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My boyfriend of three years and I broke up, for like four days. It was a hard time and I was very upset and hurt. Long story short, we talked and worked it out and we are back together. by the way, we have lived together for a majority of our relationship. But, once I told my mom and sister, that we are back together they have been so negative. I have been in multiple relationships where I have been hurt and I have listened to them when it comes to it. But now, that I am making my own choice and choosing to stay. They make me feel horrible for it. by the way, he didn’t cheat or anything or done anything horrible to me. We just weren’t really discussing what bothered us in our relationship. Anyways, now that we are back together. It’s been maybe a month or so now, they make me feel horrible for getting back together. My mom keeps saying “you guys argue all the time” when we literally don’t. And even if we did, I don’t tell her everything because of her reaction. I purposely don’t tell her stuff because she will hold onto it and make it a big deal. My mother and my sister also said they’re waiting for our relationship to fail and said that I’m not as strong as a woman as I think I am because we decided to get back together. I get that they’re trying to be protective and such. But they can also be supportive even though then don’t agree with the decision. And every time I ask them to be more supportive they start yelling and say that they are being supportive but continue to tell me how much of a failure my relationship is going to be and how i should listen to them and leave the relationship still. It’s almost like they’re mad at me for not making the decision they want me to make. I have been dating this man for three years and I am not going to just breakup because my mom and sister will think negative things. I’ll do it if I want to. And I’m 25 and he’s 24. But am I just misinterpreting their words or does it sound like they’re trying to control my decision?

These are signs I saw to my boyfriend

1. He blames the government for accusing him stealing money and raping girls.
2. He demands to me to bank loan, make business proposal for investors, look for investors, motorbike loan, buying foods and others. He get mad if I don't follow him.
3. He said he has to find other girls to use for loan.
4. We often quarrel if I caught him chatting other girls, he said u don't want me to earn money?
5. He blames me for cheating because I don't cook for him and clean the house. He has mentally abuse me with words like cheap, dog, useless, animal.
7. He used me to loan to get motorbike. He get mad if I don't follow his demands like sleeping late at night, buying him foods, business papers, bank applications and others.
8. He is so intense in sex that sometimes he doesn't care it hurt me.
9. He lie a lot where he goes and who he is with.
10. I caught him talking to other girls, saying my girl and babe. which he said just nothing.
11. He meets other girls behind my back for hookups.