Do guys appreciate and like when a girl is still a virgin?

Question

I'm curious if there are guys who would appreciate a girl waiting till marriage, and that would wait for her if he likes her enough? Are there guys who respect a girl trying to stay pure till marriage?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

No.

I place zero value on virginity. I think the idea of purity is ridiculous.

When you pass through puberty you don't "lose" your childhood. And when you have sex you don't "lose" your virginity, you become an adult.

When considering marriage, I want to know that we have compatible values and similar desires for the future. I want to be familiar with her personality, habits, and lifestyle. Compatibility is essential if we are going to be together for the rest of our lives.

Sexual compatibility is equally important. So I would even consider marrying a woman unless we had been together long enough in an infatuated, monogamous relationship to know that we were compatible in every way.

Therefore, I wouldn't bother dating anyone who was "saving themselves" for marriage.

I also have to trust her. But if she doesn't love and trust me enough to give herself to me completely, I can't trust her. What is she hiding? Love is built on trust.

I would never coerce a woman into having sex. She has to want me. And when she does, it increases my love and attachment to her.

So sexually inhibited would make our values incompatible. I like normal girls who have libidos, like men, like sex, and want a boyfriend. I want someone who loves life, is willing to take risks, try new things, make mistakes, gain knowledge and wisdom, and live life on their own terms. Not someone who is waiting to be owned by a man. That is low self-esteem, submissive, slave mentality.

I married a woman who thinks for herself, is my best friend, and equal partner. We love and respect each other. I'm not her boss and she's not mine. We work together as a team and can count on each other. Our incomes pay for our lifestyle and future together. Major decisions are made jointly. We trust each other completely.

Both of us had lived full and fulfilling lives before we met. We had never been married or had kids but we weren't "virgins".

We've been happily married now for almost 28 years, had LOTS of fun, and built a wonderful life together.

MatureMan40 · Accepted Answer

Of course there are. I really appreciate you. You are a good girl! And stay like that! Don't listen anyone. If people love eachother, they should respect eachother. And yes, if someone loves you, he should wait for you untill marriage.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, they don't. They think, oh she's going to really remember me now and how they're breaking us in. Unless, you reach a guy who is also a virgin, which is rare, but possible. I've done virgins, was like figuring out how the controls on the oven works and the food was undercooked.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Some guys do, some don’t. It depends a little where they are in life.

ohsheeT · Answer

I've come out with both types of girls girls that have been with somebody.

And girls that want to wait till they get married.

I appreciate them I respect them. Otherwise I would not be with them.

But there's always one thing that seems to happen and that is in the beginning you make a deal you know what each person wants or expects from each other..

That's a crazy part is the girls that I have done that with that are waiting they know that I've had sex before.

In the moment we start making out I start getting questioned about it

And one thing leads to another to another and before you know it you're both totally turned on.

So down deep they want to experience that but because of what they believe in they fight that battle within...

And in the roundabout way that is a total turn on because they get so very hot and bothered when you're making out and even though your clothes are on they're still that touch that push to become one..

So I've always made the deal is they want to experience it of course I want to do it but if there is enough trust to respect and bond there you can have your cake and eat it too.

And that is by making the deal to where you can do anything and everything to your partner that you just can't have penetration

And what I mean by that is you can get naked you can have foreplay. . You can do everything except for have sex so rolling her over on top of me and pulling her hips forward and back and slow slow motion I'm a very slow motion pulling her down as I'm sliding her forward and then back she gets it chance to experience something honestly both can come but there's still no penetration involved so you're not actually having sex you're just having foreplay in slow slow motion and that's actually a little bit hotter than sex sometimes

SixFootSexy · Answer

I personally think it's the best way women can show their value as a wife. It shows you respect the institution of marriage, as well as your future husband and progeny.

It's much easier to for a man to trust a woman who didn't get around like the town bicycle before settling down. That being said, men do need sex to feel loved, so she can't have an unhealthy view of sex inside marriage. I have one friend whose wife believes that sex for procreation is "good" but everything else isn't, so that's no fun at all for him.

Berethor · Answer

Yea virgin girls are best because they are not hos, I think that it's right to wait till marriage.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It really depends on the age and reason, but I generally appreciate it, yes. I've found that women having more experience rarely seems to mean having good experiences. Having to clean up the damage left by another man isn't worth whatever modicum of benefit I might get from her experience.

I'd love to date a woman who had a long history of fantastic and fulfilling relationships with men who contributed to and enriched her life.

When a woman has past negative experiences, she may as well be a virgin, with the added barrier of trust issues.

20yearsolder · Answer

I'm sure there are tons of guys that would prefer their woman wait until marriage. I'm not one of them. I prefer a woman that has a little experience. That doesn't bother me at all. We can still learn what each other prefers, the things that they like done to them.

loveslongnails · Answer

Let me put it this way, I don't respect her "more" because she's a virgin, or "less" because she's not. The lack of sex before marriage, in and of itself, doesn't make you a respectable girl - it just means you haven't had sex with anyone yet. You can be an awful person in lots of other ways.

Anonymous · Answer

It's all good I suppose, but I'm not waiting until marriage for sex, and I wouldn't advise that for most people. If you DO want to wait until marriage, I would HIGHLY suggest dating within a religious community that shares that value as you'll have the best chance of finding a guy you like there. I'd also suggest getting married ASAP. No latter than early 20s and the earlier the better.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I think most men who are looking for serious relationship and marriage will like a woman to be a virgin, those that aren't looking for a serious relationship or marriage will be indifferent if a woman is a virgin or not.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I place value in virginity. If a girl i date is a virgin i will wait till marriage. If she isn't i won't. Virginity only changes how i feel toward having sex. I myself am a virgin and i the dating world has failed me. I once went on a date with a girl and she groped me and invited me to her place on the first date. I told her no and she got mad at me and self victimized herself. I do not tolerate sluts or victims.

Anonymous · Answer

only fuckboys, horndogs and sex addicts will say no because sex is all they care about

and then you have the slores who are bitter they are being rejected and no longer a viable preference for marriage

Staximus · Answer

It's better than being the old town bicycle, but I think 2 people should live together and have sex before they get married. People need to know if they are compatible living together and in the bedroom.

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

No... Honestly virginity is stupid these days... Girls have had so many dicks in their lives its hard to say or even think about let alone her cunt is reserved just for you and only you.. Women don't think like that... It's their bodies and guess what they will use it however they choose. some cock sleaves are better than most but then again it's a choice in taste.

Morgan_L · Answer

If you can wait good for you. I was tempted 😈❤️ and lost my 🍒

CrabCakes11 · Answer

Men who are obsessed with virginity are insecure and strange

Anonymous · Answer

100% My girl is a virgin waiting for marriage, and I'm doing the same. I think it's unfair for guys to want pure women when they're impure themselves.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Pedos and extreme right-wing Christians do. Normal people don't.

Goahead76 · Answer

Are you kidding? This is pure gold in the dating market these days.

RavVid · Answer

Yes. Would a man marry a prostitute? Hooking up and hooking aren't that much different.

luthorajames · Answer

Not particularly, I think. For me it shouldn't be a mater of men, but a matter of you. Do you think that giving your virginity to your husband is something important to you?

Nathanbanks04 · Answer

I personally do but even if she has slept with other people I wouldn't care

Juxtapose · Answer

No because it means she will have no experience and may do something like just lay there.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes we do. It's not a requirement or anything but it's nice. And if she wants to wait a real man would respect her wishes.

Adogdog · Answer

For sure! I'm still a virgin.

DreamLife7 · Answer

No, who wants to deal with someone inexperienced?

Alex-Snow · Answer

Sure it is her body and her choice

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Of course i do and you have my full support 😊

JonesT10Apr · Answer

Yes I like be with V, and accept who I am for her

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I certainly do

Anonymous · Answer

Stupid question.

OddBeMe · Answer

Only for the wrong reasons.

In_Trance · Answer

Being a virgin only matters to virgins

Lovemove · Answer

Who about the question

austinbooth · Answer

Yes I do

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes we do

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