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I currently got closer to this guy at work. We spend about a week together aboard for work. During that we hangout together in a group (because we couldn't get ride of the other people who were also traveling with us "I wanted to go do some shopping with you, but couldn't really get away from them" - them being his bosses). One night in the restaurant we sat next to each other and he passed his arm around me and touched my shoulder (while telling a story to the group), he would lean towards me and would follow my movements as if i was laying back he would lay back too. Other night we went to the hotel bar and i sat a bit away from him (but facing him) and I was just "pretending" to pay attention to something else and suddenly he was looking at me, waved and smiled. He would often stare at me, and when i looked back, he would look away and back again. I asked him a favor, which he promptly did. I tried to figure out if he had a girlfriend/wife by saying some stuff like "ok if you need to call you wife there is a cheap way of doing it..." and he never said anything until we became friends on facebook and before that happened he said "look there is something about me i haven't told you... i dont like labels ect". He has been in a straight relationship with a girl for 6yrs and got a son. Then got into a relationship (3yrs) with a guy who he recently bought an house with. We talk regularly over chat (because I have been aboard for a long time) and usually its me who starts the convo. He always replies with loads of emotion icons. Then I spend almost 2/3 weeks without saying much, and he actually came back to me asking about where I was. I know he likes his boyfriend a lot... although sometimes he looks a bit unhappy and it happens I currently live with my boyfriend as well... I got a massive crush on this guy but I reckon that maybe i should just get over it and be good friends with him rather than thinking about anything else? What do you think he feels about me?

I am very picky about my pens and I barely let anyone touch my pens and I would never let anyone actually leave my sight with one. I know, I'm weird. I just can't stand it when people give you back a chewed on pen or they broke the clip off it, etc. It pisses me off. Anyway, since my crush uses the same kind of pen and seems to be trustworthy, I let him take them. He always gives them back in good shape. I'm just wondering why he only asks me for pens. Lots of people would help him out. He usually finds me after school to make sure to return it. Is he just making reasons to see me or am I overthinking this? He does the same for rides home from school. Asks me all the time even though he has a car and a license. Granted, I do drive an old BMW...