" text and nothing else. If he tries to have a conversation with you send the dreaded and hated one-word replies to show you're not really interested. That ought to grind his gears.
But don't do it if you're going to regret it and don't expect to see his anger or jealously over texts. People hardly admit it when they're jealous.
And don't send anything too bad with your accidental texts. DO NOT DO ANYTHING YOU WILL REGRET!
But if you decide it would be better to just blow him off like he did to you and move on, I encourage that too, far more than the revenge. Don't go too far hun.
This will tick him off but it shouldn't really hurt him.
Good luck!
this is what i did to mine hopefully it will help you along lol
one night he came home drunk & fell asleep on top of bed
wearing only a towel after showering.
Sooo helped by my 2 friends we took off the towel and shaved ALL his pubes
off & took b4 n after photos and posted them to an online blog page we made all about it
with other nude pics he sent me added a link to his facebook etc... HAHAHA and the blog page is still on-line m its sooooo goood i lovin it
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Let him see you with your new guy who is taller, darker, more handsome etc.
Act like you really don't care and just enjoy yourself with a new guy, even if it isn't someone you are fully into.
He will get jealous and try to talk to you again, but don't fall for it because if you give him what he wants, he will just do it again.
Make him suffer for his transgressions by showing him what he could have been with and missed out on.
If he talks to you make sure you are super sweet to him to miss your personality. Look super gorgeous so he remembers how attracted to you he is and make sure that you will always ignore him for the guy you are with.
As far as your concerned, the new guy you're with is the one who was smart enough to realize what he has and kept it.
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The best evenge is success, so you need to show people around you that you can still function without him, and that your moving on, because this will hit him where it hurts, he will feel that he has made a mistake, and he will even contact you to see how things are with you, but as long as you make out that things are good, he will wonder how your able to move on so well, and he will start to regret leaving you, this is a no fail recipee to your satisfaction and his regret, give it a go, but you cannot mention your true emotions, always led to believe all is good, good luck,x
Just move on. That is the best revenge. You really shouldn't seek revenge, but just go on with your life and have a good time. If this guy didn't take his chance when you when he had it, he missed out. But it's not worth it to get revenge, just move on. Revenge shows him that you cared and really in the end only makes it look like you are a sore loser for not getting this guy, and that just strokes his ego.
There are plenty of guys out there who would love to date you, so just go out with friends and have fun. This guy will be a distant memory in time.
In a word: none. The only way you can hurt them is if they actually give a crap about you. If they don't and this guy obviously doesn't, then you have no power to hurt him. Best advice is to move on with your life and put all this behind you. After all, if you would stoop so low as to get revenge on this guy for neglecting you, then you have to ask yourself. Do you really deserve the next decent guy who comes along? I'd say no.
In your case, I would say to act extremely cold to him. If he tries to be nice to you, laugh at him. Like literally burst into laughter. You have to actually make it seem like you know you're better than him. People are bothered by conceited people.
I could give you more tips but since I'm the queen of revenge, they would be pretty harsh. I have the power to make someone's day 10x better or a living hell, haha.
Act like he never existed. Don't call him, and if he calls you act nonchalant, have a conversation like he was never important to you, but be polite. WeaponZero has it right, he probably doesn't care and you should just move on. But looking needy or showing him you cared will not have the desired affect, avoid this at all costs.
Why worry about what he thinks? Getting a rise out of him won't really make you happy. I think it just proves he made the right decision to ditch you. If I were you I would just think oh well and move on. You can't control his thoughts or desires. Also if you play less games it will probably help you in relationships.
Be your best self just because you are not with some guy doesn't mean you are not best. If you enjoy your life without this guy and move on and find a nice guy with a good job and career who can take care of you.All this will make this idiot realize his mistake and by that time it will be too late.
hmmm... you could try stealing his kidney! :D slip a roofie in his drink, then when he passes out drag him into a hotel room you rented, then gently remove his kidney with a scalpel. When your done place him in a tub full of ice and he'll be fine.
get another date? it'll make him jealous and when he asks about the relationship just say it's going great and act super happy. if he ditched you once he won't hesitate to ditch you a second and a third time. best just to move on from him and REALLY be happy with someone else. also don't just get a date to make him jealous. that's just wrong... pick someone you really click with :) x goodluck x
why bouther he will get his in the end my ex wife walked on me for anouther guy well I was in the hospital she even named MY son after him well just rember what comes around gose around she learn that trust me I now have coustody of my kids 8 and 6 and don't any thing to do with her I have to fight with the kids to see her
Moving on, and living well. I think this is a best revenge situation for other things as well... traumatic high school years? Becoming famous, wealthy or very successful in what you'd like to do.
Basically what most of the guys are saying, the best revenge is living YOUR life, moving on, being happy. Anything you do to catch his attention will just signal to him that you need him and have been thinking of him.
Trying to not look pathetic, by not attempting to get revenge, is the best revenge ;)
Success is the best revenge. Get over him, move on with your life, and be successful in your relationships and that will be the best revenge possible.
The best revenge is no revenge. If you take revenge on someone then they know they have hurt you. Why would you want to give them that kind of satisfaction?
leave him aside & look at your own business(career), be the best where ever you may be...
when you have reaches the peak he will definitely feel that he made a mistake...
Move on, have fun, live a great life. Show that you're getting along quite fine without him. The tough part is if you're showy about it you look super immature, and he'll know he won.
Dont waste your time, if a woman I ditched did that to me, it would only boost my ego. sorry for the truth. don't do it, just move on..make it painless for you both.
Don't you think that it's quite childish to get revenge? I would just try to move on. If he doesn't want you, then that's his loss. There are plenty of other fish in the sea ;)
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