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As the question states, Are some men meant to go through life alone, you hear in your 20s that there is someone out there for everybody and people pretty much keep poking at the fact you have never had a girlfriend, you hear be yourself or get involved in activities you like which you do, then as your late 20s come people say you are trying too hard or to stop thinking about getting a girlfriend and it will just come naturally so you just focus on yourself and activities you enjoy, then your 30s roll around and now as a 35 year old virgin with no experience, you realize that to no fault of women, they view that as a red flag and people start thinking something is wrong with you, and now you are almost 40 years old still in the same predicament, so what do you think? Is there really someone out there for everybody or do some men not have that spark or interest to keep a woman interested or attracted maybe sexual chemistry just puts women naturally off from certain men where as other men don't even have to try and they have women coming to them and doing the work, another man can do the same exact thing and be a mirror image personality wise etc but will get no women coming to him, is it just nature or are some people just destined to live alone?