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Long story short, my dad gifted me a car. When I was working, he took my car to work every day and go out like the car was his. He tells his friends it is my car. I was fine with it at that time because my work was actually easier to get to by bus. Plus, there was no parking space at my work. The only agreement was, he would have to pick me up from work or drive me to work when he can. Most of the time, he does drop me off at work but, at the end of the day, i get surprises like, "i'm going out with my buddy can't make it, i'm already home and tired, or, i had a beer at home can't drive". He was making up excuses. It was not his priorty at all. He also asked me money for gas when he was broke. He also supposed to pay half of the car insurance bill but around 80% of the time he can't even pay me off.

I recently got a new job. I told my boyfriend that I will be driving to work. He instantly asked me where is my work and told me that I can take the bus. I asked him why when my dad gifted me a car so I can use. He said we have to figure something else so we both can use the car. I told him no, im taking my car to work and there is nothing wrong with that. He said I'm not making "our" lives easier. He was pissed off and told me sure you get what you want. He said he won't drive my car and i will pay for my own gas.

Ever since, his attitude has been different towards me. He seems disappointment at me for using my car 100%. I can tell he is really not liking that he now has to bus.

I couldn't help it but told a few friends. They all said the same thing that he is crazy. It is your car and he has no right to be mad at you taking your car to work. He should work hard and buy his own car if he really hates taking the bus.

So a little context here. I've been dating him for about 4 months but we are pretty serious. He just transferred to a bigger university and is just a little further away so we don't have as much time together. He's very busy, he's in the Boy Scouts, loves marvel, and is 20 years old. He loves going to the gym, protein shakes and supplements and all that. He doesn't have a lot of money right now, so I don't want to spend any more than $30-40. I got him an expensive Christmas present and that was a little awkward with the price gap in our presents, I could tell he was embarrassed. Any idea really? The only one I have so far is a new wallet and one of those metal wallet inserts that can be personalized. The wallet is leather and can have his initials laser cut into it. Those together would be about $40, but I'm open to other ideas or your opinion if you think that's a safe gift. Thanks for your advice!