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Growing up, me and my sister were polar opposites. I was always really popular, had lots of friends, and all the guys liked me. My sister, on the other hand, was a loner, was constantly bullied in school, and could never get a boyfriend.
17 years ago, we fell head over heels for the same guy. Lucky for me, he chose me, we got married two years later, and now have two sons. Meanwhile, my sister, despite now being a beautiful, successful pole-dancing instructor with her own studio, has not been very lucky when it comes to love, is 42 and never been married, and just can't seem to get a guy's attention no matter how hard she tries. Me and my husband would often rub our relationship in her face by embracing each other, kissing, cuddling, holding hands, etc. in front of her and then laughing about her being jealous. I also would often brag about how well-endowed here is and how amazing our sex life is. When my sister protested, we would snap at her and tell her to grow up and stop being such a jealous loser.
2 years ago, I was diagnosed with esophageal cancer, had to have my entire esophagus removed, and now have to be hooked up to a feeding tube every night. My sister, now comes by to visit me pretty often. When she comes, she would eat in front of me or talk about delicious meals that she's recently eaten. This really irks me and I often have my husband reprimand her for being so insensitive to me. She would insist that it's payback for all the times me and my husband were insensitive to her feelings and brazenly showed affection for each other in front of her. She says that I'm a narcissistic hypocrite for flipping out when she eats in front of me.
Am I really a hypocrite for being offended by my sister eating/discussing food in front of me, knowing that I am now unable to eat or drink anything?

Let me state first of all that personally I DO think it’s okay for guys, including those with SO’s, to like other girls’ selfies on social media. And I would also like to clarify that I’m not talking about selfies of girls that are borderline pornographic, you know the kind I’m talking about. The kind I am talking about in this post, the ones that I think are harmless, I’ve included an example of (a guy I know’s fiancée got super mad at him for liking this pic of me on Instagram, and she made him unfollow me). The meme above is something a girl I know, who is married, posted on FB, but I don’t really agree with it (the part about selfies, let’s just ignore the stuff in the middle for now). Now, this girl is VERY insecure, is overweight, and is on her second marriage because her first husband only married her to get his Canadian citizenship, and as soon as he got it he started cheating on her. Now, her case is a bit extreme in terms of her insecurity, but I’ve met quite a few women, many of whom are very attractive, who get very jealous and irate if their husband or boyfriend, who, by all appearances seem to be very devoted to them, likes selfies of other women who are attractive. Do they have a point? Is liking other girls’ social media pics, or even just looking at them in their IG stories, and indication that they are attracted to these other women and are thinking of cheating? Or is that a bit irrational? I personally think it is. I think if a woman has a big problem with her man doing that, it’s a sign that she’s either very insecure, or there may be some underlying problems in the relationship, and deep down she’s afraid that he’s attracted to other women and might want to cheat. If so, I think those issues should be addressed in the relationship, because that level of distrust and jealousy, to the point where a man can’t like another girls’ pictures, is very unhealthy. But, that’s just my opinion. What do you all think?