does my e Why does my ex boyfriend still want to go on holiday with me?We just broke up!
My ex boyfriend dumped me out of the blue on Monday. we would have been together for 5 months. I was totally shocked given that he has always been the one that has been more interested in me. it took a long while for me to establish that this relationship was something special.his reasons for breaking up are, "we don't click", he just doesn't feel the same anymore, he doesn't get excited to see me like he used to, he hasn't missed me over the past week when I hadn't seen him. I asked him how long he has been feeling this way which he replied "a couple of weeks" which to me is not that long in the grand scheme of things. I spent the whole weekend at his house a couple of weeks ago (all his idea-he was not playing football and wanted me there) and we had a really nice time, get on well, good banter, affectionate and no sign whatsoever that he was getting cold feet. when I was 5 minutes down the road from leaving his house he had already text saying "it was amazing spending time with you this weekend have a safe journey"and was constantly texting like he usually does for the rest of the day. always really sweet funny messages.calls me, and if I call and he misses the call he will immediately call back. we went away for a long weekend a couple of months ago which was lovely, we booked a 2 week holiday to the Bahamas just a month ago which we meant to be going on in a month!he says he still wants to go with me, not because its easy (as I have booked it it is in our names etc...i mean we could easily change the names) he says because he knows we will have a great time, can imagine throwing me in the water, having a laugh etc and we need a break.)he said even if Cheryl Cole wanted to go he wouldn't want to, the other only person would be his father!he says he wants to be friends, I haven't done anything wrong and that he thinks we will see more of each other now we have broken up.nb we don't live close to each other and haven't got same circle of friends so its not exactly easy)when I left his after the breakup talk he text me an hour later saying he looks forward to seeing me next week (we have arranged this)if he has been feeling this way for a couple of weeks why has he been texting saying the cutest things ever and acting like he really cares, holding hands, tactile etc etc
what does this all mean?is he wanting to meet me next week out of pity?still go away with me as thinks it will let me down gently?i am so confused!but I want him back.this behavior is totally the contrary of the best part of our relationship. please help!any suggestions as to what is going on would be greatly appreciated :)xxx
he says that his colleagues say he is a commitment phobe.does also the fact that he was adopted as a baby affect the way he is behaving?
he has initiated all text contact since he broke up with mindless chat!i really don't get it!
Please help!xx
My ex boyfriend dumped me out of the blue on Monday. we would have been together for 5 months. I was totally shocked given that he has always been the one that has been more interested in me. it took a long while for me to establish that this relationship was something special.his reasons for breaking up are, "we don't click", he just doesn't feel the same anymore, he doesn't get excited to see me like he used to, he hasn't missed me over the past week when I hadn't seen him. I asked him how long he has been feeling this way which he replied "a couple of weeks" which to me is not that long in the grand scheme of things. I spent the whole weekend at his house a couple of weeks ago (all his idea-he was not playing football and wanted me there) and we had a really nice time, get on well, good banter, affectionate and no sign whatsoever that he was getting cold feet. when I was 5 minutes down the road from leaving his house he had already text saying "it was amazing spending time with you this weekend have a safe journey"and was constantly texting like he usually does for the rest of the day. always really sweet funny messages.calls me, and if I call and he misses the call he will immediately call back. we went away for a long weekend a couple of months ago which was lovely, we booked a 2 week holiday to the Bahamas just a month ago which we meant to be going on in a month!he says he still wants to go with me, not because its easy (as I have booked it it is in our names etc...i mean we could easily change the names) he says because he knows we will have a great time, can imagine throwing me in the water, having a laugh etc and we need a break.)he said even if Cheryl Cole wanted to go he wouldn't want to, the other only person would be his father!he says he wants to be friends, I haven't done anything wrong and that he thinks we will see more of each other now we have broken up.nb we don't live close to each other and haven't got same circle of friends so its not exactly easy)when I left his after the breakup talk he text me an hour later saying he looks forward to seeing me next week (we have arranged this)if he has been feeling this way for a couple of weeks why has he been texting saying the cutest things ever and acting like he really cares, holding hands, tactile etc etc
what does this all mean?is he wanting to meet me next week out of pity?still go away with me as thinks it will let me down gently?i am so confused!but I want him back.this behavior is totally the contrary of the best part of our relationship. please help!any suggestions as to what is going on would be greatly appreciated :)xxx
he says that his colleagues say he is a commitment phobe.does also the fact that he was adopted as a baby affect the way he is behaving?
he has initiated all text contact since he broke up with mindless chat!i really don't get it!
Please help!xx
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