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So my friend group is weird

This question is more for girls , I’d prefer a girls take in this question.

There’s one girl they all talk badly about since she’s more distant and I think I’m probably the same I just don’t know it because how would I hear it.

But I notice it with this other girl they act a bit miserable in her company and try to leave early etc.

Do they do the same to me?

I’m not negative at all, I’m up for dancing, karaoke but at the same time more of a quieter member of the group. I’ll have fun but I’m an introvert.

I do notice in the only one who gets hit on by guys. But I just say thanks and continue to have fun with my friends which is why I went out in the first place. I don’t talk about guys and I don’t bring it up like “omg did you see he spoke to me etc”. I just move on from it.

Yet whenever I’m not there they seem to do mroe on nights out and all enjoy it mroe.

Is it possible by me just being involved but more quit I “ruin the night” or lessen it or it’s better without me being there. I do have a more different sense of humour in that I am up for a laugh with literally anything and not bothered about embarrassing myself. But I don’t say or do things the group wouldn’t, like I’m not constantly making sex jokes or making a show of myself.

We met by him adding me on Facebook - we had friends in common that implied a horse rinding background. We got talking, and we just got on really well, and he was open and honest with me and asked me out on a first date.

We met up, we talked about everything from his previous relationships and marriage, to his addictions and time in prison. He talked about his career and his friends, about future plans over the next few years and joking about popping the question. I teased him by slightly pulling down my top so he could see my cleavage and his eyes widened and locked focus on them and he stood up to get a coffee and said "someone's pleased to meet you" and pointed to the outline in his jeans lol. We were at the pub for about 5 and a half/6 hours, and then he came back to mine. Accidentally met my dad and brother (thought they would be in bed!) and he stayed over at mine. He said "if it's okay, I don't want to do anything. I want to go slow and get it right, I have a history of rushing into things". (The insecure crazy female in me wonders if this was a nice way to say eww) We didn't kiss or have sex, we just cuddled together. We were up until about 3am.
Come morning, we watched TV in bed together for a few hours and I took him home about lunchtime. We both have health conditions and he needed to get home to take medicine and he said he was going to get some sleep and message me later. He hugged me and said he had a good time and we were very mature and proud of us. I gave him a kiss on the lips goodbye. And I left him be to get some rest.

I messaged him this morning because he left his vape liquid here and did he want me to bring it over. He said no thanks, I feel better how are you? And it's back to silence.

Do any of you have and advice on how to act and any inklings on how he feels? We were both full of excitement and couldn't stop talking to each other before we met; he was abused by his past couple of relationships so I don't wanna be a crazy woman!