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My best guy friend and I are both taken but he knows I like him as more than just friends. We talk about everything, including our sex lives and fights we have with our bf and gf. We've had the talk where he firmly friendzoned me and I said he needs to stop flirting with me.

I've been trying to be more like a sister/platonic friend since then but he keeps being flirty with me, then acting like he's kidding around. Yesterday he started doing little tracing touches on my arm, which he used to do a lot before our talk. He was listening to my relationship problems and was basically laying his head on me while I was saying how mean my bf is to me. At a party after school, he was dancing with me and slamming his ass into me hard while doing the bump. He apologized for accidentally touching my boob then later gives me this seductive smile like, hey baby, and says our code word for when we're kidding. We fight a lot because we take each other's jokes seriously, so we have a code word to avoid more fights.

Why does he keep giving me sexy looks and touching me if he just wants to be friends? He knows I'm down if he ever changes his mind so he doesn't need to test me. Maybe he's just being a tease. His reason for not wanting to cheat with me was not that he didn't want to, he just didn't want to be a cheater or get caught. Is he keeping me on the hook in case he changes his mind? I know he's attracted to me and he's said he has feelings for me too. We fight like cats and dogs, so there are some intense feelings in there of some kind.