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So I’ll start at the beginning. In early August a girl I knew from highschool messaged me out of the blue and we started talking everyday. Physically seeing each other was a struggle, since she worked long hours at her job every weekday and I worked long hours lifeguarding every weekend. However, we did find time one Sunday at the end of the month to finally hang out.

2 days after that hangout, we both started school again (we commute to different colleges). We still kept talking everyday and seeing each other every Sunday, whether it was me going to her house or us going out somewhere, but that was it. School is extremely important to her, since she needs to maintain at least a 3.75 GPA to keep her scholarship money. Work isn’t that huge of an issue anymore, since she left her job to focus on school and my lifeguarding job ended for the season. However, my new job keeps me busy every Saturday night (one of the only nights she normally isn’t busy). But even when we do see each other on Sundays, she is normally studying or doing homework while I’m with her.

But the reason I’m really starting to reconsider a relationship with her, is because this is the second Sunday in a row that she has cancelled on me because she is too busy doing homework (But granted, today she was busy doing homework at her father’s house an hour away, so that is a much better excuse). Plus, the past 2 weeks I had finally talked myself into finding the courage to actually tell her how I really feel about her, and try and make our relationship official. But now with seeing how busy she is on a daily basis, I don’t even know how a relationship could work. I wanna see her as much as possible since I really really like her, but I also don’t wanna take her away from her studies because I know how important they are to her.

If anyone has any advice it would be much appreciated

So I’ll start at the beginning. In early August a girl I knew in highschool messaged me out of the blue and we started talking everyday. Physically seeing each other was a struggle, since she worked long hours at her job every weekday and I worked long hours lifeguarding every weekend. However, we did find time one Sunday at the end of the month to finally hang out.

2 days after that hangout, we both started school again (we commute to different colleges). We still kept talking everyday and seeing each other every Sunday, whether it was me going to her house or us going out somewhere, but that was it. School is extremely important to her, since she needs to maintain at least a 3.75 GPA to keep her scholarship money. Work isn’t that huge of an issue anymore, since she left her job to focus on school and my lifeguarding job ended for the season. However, my new job keeps me busy every Saturday night (one of the only nights she normally isn’t busy). But even when we do see each other on Sundays, she is normally studying or doing homework while I’m with her.

But the reason I’m really starting to reconsider a relationship with her, is because this is the second Sunday in a row that she has cancelled on me because she is too busy doing homework (But granted, today she was busy doing homework at her father’s house an hour away, so that is a much better excuse). Plus, the past 2 weeks I had finally talked myself into finding the courage to actually tell her how I really feel about her, and try and make our relationship official. But now with seeing how busy she is on a daily basis, I don’t even know how a relationship could work. I wanna see her as much as possible since I really really like her, but I also don’t wanna take her away from her studies because I know how important they are to her.

If anyone has any advice it would be much appreciated