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He got stressed over work. Somehow we got into an argument on the way home in the car. He tore my sunglasses off my face and threw them out the window. When we got home, I tried to cool off by going to wash my face. He ordered me to sit down, to which I responded I needed to wash my face. He then grabbed my wrists; I pulled back and resisted. He then slapped me so hard, I ended up on the ground. He threatened to hit me more and loomed over me for a while. I crawled on the floor to the bathroom with him continuing to follow and loom over me, threatening me and asking why I made him do this.
I snuck out of the house later, I stayed in a hotel room that night, and decided to stay. To this day, he says I was 60% the cause of this. I'm at a point where I have fully detailed my feelings to him, that I haven't been able to forgive him for slapping me, that I haven't been able to move on, abd that I don't trust him. He, in return, says I'm shooting him down and kicking him to the curb, not giving him a chance to make up for his actions and why haven't I gotten over this.
I love him, but not nearly as much as I used to. I'm hardly attracted to him. Our baby is 6 months old and I don't see a viable future with him if I can't bring myself to forgive him and move forward. He hasn't been abusive since and fully recognizes what he did was wrong, but that 60% my fault statement gets to me. Do I stay? Do I go? I was very clear on how I feel and that I do love him to an extent but that I'm stuck on this incident and I can't move forward. He's upset and hurt, but so am I. Any and all advice welcome.

What if u meet a good man who might be the right husband for you, but his appearance is not appealing AT ALL.
i have been through the situation when I'VE never been attracted to them physically (serious men who want to marry me) they like me n found me ATTRACTIVE. Unfortunately, the mutual attraction doesn't exist. It is always the one-sided attraction.

How can I marry a man who is good but not ATTRACTIVE?
How can I enjoy having sex with him?
How can I enjoy hugging, touching, kissing him?
And y'all know how important the sexual life is in a married couple!
I can't even imagine myself losing my virginity by a man who does not attract me?

My mom is against this. She says that sex is not that important (in marriage) so you don't have to care about his appearance since he's a good man that can protect and respect you n his kids. My mon n I always argue on this :/
Attraction is not EVERY THING there're more important things that should be taken into consideration when it comes to marriage. But ATTRACTION plays a BIIIIIG role too so that the marriage can be successful

What do you think guys have you ever been into this situation before?
have you ever got married to someone you were not physically attracted to, but then attracted you after marriage?