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The other day, Whilst people were asking about their beautiful Holiday dresses, I thought my outfit was comparatively funny.. I forgot to post this. 🤷‍♀️😊

The pants are so comfortable I didn’t mind looking silly.. Honestly I would really like this if the pants came down around my shoe. I dislike indecisive hems. In a time of (inexplicably) 3 quarter fashion.. It is so difficult to find hens that are able to go the distance. Oh well. 🤷‍♀️

Sorry it’s so close up.. I guess I was too tired to do the White out.

Happy Holidays ❤️🎄⭐️🎄⭐️🎄❤️🎄⭐️🎄⭐️🎄❤️

My coworkers keeps saying my male coworker has a crush on me. We like to play around at work. We've been told we argue like a married couple. We've also gotten to a point where we were not nice to each other. My work did seating arrangements and we now sit next to each other. We get along really well now. Please don't tell me it's a bad idea. I won't date anyone at work. Bad experience before.
He comes to my desk sometimes. Even though he sits 2 feet away. We also talk to everyone else within the perimeter so it's not just us. He recently followed another coworker on social media (she has a boyfriend and she's 19). I personally think he's attracted to her (but she doesn't think so) Recently I did something creative and drew pictures of everyone. He posted my drawing of him on social media. Everyone thinks that's some type of sign he digs me. He comes to my desk and looks at my photos on my wall. However when he looked at my pictures he literally looks at them by laying his body across my desk in front of me. He then points to one picture and says this is cute.
Now my coworker is quirky and he talks to EVERYONE. He approaches others and he's curious in nature. So I feel like everyone is fantasizing us both. We are just both very friendly and sociable/comfortable with people. However he's going through a divorce and has children. I don't want these rumors going around. So after work I told him hey our coworkers are spreading rumors right now. They're trying to set you, another co-worker (one that has bf) and I up and think we have a thing. You should tell them you have a girlfriend to like nip it and stop it. He's like what gf? I don't have one. I'm just like yeah make it up or something. He's like well maybe we should make it a double date. I'm like huh? I don't get it. Just say you have a girlfriend. However I did it in a nice manner of course. How do I stop the rumors? I really do not think he likes me like that but everyone else is convinced. What should I do?

My coworkers keeps saying my male coworker has a crush on me. We like to play around at work. We've been told we argue like a married couple. We've also gotten to a point where we were not nice to each other. My work did seating arrangements and we now sit next to each other. We get along really well now. Please don't tell me it's a bad idea. I won't date anyone at work. Bad experience before.
He comes to my desk sometimes. Even though he sits 2 feet away. We also talk to everyone else within the perimeter so it's not just us. He recently followed another coworker on social media (she has a boyfriend and she's 19). I personally think he's attracted to her (but she doesn't think so) Recently I did something creative and drew pictures of everyone. He posted my drawing of him on social media. Everyone thinks that's some type of sign he digs me. He comes to my desk and looks at my photos on my wall. However when he looked at my pictures he literally looks at them by laying his body across my desk in front of me. He then points to one picture and says this is cute.
Now my coworker is quirky and he talks to EVERYONE. He approaches others and he's curious in nature. So I feel like everyone is fantasizing us both. We are just both very friendly and sociable/comfortable with people. However he's going through a divorce and has children. I don't want these rumors going around. So after work I told him hey our coworkers are spreading rumors right now. They're trying to set you, another co-worker (one that has bf) and I up and think we have a thing. You should tell them you have a girlfriend to like nip it and stop it. He's like what gf? I don't have one. I'm just like yeah make it up or something. He's like well maybe we should make it a double date. I'm like huh? I don't get it. Just say you have a girlfriend. However I did it in a nice manner of course. How do I stop the rumors? I really do not think he likes me like that but everyone else is convinced. What should I do?

So.. I am normally NOT a fan of body con dresses. I don’t mean that I think they are ugly. I think they can look really good, but I don’t like them on me. Aside from the modesty aspect, they just don’t suit my body. I don’t want to go into detail bc I’d just be drawing attention to the things I dislike yet I hope other people don’t notice 🤦‍♀️😁😅

I am only posting it bc a - then- friendly acquaintance who I guess is really basically a friend now, had given me this as a gift a year or so ago when I was in my “ Amish”
phase (stylistically) as a friendly joke. It is her birthday and we are going to celebrate as she has invited me. She thought it would be fun If we wore them together... Of course she isn’t expecting me to wear it if I’m not comfortable, but I thought this would be a good time to put it to the donate test.

I think In all the time I wore it once to do laundry and I had a coat on the whole time.

I decided I can wear it for the evening and keep my coat on then donate it.

Or wear it once And keep it for around the house.

Or just return it to her.

{Excuse the hair. Normally I’d push it out of the way but “ body con” so -I didn’t 🤷‍♀️😁😅

This mess is pathetically AFTER two hours of damage control trimming -badly done lol - and tons of cream...

As I had mentioned earlier On the birthday girls post 💚 I had a impromptu break dance session , during which I had neglected to put it in a braid Badly done VIVANT ! 😡 🙄

I pointing out my hair is difficult and not at all “perfect “ to disabuse anyone of any other notion}

So we met a very interesting way to say the least. He says he hired a matchmaker to find me. She called my work phone one day and after review she is very reputable. It’s kind of like a millionaire matchmaker type thing. I was very hesitant for a few reasons. The age gap is more than I would normally be comfortable with (17 years) and he is extremely successful. That is great I just don’t like the feeling when people can “buy” anything they want. So we start going on lavish dates and decently early he pushed sex. We went on about 8-9 dates and were seeing each other 2-3x per week when it finally happened. Since he expects to every time which is fine, but he had seemed a little less interested in me. He is always commenting on my appearance which is nice to hear, but at the end of the day I want to know I am the one he is interested in being around not just looking at. He got sick and for 2 weeks acted extremely distant. I took him gifts etc. Yesterday kind of out of nowhere he started asking all the things I liked as he wants to know so we can do them together and was very chatty, but then he said he had a work dinner. That’s fine, but I sent him a few texts and nothing. To give an idea I usually get 2-5 texts from him a day and the more I am around him the more his phone is around. Now he does work a lot as he owns a few businesses, but I’m not sure I’m the only one in his life. I just feel like I’m getting mixed signals. We have now been on about 20 dates over 2 months and are now on a schedule of 1-2 dates per week. How much am I overthinking this? I just keep coming back to the fact he hired someone, date 2 he said he put his matchmaker membership on hold, date 3 he told me he told his mom about me, he deleted his Instagram right after we started dating, but kept his facebook (we aren’t connect on). He has never said much of anything about his friends or me meeting them. He has never asked about meeting my friends. Thoughts?

My ex boyfriend and I still see each other and he tells me he loves me and wants to get back together with me... but he’s also seeing another woman for the last 3 -4 months...
he's been with me for 16 months and the new one for 3-4 months... he tells me I hve qualities that she doesn’t hve and that he trusts me more and is more comfortable with me and that are both “different” and that she’s temporary, yet he also tells her he loves her- but she’s just for show to his friends.
she's also been very abusive to him and has hit him before and pushes him around to do as she wants cuz she’s very volatile and vicious, so he has to tell her what she wants to hear...

does he seem to want me or her? Does he seem to love us both? Is it possible to love 2 people at once?