Does it matter what someone you’re attracted to is wearing?

Question

Say someone you’re really attracted to looks soo good when they’re all dressed up… but then you see them in sweats, messy hair, barely trying at all.

Are they still just as attractive to you, or does what they’re wearing actually change how you see them?

jshade2608 · Accepted Answer

no, its their personality, up bring, circle of friends, values and beliefs, interests and hobbies. but focusing on looks aspects as long as your comfortable in what "you" are wearing and you get great feedback "the good kind" and the person you are trying or want to attractive is indifferent and non judgmental then there should be no worries if you are doing the right thing.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It matters to a certain extent, but not that much. If I already consider her beautiful to my eyes , she can wear a trash bag for all I care because she will still be beautiful to me. , I just prefer being with a girl that likes to dress up when we go out , but when we are home , she can wear whatever

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Nope it doesn't. I'm attracted to them regardless of what they are wearing. They could look like a complete nerd like Sheldon off the Big Bang Theory one day and look totally chic the next and wouldn't care. It's about the person, not the fashion.

thegreenyogi · Accepted Answer

Well truth be told for me personally it doesn't matter because I'm attracted to that person regardless of what he is wearing. His dress code is part of the picture and adds to his overall attractiveness.

rose_noire · Answer

A little, but not how you think.

I'm not looking at the label or the price. I'm noticing if what they're wearing looks like them. Clean, cared for, intentional.

Clothes don't create attraction, they reveal it.

How someone carries themselves in them tells you if they respect themselves. That's what's attractive.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yes it matters cause they're more attractive when not trying while trying in a lot of cases comes across as fake, if one takes hours to get dressed and do makeup etc I assume they're pretty ugly without not that I'd mind but its the fact they try so hard to cover it... girl we gonna see you later at some point without it

Theoretical_Apulu · Answer

He looked handsome in our school uniform and he looks handsome when he comes to the coaching centre in the uniform shirt and sweats and he's handsome in his tank tops and he was handsome in that three piece suit he wore on high school farewell.

Anonymous · Answer

It could. I'm not going to say it is, because i'm not very judgmental. But there are clear signs that shows a woman's character, or rather LACK of it. Septum rings or any piercingss beyond the ears are ALWAYS a no go. Woman with big eye catching tattoos is a PASS. If she is wearing a skirt so short she needs two hairdoo's to wear it, that is also a "NO". if she has her ass hanging out of her shorts, she can miss me thank you very much. Cleavage, cleavage is another matter. This is a little hard to explain because all women show it. But there are some women that would put their nipples on display if they could. You's just going to have to trust that i know the line abd when they've crossed it.

Beyond this i'm not really that picky about what a woman wears.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Dress for the right occassions. Dress to fit nicely... that they care to some extend and not a slob.

For example, if we are going out on date, he should take a few minutes to put a nice outfit together. And not on over size sweat. Or just came from the gym.

stevenkelly · Answer

Yeah, it can matter a little, but confidence and how they carry themselves matter more than the actual outfit.
Someone can be dressed casually and still be incredibly attractive if they feel comfortable and confident. I might have preferences about certain styles, but I wouldn't want someone to dress a certain way just to impress me.

NathanDavis · Answer

did you know that... if you put one slice of pizza in the blender, blend it... then eat it afterwards... it's still going to taste like pizza... lol

Anonymous · Answer

I like my man i all kind of clothes because he looks good in anything. He is even sexier in sweatpants 🙈☺️

The only clothes i would nor want him to wear is looking like a street drog dealer or clothes with holes or gay short small tops, gay short or gay tank tops with holes.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Well, if I have a problem with what they are wearing, I probably wouldn't be attracted to them in the first place.

Clara4567 · Answer

If I am attracted to someone, I don't care about how he dresses, I would care only in specific situations.

Anonymous · Answer

I am attracted to the whole person. They are the same person no matter what. Eventually they'll see me disheviled too and I hope they still find me attractive lol

OneViewpoint · Answer

Zero impact. They can turn it on or off. That's all I need to know.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

A little bit, I guess. Looking like you just crawled out of a gutter isn't a pretty sight. 🤔

Kvass · Answer

Yes. I don't care how well he dresses, he just shouldn't be obsessed with fashion like gay dudes or wear pajamas outside like peasants. Keeping it simple is enough

chingsseeker · Answer

i think it matters more for the first impression than people admit lol. even just getting a second opinion on an outfit can help before going out. that's basically what mirrala is for , upload the outfit and get other people's opinions on it.

Chayce · Answer

I dont really like bohemian style clothing. Thats really about it

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Not necessarily but still that doesn't mean you aren't aware of an ugly fit when you see one tho 😂

Staximus · Answer

As long as she’s not going out in public looking like she’s for sale and getting me into fights when dirtbags try to get up on her

Hulk30 · Answer

i'd have to say yea here's why Women not dressin up is reflective of a lack of Sexual Attraction and can possibly be reflective of other Men actually bein prioritized over him

Deniz27 · Answer

Wearing is an important thing. I care for wearing and I think boys should be careful when they wear something.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I guess it depends on where she is. If she is at home or exercising it is one thing. If it is going out to dinner it is another.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

Ofc the outfits plays a big role in sexual attraction but if i love a woman, i'd love her the same in both ways!

Laulenke · Answer

I’m a casual dress person myself sweats and T shirt and no makeup is perfectly fine with me so if she want to wear a dress and makeup on a date that makes it a special night then

rgb008 · Answer

I am attracted to a tuxedo, and a tuxedo only on a human being

exitseven · Answer

When they are messy i think they are more attractive.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not really. I'm dating them, not their wardrobe.

convo_king89 · Answer

Yes. I've like the girl next door/down to earth look and if she is wearing regular panties even better.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

I'm always attentive to what my crush is wearing, even if it's just jeans and a rugby shirt.

zagor · Answer

Not very much. Some girls could pull off wearing a burlap sack.

Pterodon · Answer

What someone wears or doesn’t wear means nothing to me

Cody66 · Answer

Depends on the both parties really as long as there is still good hygiene practice I say dress how ya want but also time and place for everything.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

You better believe it matters 😄🍑😈

832dreamboy · Answer

I wouldn't date (and likely vice versa) a lady Trumpster in a MAGA cap and/or shirt !!!

Jeffmb · Answer

It doesn't matter what they wear i prefer to be naked

WhitneySnow · Answer

Doesn’t matter to me

DonaldDarko · Answer

No id still be attracted

Anonymous · Answer

Does it change for u

wfl_2000 · Answer

Nope , i want her naked 🤭

Anonymous · Answer

Hi again it’s me. Wear what you want

Agape93 · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

My wife looks good in anything

fish5505_87 · Answer

Sometimes, depends on situation, context.

Aphrodite820 · Answer

Depends on where we're going.

rini02 · Answer

Nope...

Paige2006 · Answer

Yes very mucj

smahala1991 · Answer

Kinda yes and no

FreyaRed · Answer

Not much

idontkno1 · Answer

Yes it matters.

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