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Search Results: pursuing a younger guy
Why "Fitness Shaming" Others is Just Pathetic
**Why Fitness Shaming Is Pathetic** There has been an overabundance of questions and mytakes on this on this website pertaining to this topic. It's getting to a point where I almost catch myself laughing at some of these...
Fearless_banana
Yoda Age: 32 Why Younger Men Are Just As Hot As Older Men
I recently wrote a myTake which went into great detail about the personality attributes I find appealing in older men. The article can be seen here: Older Men, Your Wallet Isn't What Got Me . If you are familiar with the...
Stacyzee
Editor Age: 40 Is it weird to start messaging a guy I barely know on social media, if he never gave me his online information?
I apologize in advance if this comes off as slightly weird. Over the week, I was volunteering at a church (one I've never been to before). I'm 15, I'll be 16 in a couple months. I kept seeing this guy (let's call him...
skyler_green
Xper 4 Age: 25 Girls, Secret relationship turned from hot to completely cold within a few days? Why won't she talk to me about it?
So I started a relationship with a girl who is 10 years younger then me about 6 months ago. We have kept it a secret because we work together. She heavily pursued me and was by far the more aggressive one at first. We...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Nice Guys: The Egalitarian vs. The Traditionalist
#1 INTRO: THE "NICE GUY" I already wrote a number of takes debunking the fallacious reasoning a few so-called 'feminists' employ debunking the nice guy. After discussing this stuff with multiple commenters, I was...
the_rake
Editor Age: 34 The 4 Stages of an American Guy's Life
Given that another person had a swell time stereotyping girls , I write this Take to target guys. Of course, this is not true of ALL guys. I tend to associate with more upstanding, more traditional people. I know guys...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why am I so afraid of being taken advantage of? Is it because I'm beautiful?
I had this dream of a young girl (actress) being taken advantage of by this older man. It really sickened me, I woke up super-distressed. Lately I can't seem to get these awful thoughts out of my head. I don't know...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I pursue a guy who is 12 years younger than me?
i have a crush on a guy who is 12 years younger than me but I'm not sure if he likes me. He has big smile on his face when I approach him and likes talking to me. I'm just not sure if he's just being nice. I don't look my...
Tiffany27
Yoda Age: 42 A Pseudo-LDR: Break it off or still be friends?
I met this guy when I studied abroad. We had fun and I knew he liked me, but I didn't encourage it as I didn't want to be recovering from a broken heart when I got back. Since coming back, I feel like I've been doing the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why Enjoying Multiple Relationships Trumps Monogamy
Disclaimer: Before I begin, let me say that I am in no way condemning marriage. In fact, I believe it's a valuable institution that's critical to the fabric of civilization, and it can be amazing for certain people....
Fathoms77
Editor Age: 47 Could you date someone who loved you but was too afraid to show affection/love for you in public?
Let suppose you meet a lovely person who came from a culture where people tend to stick/marry within their own race and going outside that they could be killed/disowned or ostracized from their family, community. You...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) 
When you try to hold their hand they pull away and don't like showing any form of affection but when they are by your place or somewhere no one can see it's the opposite. You ask them what's the deal and why they are so withdrawn and they eventual confess.Guys, Would a guy date a girl who is 11 years younger than him?
Given that the girl is older than 18, would a guy have any objections to date her? Also, will it be frowned upon by other people or could it be seen as something unusual? Would the age difference make the guy hold back...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Best way to play this?
So I was seeing this man for a couple of months. He's separated with a young daughter. I like him a lot but don't love him. I was really enjoying the time we spent together but happy for it to be casual and happy to see...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to Realize "You Matter" And Freeing The Genius Inside, With Angela Maiers
I love to read and write. I do both every day. But school didn't instill such passions in me. In fact, I hated reading and writing in school; I only fell in love with both long after I'd graduated college. Sadly, I'm not...
Fathoms77
Editor Age: 47 How to pursue a guy your hooking up with?
I got out of a serious relationship about 9 months ago. It took the first six to get over it, and then I was ready to date. The issue was, I didn't really like anyone enough to pursue them and the guys interested in me...
esecro12
Xper 5 Age: 31 Wendy Bell Being Fired Is Proof Of Thought Control And The Rise Of Tyranny
Let's get one thing clear: Wendy Bell, formerly of WTAE, did NOT use the N word, nor anything that blacks would have a sound reason to be offended by. She merely alluded to a fact: black-on-black crime is out of...
ObscuredBeyond
Guru Age: 43 I've had a minor (major?) crush on a guy for over a year & I need some advice because I never talk to guys and I don't know what to think or do?
I'm a 19yrold girl who has never had a real boyfriend. My parents got divorced when I was very young, which lead to me 'growing up' earlier than most of my peers & because I matured faster it seemed difficult to find much...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Older/mature women - Does it really piss you off when older guys pursue younger women?
I'm in my early 30s and since I was in my early 20s I almost always dated younger women. When I was 32 I was in a seriously relationship with 25 year old (mature 25 yr old though). Since we spit up about a 1.5 years ago I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why some men will be unable to love girls completely later on in life
Due to the genetics they were born with, the teaching their parent give them, and the personality they are naturally inclined with. Some men will have a rough time in the dating scene with women. They usually are...
Anonymous
(36-45) Sarmassophobes Beware: The Snowball-Boomerang Destruction of a Simple White Lie
At the surface, it may seem obvious to many of you why this is. But that won't stop you from defaulting to irrational defense mechanisms when confronted with an uncomfortable truth. Yet, I feel that writing this may...
ObscuredBeyond
Guru Age: 43 