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Been in the dating scene for the past 7-8 years, like every guy out there at first i thought that love, compassion and attention will get you the girl, since i saw some guys making it work... turns out these guys either seriously lucked out out or had other attractive qualities "money" .

In reality the dating scene was a little more complicated than showing love and attention to get women, i once ignored a girl whom i had feelings for and for some reason she decided to not pursue anything with me any further, and i was surprised when she came to me a while later asking why do i avoid her and showing far more interest in me than before... my first ex i almost showed no interest in and never considered dating or flirting with her but after a few text messages (she messaged me) we ended up going on a date and dating for a while, my now ex acted weird and distant at first, so i ignored her, she started pursuing me harder and finally i told her i have no interest in girl who acts like she does (she is hot by the way ) ... the result? dated for 3 months, she probably even left her boyfriend to date me.

between these two gfs i met plenty of women be it at college or out of college, and what i noticed was that showing any kind of attention in women almost always led to them losing interest in me, when i acted distant and made no effort i had compliments and interest from all kinds of girls and they werent shy about showing it, showing little to no interest in women has helped me a lot and i still can't figure out why is it like that?

This girl and I at work are always flirting around each other and have great chemistry. She is so much more prettier than my girlfriend. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 11 months. I am going to prom next month and asked my girlfriend out. The girl at work is 21 and I’m 19. The cut off age for prom at my school is 20 so I couldn’t invite her anyways as my date. (She went to my school and graduated in 2017 so they know she’s 21). My mom doesn’t really like the girl at work because she is mouthy. We have a lot in common too. When we walk by each other or stand next to each other I feel something like a spark. However the girl from work is being weird. she's been angry towards everyone lately. She has been keeping her distance from me and hasn’t looked me in the eye once these last two days. We have never hung outside of work. She usually stays and helps me put stuff away and we walk out together but she has been leaving 20 minutes prior to clock out time and there’s a bunch of stuff needs put away. I bumped into her and said sorry and she gave me a dirty look and said your gonna be and walked away real quick. Did she find out I have a girlfriend by social media? She also keeps moving away from me when I walk near her. What gives. What do I do? I’ve never told anyone at work I have a girlfriend and she’s the only person I really talk too at work and I’ve never told her either.