Search Results: signs of bad relationships

What are his intentions?

Okay, so: Dated a guy for about 4 months, everything was going great until he started having issues with himself and lots of excuses (which could be true.). He started contacting me less, didn't iniate hangouts (but...

Dunno1998

Xper 6 Age: 28

Is this statement true?

If someone had a series of unsuccessful relationships over the course of many years. Ex. 11-15 years. Yet they are still single in their 30s, it is not always but usually a bad sign that there might very well be something...

nella965

Explorer Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Why does my friend talk about my relationship?

My friend makes comments about my relationship without knowing the whole story and makes it seem as if my boyfriend doesn’t care about me. For example, when it was near Halloween I was hanging out with my friend and...

Nevergoingtousethis

Xper 4 Age: 23

Really bad sex?

Me and my boyfriend had sex recently, and it made me want to throw up. I feel that our relationship is deteriorating, not to mention this happened after a really, REALLY bad argument. Even though we had moved on from it,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Advice for someone who's fallen in love with her close friend who happens to be in a relationship?

So I met this guy about two months ago and we've become INCREDIBLY close. He's literally all I think about. Every anything happens to me, good or bad, he's the first person I want to tell. We've become such good friends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to survive online long-distance dating

About a year ago, I met my boyfriend on this site... very unexpectedly . It was strange, difficult, expensive, and wonderful all at once, but we managed to make things work out. When this all started, we both agreed 3...

Idonthaveausername

Influencer Age: 31

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Flirting

New guy on Instagram?

There was this guy from Instagram that found my account and we started chatting. But when i Ignored his texts he started blowing up my phone with messages begging for my attention. I told him no but he kept insisting. Is...

bethgurl

Xper 7 Age: 32

My partner wants to focus on our friendship is it okay?

We are pretty healthy seeming I think but I'm unsure if this is a bad sign or okay? He said that he wants to stop kissing or engaging sexually for a while and just focus on our friendship. Talking, hanging out, etc. I did...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a man change overnight and now he is a stranger to the person?

The guy and this lady got along so well in the 4 yr period they know each other; they joke together and even went out on a couple of dates where both enjoy the moment and even had sex, because he wanted to get laid with...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Have you ever lost hope in being in a relationship with someone who wouldn’t cheat on you?

I had a guy cheat on me and leave me for the girl. I had another guy cheat on me and when I found out I left. Another guy caught and STD while we were dating (luckily we hadn’t slept together yet) and he at least had the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever had your modern ideas about dating challenged with bad results?

I thought that asking a guy out was just what a woman in 2019 should do if she wanted the relationship to work. I was advised against it because I was told that men will not value any woman who chases HIM because...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

How to prevent a home invasion: Warning signs, precautions and castle doctrine tactics

Note: Unfortunately there are politically biased folks who are adamant in trying to infringe on our rights and liberties as law abiding citizens to protect ourselves and our families. Despite almost every state having...

ADFSDF1996

Influencer Age: 30

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Family & Friends

Is it bad to often want to be around those like yourself?

Not saying, you alienate yourself from those different. Like you’ll make smalltalk with them, but at the end of the day, you only try to build a relationship with those similar to yourself? My so called friends of the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Unbalanced relationship roles; the ongoing gender war?

Why is it most women feel it is acceptable for them to behave in certain ways but unacceptable for men? Specifically, lying, cheating, and hitting. In my experience women tend to find these offenses forgiveable if not...

Mgiad

Xper 3 Age: 114

Do you believe that people are either “good” or “bad”? Was my ex a “bad” person?

I used to have a relationship with a man named Man (yes, Man). Before I met him, I thought that being human was complicated and so I was much more likely to forgive. I questioned if was a good person if I wasn’t capable...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why do women always get blamed for the man not really being in love?

Something that had bothered me from the moment I experienced my first heartbreak was coming to terms with the fact that the guy who broke it did not love me despite everything we had been through. And then dealing with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I received flowers and a text from a narcissistic, abusive ex and now I'm scared. What should I do?

He sent me flowers for my birthday and I didn't even know it was him. He sent me a text a few minutes ago saying that I should have at least said thank you and that it bothered him that I hated him so much. Honestly. I am...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She needs time to think?

This girl and I had a great first date and we have great chemistry, but after the date I asked her if she wanted to get together again soon and she says she needs time to think about things like if she's ready for a...

Anonymous

(36-45)