So my boyfriend started being really cold with me and distant yesterday he didn’t even say a single word to me until I asked him why he was so quiet and then he said that the group chat that I made with my guy friend, my boyfriend, and me made him uncomfortable and that that friend made him uncomfortable because I told him that he has had feelings for me for 3 years last month but that we are just friends I also explained to him recently that that friend has had a girlfriend and is always asking me to set him up with other girls and that I don’t think he has feelings for me anymore. After that I just felt really sad because of how distant he was being with me, how I felt like he didn’t trust me, and how I didn’t do anything wrong so out of my control my tears started falling I went to the kitchen and then to the bathroom to try to just let it out but as I went back to the couch with him more tears came out which I didn’t mean to happen. And he started saying that he was so stupid and that he was so sorry I asked him if those two girls that cheated on him had a different personality and he said that they couldn’t be any more different than me and I also told him that I’ll only ever be interested in him which is true. He was also rubbing his eyes and I saw his face get red for a second I think that he was crying I gave him a bunch of kisses when I noticed. That was last night I woke up today with my heart still feeling a little heavy and I told my boyfriend that I just want a few hours of space today and he kept writing me paragraphs about how sorry he was and I told him that i love him and forgive him too. Also another thing was that last week I told him that i decided to still be friends with the guy ( that I had to unfriend a month ago because my boyfriend felt uncomfortable) and he reacted in a sweet way saying that he trusted me and then yesterday when I made a group chat with me, that friend, and my boyfriend he started being distant.
I also told him many times that I’m not attracted to black guys my friend is a black guy
He knows that I don’t have many friends and he kept on telling me that he trusts me but if he actually did then why was he uncomfortable?