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I'm being told that just being handsome isn't even enough to get below average women to date you and in order to get any interest from the ladies you need to have a lot of money, a fancy new car, designer clothes, a house, a high paying job, the latest phone, interesting friends, be able to be the life of a party and have somewhere to throw one, a boat etc etc

True or no?

"When I started making YouTube videos six years ago, I didn’t do it because I wanted to make money. I did it because I wanted to be happy and because I was intrigued by this magical machine called YouTube. Creating content and being creative was exciting, challenging and refreshing. It was a necessary distraction from all the negativity I let into my life at the time. Money and a little fame (that’s weird…) are the result of what I do, not the reason I do them.

If you know me, you know I’m not really about material things. I don’t know anything about brand names, I’ll gladly wear the same t-shirt everyday and 99 cent Mac and Cheese is my heaven. So on that note, this picture isn’t about a fancy car, a status symbol or an attempt to show off. I don’t care about any of that. In my opinion, true wealth is a genuine smile and I don’t see my views on that changing. But this picture does still mean a lot to me because it represents something special.

I am humbled to say this is my first car that I bought all by myself and it’s not about the brand or money. It’s about standing here 6 years after battling depression and feeling proud of myself. It’s about not taking the easy way out and hustling until your eyes want to punch your brain. It’s about taking control of your life and stepping out of your comfort zone.

With the grace of god I’m fortunate enough to celebrate this day. And I’m really excited about it as you can see from my dorky pose. Thank you for allowing me to have so many firsts in life, especially when 6 years ago I would always think about my last."

I'm reading her statement here and she says she is not into material things yet there are youtube video of her buying 1500 dollar shoes. In addition, her above explanation is contradictory she says she is not into material things yet post a pic of herself with her new car and decides to pick a car worth a lot of money to brag rather than a average middle class car.

Is superwoman fake as hell?

Many say otherwise, but I feel it becomes more superficial. Here is why.

When you fall in love the first time (likely in your teens), it didn't matter if the guy had a job, a fancy car, money, or an education. All that had to happen was that you found him attractive and he returned those feelings back. Some of the most intense, passionate, and memorable feelings occurred with your first love. It was spontaneous, youthful, free, and an important milestone of your past time. It was a time of innocence. A time of fun and exploring each other's feelings and bodies.

Next time you fall in love, it is not as new. You are a young adult at this point. You begin to guard yourself a little more. You don't give your heart as easily. You don't form as tight of a bond with that person. If he breaks up with you, sure you may feel a little sad but then you are like "eh". He is neither your first nor your last.

Then you start to form other expectations, like does he have a job, does he have money, can he provide financial security? The love is not as pure. You have been there, done that already.



Research has shown that there is a 75 percent chance of reuniting with a love from your youth. Research has also shown that the bonds you form under age 25 are some of the strongest.

I mean doesn't it sound better to spend the rest of your life with someone you shared your youth and innocence with versus someone you didn't?