We broke up 3 months ago but the reason was that she cheated on me. And I can't forget it. I didn't want to hurt her but now I feel like I need to take a revenge on her. What is the best revenge against an ex-girlfriend?
Wow this is just where the world's headed I guess
Why don't you look at it in a different light is she fell out of love with you she cheated on you you need to thank her because she's out of your life now she got caught and she's out of your life now she could still be cheating on you coming home every night acting if nothing has ever happened so thank her for her showing her real self to you and ending the relationship you can't hate her because she fell out of love with you you can dislike her for the way she went about it but who cares. You want to hurt her because she hurt you dude you cannot make somebody love you thank her don't hurt her if you want to hurt her if you want revenge get your s*** 100% together change your lifestyle change everything about you let her see what she walked away from that's the sweetest revenge you can get but if you go out and do something to hurt her you're just as bad as she is
You can't hate somebody that did something to you
And then turn around and do the same thing to her or worse that makes you just as evil as she is
I mean you have to be honest with yourself you hating her is holding you back
You're angry because she did what she did but you're also angry because you don't have a girlfriend no more and you're too lazy to go out and find one
You don't need to hurt her you don't need to even get in her life you don't even need to communicate with her that's revenge right there
Be the bigger person walk away hold your head up high get your s*** together go out and find a hot girl walk hand in hand with her put your arm through hers and one day your ex will see you and say man that I ever messed up that's the best revenge right there
Revenge? My ex was toxic the entire 3 years, found out she cheated, manipulated my feelings, constantly broke up with me because of mood swings, and I would come crawling back because of her excuses. The last time she had "seasonal depression" and broke up with me, I didn't look back.
I slept around right after we broke up, that didn't help. Couldnt even get up for some girls because I was still healing.
The BEST feelings came from moving on.
1) I started working out again (she didn't let me work out alone without making my life hell). Got a new car, job, new place etc, life got better.
2) She tried texting me a few months later and I blocked her, that felt amazing. She tried sending me a box of my old things (an old lamp and my empty notebook) I threw it out, laughing at the stupidity.
3) I have a new girlfriend of 2 years now who is infinitely better - she really is my best friend! We went out to lake about 2hs away and I actually saw my ex with another guy driving by, we locked eyes and I just bursted out laughing.
She looked miserable. The guy wasn't good looking at all and looked even more miserable. All I thought was man, that used to be me and could have still been me if I didn't grow a pair! I used to feel nervous about maybe seeing her again but It was amazing to know that I had zero feelings whatsoever !
Anyway that's my experience, just move on and do better. The better you do, the more she'll wish she was with you, and that revenge is very sweet ☺️☺️
@rolangaros - well it's OBVIOUS why she cheated, you're a narcissistic ASSHOLE who has NOTHING better to do with his miserable little life than make someone else suffer.
As for what you can you, you sniveling dog, you can get a life & move on. Don't be so goddamn useless and pathetic as to get "revenge" on someone who is probably far better off having NEVER met you then call you "boyfriend" for whatever time it was.
How silly of you. You should not expect a girlfriend not to cheat. That is what females do. https://www.nytimes.com/1998/12/22/science/in-this-battle-of-the-sexes-the-females-win.html
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u Revenge shows her and the rest of the world that you still care. Is that the message you want to send?
First off, let's just agree that revenge can really backfire. You could end up facing some serious legal or professional consequences, and trust me, that's the last thing you need when you're trying to move on. Plus, it doesn't exactly scream "I'm mature and can handle adult relationships," does it?
So what's the real 'revenge' you can get? Living well. I mean it. Nothing says 'I've moved on' better than actually moving on and living a fantastic life. Hit the gym, start that hobby you've always wanted to, hang out with your friends, or dive into your work. Your glow-up will speak for itself. And hey, when you're doing great, and your ex sees it, you won't have to say a thing.
If you're feeling really torn up, don't be afraid to seek emotional support. Chatting with friends, talking to family, or even getting some professional advice can help you get your head back on straight. The point is, use this time for some personal growth. Who knows? You might even come out the other side a better person.
In the grand scheme of things, a breakup is just a chapter, not your whole story. So why not focus on writing the best version of your life, instead of wasting ink on a page that's already been turned?
Tell to everyone your ex-girlfriend, with her name and her last name, has cheated on you, tell the truth. You could also say it on the social networks. You could ask to your closed ones to spread that truth, like:"Hey, you know 'Jane Doe'? She's the cheater.' But I'm not sure people would care. Personnally, I was really furious against a person, so one day, I sent a message to him. And I made that message the most hurtful possible. After that, I almost cut ties with him, and didn't thinkt about it.
But external things are outside your consol, often. Even if you spend years and years, it's not sure you would have your revenge.
Hell is waiting for her. You dont need to do anything. Her being dead would be best cause there is no reason for cheaters to be alive but its not your job to punnish her. So just move on to the next level. Find a woman with human value and let the Devil take care of her when her times come:)
Never seek " revenge " this is purely harming yourself , holding such angry just destroys your soul , focus on things that interest you , and be the very best person you can be , karma has a strange way of working things out , but please don't ingest the pain and fear , you will achieve absolutely nothing.
The best revenge is that she sees you happy with someone else and you've left her alone.
Seriously. Leave. Her. Alone.
She cheated on you, you broke up, and three months later you are still thinking of revenge? Dude. If you get in another relationship, and your new girlfriend finds out what you did to your ex, trust me, you'll be single again in no time. You don't want to be the a-hole.
The best revenge is to build a better life without her. That's what I did with my ex wife. She thought she could do better. We had a nice house and everything was good but not enough for her. I changed get jobs, made a ton more money, got a new wife and she wound up living in a dumpy old house and never found happiness. My honest revenge is that I paid more in taxes then she made and when kids were grown up they live close to me and not her.
To just be successful and move on with your life. Don't dwell on someone like that. You will find no true solace in trying to get revenge against her except by letting it go and focusing on yourself and becoming a better version of yourself. She will come to regret doing what she did when she sees you're happy and have moved on from her.
To forget about her and move on like she never even existed.
The best revenge will be the laughter of our children -Bobby Sands
Move on. Process your pain. Discard it. Don't let it posion you for someone else.
Ultimate revenge would be to sleep with her mum or sister, maybe best friend. But what's likelihood they will want to.
Seriously, she didn't care for you. So nothing you do will matter to her. Move on in life
By moving on and forgetting she exists. Don't give her power over you, by holding on to negative energy.
if u take revenge , it'll come back to u , cause and effect , law of the universe
so it's better to just focus on yourself , bc it would be a never ending cycle ,
To me, seeking revenge against a woman is like hitting a woman -- you try your very best to avoid it at all costs.
get on with your life, find someone better, be successful and don't ever contact her ever again.
Best revenge ever.
public name and shame and by shaming I mean slut shaming because cheaters are sluts
from my experience, the best way is going to be to fuck her boyfriend.
Remember, revenge may provide temporary satisfaction, but it rarely leads to long-term happiness or resolution. Focus on your own well-being and personal growth instead.
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Work hard and be better than that loser he has now.
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Living well is always the best revenge. Do not use revenge porn. It will only backfire
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