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He keeps his phone hidden. Girls call and he says they are friends. Shouldn't I have met them? Her? Why not invite her over? He has met my guy friends. I have also let him stay with my phone whenever he wants. He lives with me but deleted me as a fb friend. I never posted anything on his wall. No personal private issues. What's wrong? We shouldn't have secrets. When I ask a question he asks why am I asking. I say because I can. He can ask me anything. I'm fine with it. But when I ask... its a problem and he says why am i asking i have more important things to worry about. he is my family and a concern of mine. I can't stress him on everything because we would never be Happy. I keep holding this in. I feel he is wrong or doing wrong. I really wish he would tell me that this relationship isn't for him or that he feels he is missing out on something else but he won't admit anything he says he loves me and I don't feel that anymore he is cheated on me a lot I'm trying to get over it I don't argue with him about it because I feel if I can't get over it then him and I can never move forward he keeps doing things to make me feel like I just can't trust him and today a girl called and he was giving her some kind of advice and talking to her on the phone and he seems pretty genuine about his advice and it's really crazy if I spoke to him he wouldn't understand anything but it's a stranger or an outsider spoke to him he would just be the sweetest most genuine understanding guy but with me he isn't like that after 7 years I'm not sure what to do but I just feel like giving up I feel like I'm never going to win I feel like I'm fighting a battle that's not my battle I wish you could be honest with me and just tell me if he feels he's missing out on something else and wants to explore vs wasting any more years we already wasted