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I think it would be sweet to tell her that I love her in the Christmas card that I’ve been making for her. I already told her that I’m interested in her months ago, but I realized that I have more, than a crush for her. I did try moving on several times, but my crush would always be on my mind. She makes the bad days that I have good, whenever I’m around her and talking to her. Also, she brings out the best in me and makes me want to succeed in life. I can’t say that about anyone else I liked in the past, not even my ex-girlfriend. We have a lot of the same interest and have things in common with each other other, even personal things in common. She’s good for me! I’m confident saying that. Although, she’s 19 years old. Does an age gap matter to girls that young? She’s never gotten this much attention from a guy before and has never been in a relationship before.

I feel like I’m in love because I’ve never felt this way about anyone before and I have done some pretty special things for her that I’ve never done before for anyone. Not even when I was in a relationship with my first girlfriend three years ago. I’ve tried moving on multiple times, but she would still be on my mind. I have many reasons why I like my crush.

To me, that two reasons that stick out to me is that she’s caring and that she brings out the best in me whenever I’m around her and talking to her. I see her every week. I’ve tried moving to other girls on dating apps and in person, but I don’t see them the same way. The person I like means a lot to me. Whenever she’s sick and tells me that she’s not doing well, I show my concern and let her know that I hope she gets better, and that I’ll be praying.

Lately, I’ve been concerned about her getting the coronavirus because she doesn’t really wear a mask. She told me that I don’t need to be worried because she’s not afraid of the virus. I’m still concerned and ask her how she’s feeling sometimes. It doesn’t matter what she says because I’ll still care and be concerned. I see her every week and I always take the initiative to help her out in away that I can. She appreciates my help.

She's only 19 years old and has never been in a relationship before, and has never gotten this much attention from a guy before from what she told me. My crush isn’t interested in me, but I feel things can possibly change because she’s still young and is still trying to discover yourself and see what she wants in a guy. I could be wrong. I care about her and would like to be there. More than just a friend though.

Feeling this way about her is new to me. I’m curious, if I’m in love and curious to know, if girls like guys that they didn’t for before? Just wondering, if a girls feelings can change.

Ok I never expected to have to post here but here I am.
So My girlfriend is Japanese and we've been dating for a while and I met her parents like a month ago, they said they wanted a strong and mature man for their only daughter and I promised them I was strong enough to protect and take care of her.

Now I feel like they keep testing me though whenever we visit them/they visit us.

First incident her father kinda backhanded me in the face (not that hard but it kinda hurt) and he said it was accidental cuz he was moving his hands around and I was behind him. I barely reacted as I wanted to seem strong

Second incident was at their house, her mom asked me if I wanted anything to drink, I said juice or water if anything. Was sitting on the couch on my phone and 15 minutes later she threw one of those small juice boxes at me and it hit me right in the nuts. Again she said it was accidental and laughed a bit, I was really in pain this time for a good 15 minutes but I barely moved and acted like nothing but I think her mother could feel she had got me good. She asked if I wanted an icepack, I said no its barely anything.

3rd incident I was helping them with some garden work on flowers and the mom elbowed me in the gut, she said she was taking out bad weeds and it was accidental and this time It kinda hurt aswell (I didn't expect her to have such force) and I acted like It was nothing.

I feel like they are testing me and they keep speaking Japanese together when I'm here (the parents). Should I learn Japanese? Or another option? there's a poll