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Even though I'm 34 years old, I've never done cohabitation.
I'd rather either live with my parents or by myself but not with him. Part of me still believes in certain things in the old days; neither my parents nor grandparents did cohabitation.

My mother has come to an age where she now thinks it's not an issue anymore and that you don't have to get married and have kids to live together. I don't share the same ideas. I will not live with a man that's not my fiance at least.

If he's just a boyfriend, then going out on dates but living separately is my stance.

My supervisor had a long grudge towards his HS bully, the ringleader. His bully used to punch him at times (mainly in the shoulders where no one can see any bruises), break his glasses, destroy his bike, humiliated him with his friends, shove his head on the toilet, etc.

He was terrified of that guy and then hated his guts. At some point he wished death on him. A decade later, the guy apologized but my supervisor cursed him out. Then by May 2020, his child (age 7) had an accident, had to get surgery and then a blood transfusion. The issue was his blood is a very rare type. Luckily they found a donor with his same blood type. The donor turned out to be his former bully. He helped out with some of the hospital bills too.

Both guys are now 36 year-olds and the bully was totally forgiven after that. According to my supervisor, there is no greater gift than seeing your child happy and healthy again. Now he feels bad for wishing him dead. The guys are friends by now.

Would you forgive your former bully if they save your child's life? If you know very well your child would've been dead if it weren't for them.