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I met this guy on June 2018. I felt in love fast to him and I know we had sex too soon. We had a relationship with this person, however after weeks he comes to confess that he has a girlfriend previously than me. I get mad because I thought I was the only one and we had sex & even gave my virginity to him. I let him choose but he did not choose me first but his girlfriend. He wants to let me wait for a month to break up his girlfriend. But I did not believe him after he told me that he still loves his girlfriend so much. I deleted our mobile contract and even unfriended him on social media but never blocked him.
its been almost 3 months and 1 week since we have not talk with each other.

We happened to met one of his friend and she told me he recently went back together with his ex girlfriend and warned me not to meet or talk to him again ever. He was just using me for sex.
i don’t know why her friend treated me that way , when in fact I also become his girlfriend.

But honest speaking , I miss him and I tried meeting someone new but still I can’t get off him in my mind. I want to communicate but I am afraid he already moved on or might as well her friend is right that he was only using me for sex.

Few months from now , I was given an opportunity to live in another country. And maybe that would be the time that I should forever forget him.

i am so confused if I should talk to him again or not. Or I should wait for him to communicate , since we know at the first place it was his mistake.

whats on my mind right now is to wait for him to communicate first in order to be safe. But if he never communicates again , then maybe I should forget him already

I am pregnant by a guy that I've known for 3 months he's got a bit of baggage I'm not sure if y'all remember but I've asked questions about the situation a couple weeks ago. Well his job is relocating him to another state and he wants me to go with him. He has kids here by two different women and he has kids in another state with another woman. A couple weeks ago I found out that he lied about how many kids he has with how many different women I also learned of his drinking problem and his very lengthy criminal record on top of several DWIs and his bad drinking problem.
After everything had surfaced he has been pretty honest with me about everything from there on. He hasn't talked to the most recent bm and says he is on child support so will just keep paying support and no need to deal with her because she's drama. I have a son from a previous relationship also. I am considering going with him but there are few things that concern me that I want opinions on. One is with his history of having kids with multiple women and not marrying them is it possible that he can change and will be faithful and marry me? Two he has a drinking problem whenever he wants to drink he leaves because his personality changes when intoxicated and he does things to get himself into trouble and lands him in jail is it possible he will get help? Three since meeting him when he was in work release in jail he has asked me for money I've given him money to fix his car I've put money on his books and now I've given him my second car that I have. Part to me want to believe that he really loves me and wants to be there for me and the baby and other parts of me feels like he may be using me. I am much younger than him also I am in my early twenties he is in his late 30s I can't understand or see why he would ask me to relocate with him if he really didn't want to be with me and didn't love me but I am having doubts and going back and forth in my head about this and I really would like guys opi