Ex boyfriend doesn't want me back?

[supervixxen]

i just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months, he told me "whatever makes you happy" and took me off of everything. I still watch his gaming stream and sometimes I ask probing q's about him, and he was like "yeah, we just recently broke up. it just didn't work, she went away to school and that was fine, but then I just got tired of calls at 2 in the morning of her saying 'you don't care about me' and stuff. she actually broke up with me and I was like ok! she tried to get back together with me, and I ignored her haha"

wtf?

[CuddlyCarla]

Breakups are hard and they suck, regardless of who did the heart breaking. You can't expect him to not be upset or confused, you did break up with him. There are some things that can't be undone. Even if you really like this guy and want him back, he isn't going to forget that you broke up with him once before and the relationship won't be the same. The trust will be hard to rebuild and even if he does forgive, he might never forget, and might retaliate in some way later in the relationship. I've done the whole second chance thing and from my experience, things are never the same and end up worse. If it's over, trust your initial instinct and decision, and move forward.

[Anonymous]

Heres the thing..you were dating him for 6 months, it didn't work out. From what you said, you went away to school. Plenty of opportunities to meet new people and get your mind off things!There's no reason for you to be hanging on something that didn't work out. It obviously wasn't meant to be, and this definitely won't be the last relationship you have. Focus on what YOU want, and stop stalking him or asking questions; its not going to make things any better, because you'll never let him know that it was you asking those questions anyway. Try to make yourself the best person you can be while you're single, and enjoy life!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you were doing something in the relationship that annoyed him and/or stressed him out so having the relationship cut loose from his life brought him inner peace. Now that he realizes that, he doesn't want to be with you anymore.

[stercor]

You broke up with him?

Sounds as though it is a relief to him.

The "I ignored her haha" is the telling sentence.

There is little-to-no chance of getting him back.

Time to move on.

[MrOracle]

When you break up with someone, you shouldn't expect them to want you back, especially if they feel hurt or betrayed. And if you broke up with him, why do you care?

[supervixxen]

because I thought I made a mistake. the circumstances in which we broke up weren't right, and I wanted to talk to him in person and do it right and try to work things out. but that's how he felt about it... so I guess he didn't care?

[MrOracle]

He cares, but you aren't getting this: you HURT him, badly. And when you do that to someone, you don't always get a second chance. Relationships require trust, and when you break that trust, many people will never trust you again. So, in the future, don't be so hasty, and make sure you are SURE about your decision, and ASSUME that it will be FINAL, because it often is.

[FaceInTheCrowd]

It's probably for the best =(