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I met him 2 years ago. I was 21. He was 31. At first we were just chatting and talking on the phone. He was funny, cute, and charming. He was asking me out for like 2 months until finally I said yes. We went to many cute dates, he was taking me on his business trips and buying me romantic gifts.
One night we ended up kissing and having sex at my place. It was so good. After that we went to dinner and I said "You are an amazing guy, I'm surprised you're not married by now" and he went silent for a moment and then said "Actually, I am married". I couldn't believe it. But I stayed calm. I just asked him why didn't you tell me before, why do you ask others out? And he told me it was a mistake he married her. She doesn't love him. She is very much involved in her business which is in another country. So they don't spend much time together. They've been married for 3 years but they don't have kids. They hardly ever have sex because she doesn't want to. I felt a kind of sorry for him and I was thinking he deserved better. But let's face the truth: HE WAS A LIAR AND HE WAS DATING ME FOR MONTHS AND HAD SEX WITH ME BEFORE HE TOLD ME HE WAS MARRIED AND HE PROBABLY WOULD HAVE NEVER TOLD ME HADN'T I ASKED HIM! And he was cheating on his wife!

I was still chatting to him sometimes but I decided it's better not to see him, but after some time we met again. I tried to date others but I was in love with him. Until finally 1 year ago I met a guy who kicked him out of my mind and heart - my current boyfriend.

And my ex's wife found my shampoo at their apartment. He texted me telling me I was a bitch for leaving it there but the truth is he kicked my stuff out after a fight and didn't realize it was not hers. He is still texting me every few days even though it's been more than a year asking me to meet and saying I am the best girl and he misses me. Should I tell his wife?

Last night, I broke up with my boyfriend last night because I told him I still have trust issues and so I keep thinking he's cheating/talking to other girls
And so I felt like there's no point in being in a relationship with someone I don't trust
I said "I love you but I don't trust you, so I have to let you go"
I cried and he hugged me
He said "its okay, do what you gotta do, hope you find that right guy that you will trust, sometimes you gotta let someone you love go, but I will miss you"
And then I left and blocked him on all social media

Then this morning, he sent me an angry message saying this:
"Hey this is last message, but I wanted to say that... I can't believe you never trusted me, we have been together for over 2 years, all women are the same, always treat guys like shit, I tried to be a changed man, I did all the right things for you, I never cheated on you but you still never trusted me, so Im going to go back to my old f**kboy ways now, I already set up a date for that girl that likes me, and I'm probably going to f**k her tonight, I thought you were different to all the girls I've dated but I guess I was wrong, I really loved you, I can't love anyone else after you, so I'm just going to treat girls like shit, I don't give a shit anymore, so have a good life"

Im confused
Why would he send me an angry message when last night he hugged me when I was crying and saying its okay?
What the fluck? :\

Me and my ex got back together for 1 night. He said an apology and then said he had been missing me and thinking about me. I asked if he had thought about having sex with me and he said no. I said "thats dissappointing because I was thinking about you." Then he admitted that he had been thinking about having sex with but that its wasn't ALL he had been thinking about. Then he had an emotional moment and we ended up kissing and then we went to his bedroom and made out. He kept urging me to let him f me, and he was pressing on back and pushing me down towards his penis. We did a few things and we did have sex but not for long because we stopped before we really even got started. The entire rest of the night he held me and his thing was hard. Then he texted me but a few days later he wasn't responding and I said I wish he had never reached out to me and a week later my phone got cut off. Knowing him Im like 90% sure that he has tried to text me and say SOMETHING since then, whether its "Im sorry" "I miss you" "how are you" SOMETHING. But since my phone has been off I have no way of knowing for sure if he has texted me or what he might have tried to say if he did, and tbh Im glad that my phone was off because we broke up for a reason I dont need his back and forth

My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago, after nearly three years. We’ve broken up one other time.
After he dumped me I asked if I could see him, and he agreed. We ended up having sex, and talking about things. He said that there may be an opportunity for us in the future if we are able to work out our issues individually, but that he’s also not thinking about anything else right now other than wanting to be alone and for this to be over. He said that I’m too jealous, and don’t trust him.

He told me that he still loved me, and continues to call me pet names. He also told me that as long as he’s having sex w me, that he will not sleep with others.
I feel like he’s still my boyfriend, as we’ve been seeing eachother every day since the break up. He even took me to dinner last night! He said that he wanted it to be where we still hang out and didn’t want it to be a “goodbye forever” type deal. I want to win him back, as we still talk a lot but I want to do it in a way that he thinks he might lose me. I feel like I sometimes appear to be too available and I want to change that,’because I do want him back. I explained to him that in the meantime spending time with him was enough. We started out as being good friends, so maybe we can start slow and see what happens? We both do love eachother, what should I do?