Shy guy liked me for 5-6 months before i asked him how he felt about me. He asked me out, and we've been seeing each other for 2 months now. The first month was okay, we saw each other once a week, but the weird thing would be that he'd never talk to me inbetween our hang outs unless i did (it has also been like that since the day i met him). We're both busy with school, work, and other things but now that we're into month 2... it seems like we're progressing backwards. I barely see him once a week, he cancelled on me last week and that was when i wanted to talk to him about this lack of communication... but it's been a week and i haven't heard from him since.
In person, it's clear that he likes me since he smiles at me, looks at me a lot, and we do talk. Sometimes it's awkward/quiet since we're both quiet, but i thought we'd get over it the more we see each other... but that's not the case. He admitted in the beginning that he's shy, not the type to make the first move, he's a bad texter and thought he'd be a bad boyfriend. So far, he's doing every thing he said and now i can't tell if he's just losing interest or if this is actually the behaviour of an inexperienced introvert... i want to talk to him but i feel awkward now that it's been a week and i haven't heard from him at all.
On the few dates we've had, he's always paid, he's introduced me as his girlfriend to some of his friends and we do small acts of PDA (hand holding, good bye kisses...)
I'm confused.. and i dont know what to do.
In person, it's clear that he likes me since he smiles at me, looks at me a lot, and we do talk. Sometimes it's awkward/quiet since we're both quiet, but i thought we'd get over it the more we see each other... but that's not the case. He admitted in the beginning that he's shy, not the type to make the first move, he's a bad texter and thought he'd be a bad boyfriend. So far, he's doing every thing he said and now i can't tell if he's just losing interest or if this is actually the behaviour of an inexperienced introvert... i want to talk to him but i feel awkward now that it's been a week and i haven't heard from him at all.
On the few dates we've had, he's always paid, he's introduced me as his girlfriend to some of his friends and we do small acts of PDA (hand holding, good bye kisses...)
I'm confused.. and i dont know what to do.
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