Search Results: getting back in the game

Guys, HELP!!! I messed up with this first date. I need feedback. Did I mess up to bad?

I was on my friend date with a guy i truly like. He wanted to get a drink together. I hesitated but was so nervous that I got a beer and shot of tequila. I ended up getting buzzed could not drive. He was leaving so I...

Tinahicz2009

Xper 3 Age: 51

Girls, she said she wants to hang out over the weekend because a group is more fun? am I over reacting on my thoughts about it? should I ignore it?

so some background, there's a girl i have known since college. well we haven't hung out in a while due to me living out of state the last few years. we always talked about hanging out and at one point she was game to come...

Anonymous

(36-45)

There are no answers!

I keep asking random people. In hopes of getting a perspective of what I am going through. I ask anonymously, I go to random chat sites sometimes and ask people there. Only to realise that no one has the answer except...

Sentimental_Stoic

Xper 5 Age: 39

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Flirting

How often do you remember/take note of the things your crush tells you about themselves?

I used to be well invested in the person when crushing. I used to take note of stuff they told me. Like if they mentioned their bday, i’d set it in the calendar as a reminder lol. Or if they mentioned their fave...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Why do I feel more nervous about noticed some green flag and also noticed one red flag?

I have been looking for any red flag and only seen one red flag and is about going offline and then go back online. first thing I talk about the guy was about online dating and was getting to know him and he like birds...

Splatzonelover1

Xper 5 Age: 27

She said she is talking to someone what should I do?

So I hung out with this girl, after knowing her from middle school, at a coffee shop. I’m 22 now to put it into perspective. We had a really good talk and it lasted for probably 3 hours. We were both mutually interested...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Should I take a gap year for my mental health?

My parents forced me to go to all girls catholic private highschool in hopes of me getting into a good college. I had little social life, no romantic life, very contrasting views from all my classmates, and I went into a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What makes guys want to take advantage of quiet girls?

I feel like I attract guys who only want to take advantage of me because I'm quiet. Not sexually but emotionally. They used me when they're bored or getting ready to get back in the game. They see me as a start up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why am I, such a horrible person?

I'm playing a game online and I don't own a headset or a mic but finally just got one and most of the people on the game don't really think I'm a girl because I have a general username. There will be times people will...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he trying to make me jealous? Why is he behaving like this with me? Does he like me?

I like this guy. He does Zoom quizzes online and we talk all the time. We have been in touch with each other for four months now. We talk pretty much every day since then and we talk and see each other on camera a lot....

noele222

Xper 7 Age: 39

I like this guy. He does Zoom quizzes online and we talk all the time. We have been in touch with each other for four months now. We talk pretty much every day since then and we talk

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I have a big crush on this guy, which I know I'm not gonna be with. What do I do?

so, I've been watching live streams a lot these couple of days. And i stumbled across one streamer that doesn't have many viewers And when i started texting in the chat, he gave me a lot of attention. He's really...

Hunnybee1

Xper 4 Age: 24

Confessions of a Ladies Man: When should a woman have sex with a new guy?

The answer to this question is whenever your feel comfortable and horny enough to want it. The problem with this question The problem with this question is that women seem to be using the timing of sex as a way of...

Apope16

Influencer Age: 39

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Why does this girl keep coming back?

Over a month ago, I went to visit my friends from church James and Melissa. I hadn’t seen them in a while since church has been closed due to COVID. For over a year, Melissa has been pushing me to date this one girl named...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why people become more conservative/libertarian through life's experiences and getting older (CAUTION: LONG READ)

Some people hate that title, but this is true (for the most part). To give you some background I think back to my late teens and early 20's, a time when you are exposed to more politics because of your age and because you...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

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What does it mean when an brings up little nostalgic moments from your past relationship?

Mine has done this a few times, we’ll be texting back and forth and then suddenly out of the blue he’ll bring up little moments, like something crazy I sent him, or something that happened when we were playing a game,...

sd1223

Yoda Age: 29

Is She Playing Hard To Get?

I met a girl online and we hit it off from the very beginning. We've been texting each other every day for several weeks now and have developed a very close (only online due to long distance) relationship. She is always...

LaVillaStrangiato

Xper 5 Age: 50

Guys, can he really have that many issues?

I started to talk to this guy he is 37 divorced for about 2 years 2 kids, i am separated and have 1 kid. When we started talking he was all about it being the pursuer and attebtive making time even if it was just a 30...

DVS1012

Xper 3 Age: 42