When you invest your whole heart and she verbally and physically abuses you then when you stand up to it she suddenly decides to break up. I wasn’t allowed to end the relationship cause her sister threatened to kill me
“… ever…”? Of course, with time and diligence, all things are possible.
It’s not going to be easy though. Pretty much all available resources are directed at female victims and male abusers. I recommend Ann Silvers’s book, “Abuse OF Men BY Women”. She’s a passionate, intelligent and professional counselor with a great deal of experience working with men and women on both sides of the abuse issue.
https://annsilvers.com/products/abuse-of-men-by-women-it-happens-it-hurts
Despite the low chance that you’ll find the help you need through the usual resources, i think you should try. The people and organizations responsible for their entirely biased resources should know firsthand the impact that they’re having as well as the impact they’re NOT having. They may never change. But they can’t change if nobody tells them what they’re doing wrong.
I strongly recommend you deliberately not date for a while. If you happen to meet an understanding and compassionate woman through your healing process, you may naturally want to be closer to her. She cannot save you. You have to do that for yourself. If she’s still around when you come out the other side, happy and whole without a woman, then go for it. But you need to focus on you for a period of time.
Keep your head up and good luck!
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yes, but the mess needs a diagnosis as to what went on and the wisdom gained. It isn't fair to label all women the same as those two anymore than "all dogs are bad".
sometimes you can thank your lucky stars it stopped as soon as it did.
Sure just get some help for your issues and take your time before you jump in another relationship. Never let a woman walk all over you even if you love them. The first sign of disrespect you leave even if you love them deeply. If you don't leave they think that behaviour is acceptable. Never let someone make you feel like you are less then them, if they do, they have no love you. So you shouldn't ever waste your time and love on a bitch.
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My wife did it, so I believe you can too. The first step it to take time to recover though, so don't try to get into another relationship right now. That can wait until you're ready. For now focus on keeping strong friend and/or family relationships, and getting fulfillment from your work and recreational activities. Get to a place where you're happy. Then you'll be able to invite someone special into your life again, if you choose to.
I like to think so. My heart is not closed just very guarded. I've found peace being single. For the right woman I'd do it again. But I don't come cheap anymore. She'll have to convince me she worth not staying single for. If not, I'm fine to remain single.
No, no because the world will never consider it abuse if it’s by a woman towards a man. Women have too much privilege and power and play it off as if they don’t.
A woman can't physically abuse or verbally abuse a man, because for one, a woman's insults doesn't affect a man, and second, a woman wouldn't hurt a man as much since women's punches are softer than that of a man's punches, if a woman starts hurting you you need to man up and take it, and if she breaks up with you then there's plenty of fish in the sea, you have to be the bigger man here.
certainly i give each new one a chance she is a different person. despite some rotten ones that i dumped after trouble
Sorry that happened. You can when you recover from it. Look to the future.
yes, but it can take quite a while to trust someone again.
Sometimes getting some help would not be the worst thing you could do.Yes, you just need to find somebody who won't abuse you
No, I will never, ever, fully trust a woman again.
Maybe not. But I guarantee is it’s that chick, it’s your childhood.
Sorry but you're a wimp if you can knock her to tomorrow the moment she raises her hand on you
That’s crazy. At least you got rid of her.
Yes, you can. I have.
it's down to trust that all it is.
You can if you take time to recover
Probably NOT.
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