I guess what I’m trying to ask is, is being a virgin (nowadays) a bad thing? Well ofcourse, when you reached college or so.. and is still a virgin.
So needless to say, im a virgin. Eighteen, and is in college as a freshman. I was never open to guys who showed interest until i was like 17 (even though i liked the guy a lot back when i was like 12-16, i was always sure i dont want a relationship yet or i was just being stupid as usual) i had my first relationship at, well, 17... I don't know what happened but i opened up to this one guy. We did kiss, love bites, touched each other’s body, and dry humped (i know...). My first boyfriend (who’s now an ex) have been trying to talk me into having an intercourse. We slept over in the same bed quite plenty of times. At first he respected the fact that im not ready yet.. after awhile when, he started saying “please trust me lets just do it” etc in the midst of making out. Everytime he tried to rip my panty off i always stop him. I dont know why, even though im already sexually aroused i still manage to control myself. For a lot of reasons, im not ready yet (ITS NOT GOOD BECAUSE I WANNA GET OVER IT ALREADY SO BAD but i still dont want to at the same time... just didn't feel right.
ANYWAY IM SORRY FOR MAKING THIS LONG didn't EXPECT THIS.. now that im in college, just wondering what a guy would think about a girl being a virgin? Is it as bad as i think?
I understand that intercourse is important for a long term relationship.. so means, the chance of me having a relationship is thin (since i know for sure i dont want to have sex yet.
So needless to say, im a virgin. Eighteen, and is in college as a freshman. I was never open to guys who showed interest until i was like 17 (even though i liked the guy a lot back when i was like 12-16, i was always sure i dont want a relationship yet or i was just being stupid as usual) i had my first relationship at, well, 17... I don't know what happened but i opened up to this one guy. We did kiss, love bites, touched each other’s body, and dry humped (i know...). My first boyfriend (who’s now an ex) have been trying to talk me into having an intercourse. We slept over in the same bed quite plenty of times. At first he respected the fact that im not ready yet.. after awhile when, he started saying “please trust me lets just do it” etc in the midst of making out. Everytime he tried to rip my panty off i always stop him. I dont know why, even though im already sexually aroused i still manage to control myself. For a lot of reasons, im not ready yet (ITS NOT GOOD BECAUSE I WANNA GET OVER IT ALREADY SO BAD but i still dont want to at the same time... just didn't feel right.
ANYWAY IM SORRY FOR MAKING THIS LONG didn't EXPECT THIS.. now that im in college, just wondering what a guy would think about a girl being a virgin? Is it as bad as i think?
I understand that intercourse is important for a long term relationship.. so means, the chance of me having a relationship is thin (since i know for sure i dont want to have sex yet.
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