We broke up 3 months ago but the reason was that she cheated on me. And I can't forget it. I didn't want to hurt her but now I feel like I need to take a revenge on her. What is the best revenge against an ex-girlfriend?
Wow this is just where the world's headed I guess
Why don't you look at it in a different light is she fell out of love with you she cheated on you you need to thank her because she's out of your life now she got caught and she's out of your life now she could still be cheating on you coming home every night acting if nothing has ever happened so thank her for her showing her real self to you and ending the relationship you can't hate her because she fell out of love with you you can dislike her for the way she went about it but who cares. You want to hurt her because she hurt you dude you cannot make somebody love you thank her don't hurt her if you want to hurt her if you want revenge get your s*** 100% together change your lifestyle change everything about you let her see what she walked away from that's the sweetest revenge you can get but if you go out and do something to hurt her you're just as bad as she is
You can't hate somebody that did something to you
And then turn around and do the same thing to her or worse that makes you just as evil as she is
I mean you have to be honest with yourself you hating her is holding you back
You're angry because she did what she did but you're also angry because you don't have a girlfriend no more and you're too lazy to go out and find one
You don't need to hurt her you don't need to even get in her life you don't even need to communicate with her that's revenge right there
Be the bigger person walk away hold your head up high get your s*** together go out and find a hot girl walk hand in hand with her put your arm through hers and one day your ex will see you and say man that I ever messed up that's the best revenge right there00 Reply
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Revenge? My ex was toxic the entire 3 years, found out she cheated, manipulated my feelings, constantly broke up with me because of mood swings, and I would come crawling back because of her excuses. The last time she had "seasonal depression" and broke up with me, I didn't look back.
I slept around right after we broke up, that didn't help. Couldnt even get up for some girls because I was still healing.
The BEST feelings came from moving on.
1) I started working out again (she didn't let me work out alone without making my life hell). Got a new car, job, new place etc, life got better.
2) She tried texting me a few months later and I blocked her, that felt amazing. She tried sending me a box of my old things (an old lamp and my empty notebook) I threw it out, laughing at the stupidity.
3) I have a new girlfriend of 2 years now who is infinitely better - she really is my best friend! We went out to lake about 2hs away and I actually saw my ex with another guy driving by, we locked eyes and I just bursted out laughing.
She looked miserable. The guy wasn't good looking at all and looked even more miserable. All I thought was man, that used to be me and could have still been me if I didn't grow a pair! I used to feel nervous about maybe seeing her again but It was amazing to know that I had zero feelings whatsoever !
Anyway that's my experience, just move on and do better. The better you do, the more she'll wish she was with you, and that revenge is very sweet ☺️☺️11 Reply- 1 y
waw sounds like she's a narcissistic
- 1 y
@rolangaros - well it's OBVIOUS why she cheated, you're a narcissistic ASSHOLE who has NOTHING better to do with his miserable little life than make someone else suffer.
As for what you can you, you sniveling dog, you can get a life & move on. Don't be so goddamn useless and pathetic as to get "revenge" on someone who is probably far better off having NEVER met you then call you "boyfriend" for whatever time it was.
11 Reply- 1 y
as if that justified cheating? if those accusation true, then separate but not cheat while in relationship.
How silly of you. You should not expect a girlfriend not to cheat. That is what females do. https://www.nytimes.com/1998/12/22/science/in-this-battle-of-the-sexes-the-females-win.html
210 Reply- 1 y
@Sasha0426 No need, I just change boyfriends every few months. If you mean a serious relationship, I cannot predict what I might do or if my opinions will change so far into the future. Furthermore, females with elite husbands are not likely to cheat. Since they already have the best, there is no evolutionary advantage.








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1 yRevenge shows her and the rest of the world that you still care. Is that the message you want to send?
10 ReplyFirst off, let's just agree that revenge can really backfire. You could end up facing some serious legal or professional consequences, and trust me, that's the last thing you need when you're trying to move on. Plus, it doesn't exactly scream "I'm mature and can handle adult relationships," does it?
So what's the real 'revenge' you can get? Living well. I mean it. Nothing says 'I've moved on' better than actually moving on and living a fantastic life. Hit the gym, start that hobby you've always wanted to, hang out with your friends, or dive into your work. Your glow-up will speak for itself. And hey, when you're doing great, and your ex sees it, you won't have to say a thing.
If you're feeling really torn up, don't be afraid to seek emotional support. Chatting with friends, talking to family, or even getting some professional advice can help you get your head back on straight. The point is, use this time for some personal growth. Who knows? You might even come out the other side a better person.
In the grand scheme of things, a breakup is just a chapter, not your whole story. So why not focus on writing the best version of your life, instead of wasting ink on a page that's already been turned?
10 Reply- 1 y
Tell to everyone your ex-girlfriend, with her name and her last name, has cheated on you, tell the truth. You could also say it on the social networks. You could ask to your closed ones to spread that truth, like:"Hey, you know 'Jane Doe'? She's the cheater.' But I'm not sure people would care. Personnally, I was really furious against a person, so one day, I sent a message to him. And I made that message the most hurtful possible. After that, I almost cut ties with him, and didn't thinkt about it.
But external things are outside your consol, often. Even if you spend years and years, it's not sure you would have your revenge.
00 Reply - 1 y
Hell is waiting for her. You dont need to do anything. Her being dead would be best cause there is no reason for cheaters to be alive but its not your job to punnish her. So just move on to the next level. Find a woman with human value and let the Devil take care of her when her times come:)
20 Reply Never seek " revenge " this is purely harming yourself , holding such angry just destroys your soul , focus on things that interest you , and be the very best person you can be , karma has a strange way of working things out , but please don't ingest the pain and fear , you will achieve absolutely nothing.
10 ReplyThe best revenge is that she sees you happy with someone else and you've left her alone.
Seriously. Leave. Her. Alone.
She cheated on you, you broke up, and three months later you are still thinking of revenge? Dude. If you get in another relationship, and your new girlfriend finds out what you did to your ex, trust me, you'll be single again in no time. You don't want to be the a-hole.
10 Reply- Anonymous(30-35)1 y
To just be successful and move on with your life. Don't dwell on someone like that. You will find no true solace in trying to get revenge against her except by letting it go and focusing on yourself and becoming a better version of yourself. She will come to regret doing what she did when she sees you're happy and have moved on from her.
00 Reply The best revenge is to build a better life without her. That's what I did with my ex wife. She thought she could do better. We had a nice house and everything was good but not enough for her. I changed get jobs, made a ton more money, got a new wife and she wound up living in a dumpy old house and never found happiness. My honest revenge is that I paid more in taxes then she made and when kids were grown up they live close to me and not her.
10 Reply- 1 y
To forget about her and move on like she never even existed.
20 Reply - 1 y
The best revenge will be the laughter of our children -Bobby Sands
Move on. Process your pain. Discard it. Don't let it posion you for someone else.10 Reply - 1 y
Ultimate revenge would be to sleep with her mum or sister, maybe best friend. But what's likelihood they will want to.
Seriously, she didn't care for you. So nothing you do will matter to her. Move on in life10 Reply By moving on and forgetting she exists. Don't give her power over you, by holding on to negative energy.
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Boring
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I change my mind, force her to play minecraft with @sirderpsalot123 at 3am
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I'll make sure she does a lot 👍
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Dies
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@sirderpsalot123 let her build something amazing and blow it up
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Like when my friend told me to get some wood, so I just started taking wood from whatever he was building. He should have been more specific
- 1 y
It took him way too long to notice lol
- 1 y
@sirderpsalot123 🤣🤣that's too funny
You bully everyone
- 1 y
if u take revenge , it'll come back to u , cause and effect , law of the universe
so it's better to just focus on yourself , bc it would be a never ending cycle ,
10 Reply To me, seeking revenge against a woman is like hitting a woman -- you try your very best to avoid it at all costs.
00 Replyget on with your life, find someone better, be successful and don't ever contact her ever again.
Best revenge ever.10 Replypublic name and shame and by shaming I mean slut shaming because cheaters are sluts
10 Reply- 1 y
from my experience, the best way is going to be to fuck her boyfriend.
00 Reply Remember, revenge may provide temporary satisfaction, but it rarely leads to long-term happiness or resolution. Focus on your own well-being and personal growth instead.
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10 ReplyWork hard and be better than that loser he has now.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/W6vVwrfvPkY00 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. You need therapy more than you need revenge.
00 Reply808 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Living well is always the best revenge. Do not use revenge porn. It will only backfire
00 Reply- 1 y
Slash her car tires 🛞
Nothing too damaging to her, but extremely satisfying to you00 Reply - 1 y
Being successful. Show her what she's missing out on, by being successful. Anything else, could get you in trouble, and her, dead
00 Reply Seeking revenge just gives her the win because it shows she is still under your skin.
00 Reply- 1 y
The best revenge, always, is to let it go and be the best you that you can be.
00 Reply - 1 y
Ignore her very existence. Why care after she proved that she's garbage? Move on.
00 Reply - 1 y
The best revenge is moving on and forgetting about them. Then it shows how little effect they have on your life and your emotions anymore
10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)1 y
Take her by surprise , pin her down/tie her up and revenge
00 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)1 y
Call her parents and ask them to upgrade their daughters set of values. I never heard anyone wishing their daughter would become a cheater.
00 Reply - 1 y
The best revenge is becoming the man she never expected you to be. So keep working on yourself.
00 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)1 y
The best revenge is to do better than them and find someone better, and better looking even
00 Reply - Anonymous(18-24)1 y
Take her picture blast it on the internet and expose her
Tell her she's a fat whore00 Reply Healing and moving on
00 Reply818 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Being happy with someone else.
00 Reply- 1 y
At your grown ass age? Just move on lol
00 Reply To forget about her
00 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Revenge is small dick energy. Move on
00 Reply498 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. You need therapy
10 Reply- 1 y
Just move on lol
13 Reply- 1 y
🤣🤣 it isn't boring when I say it
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