Modern day feminists - now ask why?

[Anonymous]

I believe that feminists these days are often hurting, I believe they've been wronged in some way, are bitter and angry, I believe they feel 'half truths', mixed facts, and statistics empower them in some way when the truth is, it doesn't. Far from it.

They're angry, they're bitter, they're also projecting that against a gender apposed to an individual... anger is a poison and what that level does is fill your heart and mind and project outwards, and there you go...

But. I can also understand, I wish I couldn't. I've been hurt by men, by more than one, I feel afraid, levels of afraid that make me ill, and I don't know if I could trust one with my heart again, but I won't allow it to affect my friendships with men, I won't allow it destroy my viewpoints, or what I feel.. (And that at the start was actually something I had to push myself to do, I had to sit and think about those that I love and care about to stop it from taking over; Especially my sons. And now, occasionally but not so much). I can only hope that this 'modern age feminism' will wake up, because the sooner they do the better, for themselves, those they love and the people around them... because their hate is spreading bitterness, it's making good people look at themselves/others twice. It's causing arguments and issues where there doesn't need to be any...

Men really have hurt me... really have, not one ex not one person.... but you know. I have two sons.... I'm staying put.

No matter what stats, say what... no matter what's has happened in life - there's two reasons right there alone that are worth more to me than my life alone, two reasons I haven't gave up to date... (Haven't they got at least one reason? A family member? Friend in the opposite gender)
We need each other... I know I need my boys, and that's just one example, this path goes nowhere... they need to see this.

I also know what that anger feels like. i know what it feels like to have no-one to turn too - I've always been closer to men too lol - i know what it feels like to not only have them hurt you - but to turn to men too to have them change the topic, to have them say, 'Yeah ok I'm done here, go to the police go elsewhere' - it leaves someone to rot by the way, it leaves guilt it leaves them seeing you the same.
Every time you push someone away - every time you do, you are as guilty as the new age feminist - this shit stews its not overnight. You make them too..... Imagine. your daughter might one day be hurt by a man, they don't turn to you - you are their heart, they want to protect you - they are closer to men - they turn to a man, that man turns them away.... you see it grows...

Don't turn people away, don't change the topic, it's shit for you - you're stuck in a corner, they've been in that corner a lot longer, if you turn away then you feed/grow hate, you make the feminist too - you want change? Then look at yourself.

I was once told go to the police they can't ignore, then ignored me, what they didn't know, I turned to them at 16 when my boyfriend at 16 turned to another 14 year old.... he was 10 years older... they laughed me out, i am now one of 5 that has his kids under 15... he now has 7 kids don't tell me to humiliate myself.

If you won't hear.. why do you think feminists are made?
Do you think that is overnight? It's not....
It's so much pain you're drowning - it reaches out a man pushes you under further, hate like this doesn't happen overnight...
YOU MAKE THEM TOO

Every woman you call stupid, every one you turn away....

Every one, if you don't want something, don't help create it to start with, because you're hurting them no less - just differently, and it all adds

...........
That person you turned away, was likely hurt and turned away before you... you become 'just another'.... hate is pot don't add ingredients, if you don't like the final taste.

[Anonymous]

Nice take. I agree with pretty much all of it, and can relate to a lot of it as well. I have been hurt badly by multiple women in my life. It has scarred me and for a while it made me resentful and angry toward the entire gender.

But I healed and matured enough to see how wrong that was. I now see I was no better than the feminists... or the MGTOW or Red Pill types.

Let's face it, they are all the same. Feminists and MGTOW/Red Pill are just two sides of the same angry, bitter, hateful, divisive, toxic coin. They are made of of victim minded people who want to blame someone else for their troubles.

We all face troubles in life. Every one of us. We are all victims of wrongs done to us by others. But when we let them define us and influence who we become... we lose the battle and become feminists, or some other hate group. When that happens, everyone loses. Society loses. Society will always be sick as long as angry people feel the need to be feminists. Feminists are their own worst enemies. They are exactly what they despise in others, they are just not honest or healthy enough to recognize it. That goes for MGTOW and Red Pillers too. They are all the same.

[CoffeeWC]

I agree that feminists aren't really born, but they are made. A lot of things that men do to "hurt" women are simply making something out of nothing because they think there's always an ulterior motive. For example, when men try to compliment a woman, the first thing that comes to mind shouldn't be sexual harassment. When a woman regrets having sex, she shouldn't be thinking rape. These women don't understand that just because something causes you discomfort, doesn't mean it's someone else's fault. Women need to be held accountable for their actions because a lot of times they could have been prevented if the woman was more responsible. These women claim to be victims when they are only victims of themselves. It's not society's fault. It's only the way they perceive things. I won't deny that there are men who actually hurt women. But these incidents aren't taken as seriously because of too many false claims of sexual assault and rape. It's like the boy who cried wolf. This is how women are hurting other women.

[SkipStop]

The older feminists are spreading lies and fueling hatred onto younger women making the youngsters think they are standing up for something "Good" when they are actually standing up for hatred against or towards men. Especially white men. Feminism in the 21st century is Misandry. Same meaning. And it's dividing people just like politics do. Fewer or shorter marriages, discrimination towards men and boys. Especially around college and beyond. The governments, workforce, education and courts need a makeover.
Watch "The Red Pill Documentary" by Cassie Jaye.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

Feminism is destructive to women, because they exist in a society of weak men
Humans are not supposed to be independent and are supposed to form bonds with 1 lover. The bond between lovers is supposed to last long enough to make kids and raise them.

Men are unwilling to commit to floozy women, and floozy women double down on their practices. Meanwhile most women internalize abuse caused to them by what they perceive to be high status men "bad boys" which is the worst.

If men practiced self control and commitment and women practiced abstaining and modesty, we wouldn't see such malcontent in middle aged people.

[myTake Owner]

Life is very complicated, i wasn't looking for a 'bad boy' in my last relationship, we spent nearly half of my life together
- abstaining and modesty at 6 isn't that easy is it?

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

I am unsure what you mean by "Abstaining and modesty at 6 isn't that easy it?"-If you were molested as a little girl I feel empathy for you, however it can be traced back to your weak father who was unwilling to take the proper measures to protect you

So it comes back to my initial statement of weak men causing societies problems.
I would say forgive the men that harmed you, so you can move on. And join a community of good people

Life is only as complicated as you make it. Its literally all in your head, you know right from wrong. So just make the right choices and control your internal state

[TWoodY]

tu devrais lui expliquer mon ami.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

@TWoodY I dont understand much french, are you asking me to explain something?

[TWoodY]

no it's message for her. She will probably dm you

[myTake Owner]

he asked me to explain too you. his words were, 'Explain to him my friend'. I have gone to add you, right now I need to go to sleep...

[Combat_Orca]

Feminism is still relevant, though sometimes feminists can start hating on men which is a problem- I usually find most feminists are pretty chill despite what the MRAs will bleat on about. The fact is it's easy to see that it's relevant, as toxic masculinity affects guys too- whether that's through suppressing emotions or getting punched in the face because some douche wants to be "a real man". From here though in western nations at least, I think there needs to be more effort to liberate men from feeling forced to be macho all the time, as long as men are expected to fulfil their gender role women will never be fully liberated.

[lilaqua]

I’m a modern day feminist. Never been wronged by a man. Have a supportive father and boyfriend. Not bitter. I just want women to have an equal footing with men in a society that was made to denigrate them.

[Guanfei]

Bullshit. Society is much more woman friendly than it ever was. Society accept behaviors from women it doesn't accept from men, laws is much more lax with women, the benefits of many things that men can only dream of. And still, everything bad is still our fault and we're stuck in a constant guilt for things we never did but we should apologize for.

Society doesn't denigrate women. It gives more freedom and more gifts to them, to the point they're even free of the consequences of a bad behavior.

[Browneye57]

So sing-songy. Oh well.

The whole problem here is that you are claiming to not be responsible and in charge of your own feelings. That you give over power over yourself and your emotions to somebody or something else. This is very typical woman-speak. Their entire place in life, their situation, where they sit, is never the result of their own thoughts, choices, and actions, but always due to an uncontrollable external force and influence.

If you listen close to this typical woman-speak you can eve hear the tell-tale word tracks, like 'I had no choice', 'there is no option', 'I can't do this because of this'. Or even the 'she made me' or 'he made me' whatever it is. Right, they MADE you.

Anyway, you're on the right track about feminists, they're angry fucked up lot, but this whole blaming everything in their life on men is an absolute joke.

[myTake Owner]

I actually wrote it drunk - and it's clips of a few posts and feelings. And you don't know the full story nor the feelings or the reasons... but its actually a lot less angry from 6 - 14... its not my dads fault... the 2 men at 13 not their fault... so don't blame men? Or ask why? They got away with it... so hey-ho... But. Try asking why... you might blame them as well

[myTake Owner]

but hey ho... you sound typical of men too... 'It's not us...' You don't know how to say, why? what's up?

[myTake Owner]

Your message here to me even 3 years ago would have had me hating more... this is why I can see them. You don't communicate, you don't ask. You 'Oh woe is you women, you aren't responsible are you?'. Sorry? I for one took that responsibility alone, I hung myself at 13 following a stillbirth, I slashed all the arteries up my leg when they told me they wouldn't be charged, I took that... I've taken more since, how about you listen and you don't jump in with two feet, or is it too hard? ''Shit stews'' don't add ingredients - for the next person you might meet...

[myTake Owner]

so sing...

[Browneye57]

Incoherent gibberish. Where did you learn to write? Oh, you didn't... got it.

[myTake Owner]

I can, 3 languages, I also have brain damage what's your excuse?

[myTake Owner]

only you know, these lovely men, one of them held my my neck that tight my artery tore in my neck... instant brain-damage due to a lack of blood supply, then my brain was flooded with blood and blood clots... that left me a mess... your problem... you're an asshole ;)

[Browneye57]

Sure. Where I got my username.
So fuck off.

[myTake Owner]

like the rest, you'd rather blame me, or an aspect of me... rather than ask, take a step back.. or say 'I was wrong'. Or, 'I understand'... that shows more of a flaw in you, than it does me ;)

[myTake Owner]

fuck off posting in my thread then old man

[Browneye57]

It's not 'your' thread dipshit.

[myTake Owner]

name calling oh such maturity lmao, if you want inight on how to insult - might I suggest my 7 year old give you tips? And a thread that I created = mine... or is that too hard to comprehend old man?

[myTake Owner]

do you actually have anything significant/insightful to type? Or are just going to keep lowering yourself? And, leave name calling to those under 10 - it looks pathetic at your age

[TWoodY]

I get why you linked me on fb.
I get you're severely disabled now, yea you were made that way, you weren't born that way, and you have every right to how you feel, you've been out of hospital 4 or 5 months? After months
But mate yea, feel, get mad, don't stay mad, because if you can live that, you've shown you're a tough fucker, so don't let any bastard grind you down now.

[Browneye57]

@TWoodY - Get a room kids.
The white-knight is strong with this one... ;)

[TWoodY]

i've known her 6 years me and my family, just hope your Mrs is never lay there half dead.

[Browneye57]

@TWoodY - The question was about feminists. How did we get to people laying dead? What. The. Fuck. How is it even relevant?

[TWoodY]

read all the comments figure it out

[TWoodY]

''''only you know, these lovely men, one of them held my my neck that tight my artery tore in my neck... instant brain-damage due to a lack of blood supply, then my brain was flooded with blood and blood clots... that left me a mess... your problem... you're an asshole ''' she were lay there half dead - is that hard to add up? Really? imagine a throat cut, but someones throat inside, there you go, it leaves them brain damaged it leaves them fucked up. It leaves them mostly bed bound. Can we figure now what upset her yesterday?

[Browneye57]

@TWoodY - My question was, what does this have to do with feminism?
Or is this just a thread to whine about bad events? Everybody has them you know?
This Q is a fail.

[TWoodY]

not like that they don't

[TWoodY]

that post was her feelings and reasons why now read your first post, think.

[TWoodY]

there just took her pic off fb put it as mine a min

[FeministDestroyer]

Its funny when women get hurt by men they say stuff like "Im not sure if I can trust them ever again." but when a guy gets hurt by a woman, he gets up brushes it off his shoulder and doesn't blame all women like a normal human being should. Women need to get their act together a bit

[John_Doesnt]

As long as there is organized religion, feminism will be needed.

[Dchrls78104]

Feminism is toxic, unreasoning, and hypocritical... Good take. The Incels of North America and Canada are similar and one of the by products of feminism. These should read this take as well...

[Guanfei]

Ah, modern feminism. Even when it's recognized it's going too far, it's toxic, sexist, hateful and so on, it's still men's fault.

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

l take nothing to do with them

[sageevalentine]

Nice take.

[Secretgardenblood]

Good take.