Search Results: getting over an ex breakup

Reestablishing trust?

So I've posted here before about a girl I've known for 10 years and I getting involved after she broke up with a friend of mine. Her and I had a lengthy romantic/sexual past before her breakup. After the breakup she...

bt8888

Xper 5 Age: 43

My Girlfriend hanging out with the EX?

I've been dating the woman of my dreams for a year, and recently met the ex who I knew she hung out with on occasion alone but was doing everything I could to not be the jealous type. They'd broken up 2 years before I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will it all catch up with him someday? Or maybe we just weren't compatible? Could this new girl be the "one"?

For the record, I am no longer with this guy now. I'm just wondering if I was dating a pathological liar, or if he just didn't treat me right because we weren't compatible for each other. Does even the nicest guy treat...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why is my ex copying the life he had with me w/his new girlfriend?

My xbf and I finally ended things at the first of the year. We lived together for most of last year and went through some very emotional, trying times. Our life had a set routine with certain places we'd go and certain...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Rejecting an ex girlfriend to get her back?

Okay, ladies I need your honest opinion. I have read tons of articles online explaining that if you want your ex girlfriend back basically don't be clingy or come out with your feelings, you have to do the opposite. So...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does this mean?

Time line of our relationship 1. we dated for 2 years - it was long distance - said he wanted to marry me 2. we broke up Oct 27, the last time I got to see him was Oct 4. We ended up fighting about long distance issue,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My Heart Is Broken, How Do I Fall Out Of Love??

Email from a reader So, maybe, my question is, how can I turn off this love? How can I do it, if I loved him, flaws and all? He was sweet and generous with me when we were together and I only have good memories. I...

mikethemasterdater

Xper 6 Age: 53

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A text from my ex "it seems like you are having an easy time getting over me..." plus other things?

yesterday, I got an interesting text from my ex... "it seems like you are having an easy time getting over me..." we broke up 4 weeks ago after dating for a year and a half (we were on a break during June and July) and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is wrong with me?

It's been almost 2 months since my boyfriend broke up with me and I'm still devastated. We only dated for six months, in fact we only knew each other that long, but I feel like I've lost my best friend. I never had a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I make our breakup less painful for my ex?

My ex and I were together for well over a decade. We did everything together and loved each other very much at first. However, about five years ago we started arguing a whole lot. He became increasingly aggressive,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Has anyone else ever felt like this after being dumped?

I was abruptly dumped two months ago because a new girl came into the picture. the breakup was tougher on me (my ex immediately started dating the other girl and was clearly unaffected) and I'm just recently starting to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex-girlfriend (whom I love and miss) keeps contacting me every few weeks. Advice?

It was a 3 year relationship. We were both each others first loves. Great chemistry, laughed together all the time, it was fun and wholesome. We are both very mature. We were very serious. During the last year, it turned...

Zee2009

Xper 4 Age: 39

Is this guy insecure after his breakup or just your classic douche bag?

I dated this guy for a couple months, and he supposedly had a terrible breakup with an ex who was cheating on him for a long time (~6 weeks) with his friend. Everything had been going GREAT until a couple weeks ago he...

pianojess

Xper 5 Age: 40

What kind of behavior do you think is inappropriate during/after a breakup?

I just got out of another relationship, and I have been thinking about all my experiences with breakups. I have decided a couple main things I have decided are NOT COOL. Here are some of my pet peeves when it comes to...

marley86

Xper 6 Age: 40

What is my ex thinking??

this is pretty long so basically we had the best relationship ever until I see this AIM conversation with the girl he lost it to and she called him babe and he said I'm jacking off wanna help. I got really hurt so I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know I should get over him, but deep down I don't think I want to. What do I do?

So I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 8 months ago. We were together for a year. It wasn't a horrible horrible breakup, but it was difficult. He continued to call me everyday for months, but I told him to move on with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Break Ups For Single Moms

I am writing this to try to help single moms , such as myself, get over a break-up. I have learned ways to get over a break-up without involving the children in the pain that you are feeling, especially if you are with...

catt17

Xper 5 Age: 58

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Is he playing games ?

My ex broke up with me almost 4 months ago. We had no contact since. I thought I’m kind of over this breakup. Couple weeks ago, I broke n/c by sending him a text message, I didn’t expect that he would reply as he...

Anonymous

(36-45)