What are the signs a guy is secretly married?

[Anonymous]

You meet a boy and he is like a secret box.

What do you think? How do you treat him?

[HollyK21]

What makes you think he’s keeping her a secret? Is it because he isn’t performing the behavior that you believe a married or taken person should perform? Because to me, that’s very subjective. In my relationship neither of us care to broadcast or relationship, we are PRIVATE, not secretive, when it comes to sharing with coworkers because our lives aren’t heir business. I go to work and hardly share a single thing about my life even to the people I consider moderately close. Everyone is different.

[DishLady]

"A secret box"? He's gay or he's just not interested in you.

He's married or committed = He's flirting with you but can never make plans with you; everything is an accidental run-in as if you're meeting for the first time. He's got a tan line on the finger where his ring should be. He'll buy you presents but not anything he wants to brag about. He'll take you to places he won't run into anyone he knows. He hails a taxi rather than getting you an uber/lyft...

[Marshast]

I have not dated anyone who is married. But here are the ones I noticed when they are lying through their teeth.

1. They can talk to you daytime/during work hours or just before they arrive home.
2. Not available during the weekends.
3. They are the only ones that can call you, and you can’t reach them.
4. They travel often, and you barely communicate during that time.
5. You do not know any of his close friends or even a family member.
6. Friends setting up the meetings and communication.
7. Can’t answer certain phone calls in around you.
8. When you are his priority, you will know There is no second guessing. If you’re not his priority aside from himself, he is the type to drop you in a heartbeat as he receives an important phone call.
9. Inconsistency.
10. If it looks odd to you, just call it out.

[Marshast]

12. With you he is a home-buddy, he likes quality time. He doesn’t bring you out to diner or anywhere public with him.
13. When he travels and he is not with the family that’s the only time you spend quality with each other. Or maybe he brings you with him on his business trips, but you never once get invited to his house.
14. The business trips might as well be the second family sometimes.

[Kvass]

Based on my friend's experience, always being busy on weekends. Always a new disaster happens to him every single weekend, his pet dies, his grandma falls down the stairs etc always excuses

[Asker]

I know it is an excuse. He probably makes up.

[Alex-Snow]

How well do you know him and how old is he? Does he have any lack of a suntan where his ring finger is? Or you can just ask him.

[Chris009800]

He always has a woman with him and he introduces her as his friend.

They're both in on the secret.

[Asker]

I follow you

[Asker]

Follow me. I agree with you

[Chris009800]

If I follow you back are you going to try to message me without having a profile picture?

[Abbycado]

Not much of a secret if you can tell.

[wkhan_87]

No sign actually