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I haven't had much luck with dating, I didn't have my first date until I was 20 (less than a year ago) and of the few girls I've dated only one went on more than one date with me... never had a girlfriend, not even in school.

Anyway I think I'm making some progress in terms of how well they dates feel like they've gone and in reducing the time between girls agreeing to go on a date with me (which is important as so far they've all lost interest fairly quickly, so I think the more girls I can date the better). So I'm not giving up on dating, and I think some of my problems are personality issues I need to change, however obviously being overweight isn't going to be helping - I don't see why a girl would want me as a boyfriend at the moment even if I had normal social skills.

So my question is should I stop investing time in dating for the moment and concentrate on getting fit in my spare time, then go back to dating in few months?

General suggestions/advice would be welcome.

I have a crush on my friend. She and I would be flirting a lot back then. Now she's just confusing me.

This morning in class, I went to hang out with her and her friend. She said hi to me at first, and she'd talk to me if I were to ask a question or something. The thing is, she and her friend would run off to do something else without telling me or anything, so they leave me standing there feeling awkward.

Then at lunch I go to hang out again. She says hi like she usually does. She takes offense somehow when I say that I was gonna hang out with my other friend but he was absent. She is friendly at first but then after that she almost seems like she is ignoring me or something. But her friend is talking to me.

Then we go to an after school band practice. This time she is almost totally ignoring me. She says hi and then she wouldn't be talking to me or anything even though we're sitting together. But then later on she asks me to come along with her and her friend to watch a performance. We sit in the same row. With my friend in between me and my crush and her friend. But they don't acknowledge me or anything.

Then we are about to practice. As we are entering I decide not to hang out with her. I see her with her friend. I am standing by with my friend. She sees me and then is waving and is looking over at me sometimes. I go over to hang out with her after a bit, and she is acting really friendly towards me now.

Then we practice and she is looking over at me quite a bit. Not as much as she would before where she would constantly look back at me, but she would. She makes quick glances at me and then looks away.

The thing is, after that she would be talking to some of her other guy friends and wouldn't acknowledge me as much if I were to walk past. These guys have girlfriends though so I'm not worried she is hitting on them.

But I don't know. What do you think?